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Why You’re Still Fat — Tough Love For Your Fitness Journey

  • Writer: Brainz Magazine
    Brainz Magazine
  • Jun 17, 2024
  • 4 min read

Meet Joe Tucker, the visionary behind Fresh Start Fitness. With a decade of fitness expertise, Joe's journey from personal trainer to entrepreneur is fueled by a passion for holistic wellness. At Fresh Start Fitness, he inspires clients to embrace sustainable lifestyle changes, transforming lives one workout at a time.

Executive Contributor Joe Tucker

Let’s face it, you’re struggling to lose body fat and missing your fitness and nutrition goals. It’s time for some tough love. No more excuses, no more half-measures. Here’s why you’re not hitting your targets and what you need to do to turn it around.


A fat woman that is frustrated.

1. You’re not in a healthy calorie deficit

The hard truth is, if you’re not losing body fat, you’re probably not in a calorie deficit. A calorie deficit means you’re consuming fewer calories than your body burns. It’s simple math. If you’re eating more than you’re burning, you won’t lose weight.


What to do: Start tracking your calories accurately. Use a food diary or an app to log everything you eat and drink. Weigh your food, measure portions, and be honest about your intake. Aim for a modest calorie deficit to ensure sustainable weight loss—around 500 calories per day is a good start. Don’t starve yourself; it’s about creating a balance.


2. You lack consistency in your fitness training

Showing up sporadically isn’t enough. One great workout followed by a week of laziness won’t cut it. Consistency is the cornerstone of any successful fitness regime.


What to do: Commit to a regular workout schedule. Find a routine that works for you and stick to it. Aim for at least three to four training sessions per week. Make it non-negotiable, just like brushing your teeth.


3. You’re exercising, not training

There’s a big difference between exercising and training. Exercising is random and lacks purpose; training is structured, goal-oriented, and progressive.


What to do: Stop winging it. Set specific goals—whether it’s losing a certain amount of body fat, building muscle, or improving endurance. Create a structured plan that progressively challenges you. Track your progress and adjust your plan as needed. If you’re unsure how to create a plan, consult a fitness professional.


4. You’re not getting enough daily movement

Even if you’re killing it in the gym, what are you doing the other 23 hours of the day? Being sedentary can undo all your hard work. Your body needs consistent, low-level activity throughout the day.


What to do: Aim for at least 10,000 to 12,000 steps every day. This isn’t a substitute for your workouts but an addition. Walk whenever you can. Take the stairs, park further away, and make movement a regular part of your day. Use a pedometer or a fitness tracker to monitor your steps.


5. You’re lying and breaking promises to yourself

This is the hardest pill to swallow, but it’s crucial. If you constantly make promises to yourself and break them, you’re undermining your own success. Whether it’s hitting the snooze button instead of working out or indulging in junk food despite your commitments, you’re sabotaging your progress.


What to do: Hold yourself accountable. Set clear, realistic goals and create a plan to achieve them. Write them down and review them daily. When you make a promise to yourself, keep it. Build integrity with yourself by following through on your commitments.


6. You’re not prioritizing sleep

Sleep is a critical component of fat loss and overall health. If you’re not getting enough quality sleep, you’re setting yourself up for failure. Poor sleep can disrupt your hormones, increase cravings, and decrease your energy levels, making it harder to stick to your fitness and nutrition goals.


What to do: Aim for 7-9 hours of quality sleep each night. Create a bedtime routine that helps you wind down. Shut off technology at least an hour before bed—this means no phones, tablets, or TVs. The blue light from screens can interfere with your sleep cycle. Instead, try reading a book, meditating, or taking a warm bath.


7. You’re overwhelmed by technology

Technology can be a double-edged sword. While fitness apps and online resources are helpful, constant notifications, social media, and screen time can distract you from your goals and add unnecessary stress.


What to do: Limit your screen time and be mindful of how you use technology. Set specific times for checking emails and social media and stick to them. Use your phone’s “Do Not Disturb” feature during workouts and at bedtime. Focus on being present in your workouts and in your daily life.


The bottom line

Losing body fat and hitting your fitness and nutrition goals isn’t easy, but it’s not impossible either. It requires discipline, consistency, and honesty. Get in a healthy calorie deficit, be consistent with your training, start training with purpose, move more every day, prioritize your sleep, and most importantly, stop lying to yourself.


It’s time to stop making excuses and start making progress. No more shortcuts, no more half-hearted attempts. You owe it to yourself to achieve your goals. Get out there and make it happen.


Ready to get after it?

Ready to take the first step towards a healthier, fitter you? Visit my website and fill out the contact form. Our team of professionals is here to help you create a personalized plan that works. No more excuses—start your journey today!


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Read more from Joe Tucker

Joe Tucker, Certified Trainer And Senior Fitness Specialist

Joe Tucker, the visionary owner of Fresh Start Fitness, is a beacon of inspiration in the fitness world. With expertise spanning senior fitness, weight loss, and oncology specialized fitness, Joe's passion lies in empowering individuals to reclaim their health and vitality. Through tailored programs and compassionate guidance, he has transformed countless lives, earning accolades for his innovative approach to wellness. Dive into his articles to discover the secrets behind his success and embark on your own journey to a healthier, happier you.

 
 

This article is published in collaboration with Brainz Magazine’s network of global experts, carefully selected to share real, valuable insights.

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