Why Confidence Is Built Through Action – An Interview with Simba Toko
- Jun 30
- 4 min read
Simba’s core philosophy is to build confidence alongside skill, he believes that competence grows when learners feel supported, motivated, and empowered. Through Simba Confidence Coach, he makes accredited learning, continuing professional development, and school PE support accessible, flexible, and tailored to individual needs.
Simba Toko, Simba Confidence Coach
Your career has taken you from elite football environments to international education and confidence coaching, what inspired you to bring those experiences together?
In football, I saw quickly that talent alone wasn’t enough, success depended on discipline, resilience, and the belief that you could perform under pressure. When I moved into education, I noticed many capable young people struggled not for lack of ability, but for lack of that same mindset. I realized the lessons from sport, setting goals, handling setbacks, building consistent habits, translated perfectly to learning and life. Bringing these worlds together made sense, I could combine the structure and drive of elite sport with the support and guidance of education, helping people develop both the skills and the self-belief to move forward.
You often say confidence grows alongside competence, what does that look like in practice when you're coaching someone?
It means confidence isn’t something you just “find”, it’s built through doing. I start by breaking goals into small, achievable steps. When a learner masters a basic skill, they see real progress, and that gives them a reason to trust themselves. Then we build from there, more complex tasks, constructive feedback, and gradually stretching their comfort zone. If they stumble, we frame it as part of learning, not failure. Over time, as their ability grows, so does their certainty that they can handle challenges. Competence provides the foundation, confidence becomes the fuel to keep going.
After working with students across the UK, Switzerland, and Italy, what have you learned about helping young people develop confidence that lasts?
Culture and environment change, but the core needs stay the same, young people need to feel seen, supported, and capable. I’ve found lasting confidence comes from two things, first, giving them control over their own progress, letting them make choices and learn from results. Second, connecting their efforts to a clear purpose, not just grades or marks. In every country, when students understand why they are learning and can see their own improvement, confidence sticks. It’s not about temporary praise, it’s about helping them build an internal sense of worth that stays with them wherever they go.
Why do you think vocational education is still underestimated as a pathway to personal and professional growth?
For too long, there’s been an outdated view that academic routes are the only “successful” paths. Vocational learning is often seen as a second choice, even though it builds practical, in-demand skills that employers actually need. It also connects learning directly to work and real life, which helps many people stay motivated and see their future clearly. The truth is, it’s not about which path you take, it’s about whether it fits your strengths and interests. When we undervalue vocational education, we limit opportunities for people to thrive in ways that suit them best.
Your work with NEET learners connected qualifications to real employment opportunities, what lessons from that experience continue to shape your programs today?
I learned that many young people who are out of education or work haven’t lost ability, they’ve lost connection to what matters. The biggest barrier wasn’t skill, but motivation and trust. We had to show them that learning leads to tangible results, a qualification, a chance to try a role, a clear next step. Today, every program I design links learning directly to real outcomes. We don’t just teach content, we explain how it applies, give hands-on experience, and build the belief that progress is possible. That focus on purpose and results remains at the heart of what I do.
For someone who wants to build confidence but doesn't know where to begin, what first step would you recommend?
Start with one small, specific action you can complete today. Confidence never starts with big changes, it starts with taking control of something manageable. If you want to improve a skill, spend 20 minutes learning or practicing it. If you want to feel more capable, set a simple goal and stick to it. Each time you follow through, you prove to yourself that you can do what you set out to do. Over time, those small wins add up. The key is to stop waiting for confidence to appear and start doing the things that will build it.
How do your accredited courses balance practical skills with the mindset needed to apply them confidently?
We split the work into two connected parts. First, we teach the hard skills, the knowledge and techniques required for the qualification, through hands-on practice and real-world scenarios using the actual specification. Second, I enable students to complete assignments realistically with the option to speak their thoughts into text/writing. Many students are stronger in verbal communication, and this is their preferred method of interaction with clients, customers, and day-to-day living, so why not be able to do likewise in formal assessments?
What has your own journey taught you about the relationship between confidence, discipline, and lifelong learning?
I’ve learned they are inseparable. Discipline is what keeps you going when motivation fades, it’s the daily effort that builds skill. Lifelong learning keeps you growing and adapting, so you never feel stuck or outdated. Confidence is the result, when you know you have the discipline to improve and the willingness to keep learning, you stop fearing challenges. My journey showed me that confidence isn’t a fixed trait, it’s something you maintain through consistent work, curiosity, and the choice to keep moving forward.
If you could leave readers with one idea about unlocking their potential, what would you want them to remember?
Your potential is not limited by where you start, it’s limited by what you believe you can do. Too many people stop early because they think they aren’t “good enough.” But every skill, every strength, and every level of confidence is built step by step. You don’t have to be perfect to start, you just have to be willing to try, learn, and keep going. The key to unlocking your potential is simply trusting the process and knowing that small, consistent effort will always lead to meaningful change.
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