The Rhyme of Being – Finding the Rhythm That Turns Grind into Grace
- Brainz Magazine
- Oct 20
- 3 min read
Updated: Oct 21
Written by Martha Maria Smith, Bilingual Coach
Martie Smith's journey as a Resilience Ambassador began in Colombia and highlights her steadfast strength and adaptability, from her service in the US Air Force, to becoming a Radiation Therapist and a certified personal trainer at 62. An internationally acclaimed author and Poet Laureate, she mentors young individuals and shares her expertise.
There’s a rhythm to life that many of us forget to dance to. We run, hustle, check boxes, and chase achievement, but somehow the melody still feels offbeat. We reach for what we want to have, push ourselves to do more, and lose sight of who we are meant to be. But life, in its purest form, is not a checklist, it’s a song. And every dream worth living has rhyme, resonance, and rest between the notes. When we rediscover that rhythm, life begins to flow with grace instead of grind.
1. The rhyme of being
Being is your inner tone, the note that hums quietly before any action takes shape. When you choose to be grateful instead of fearful, grounded instead of rushed, and authentic instead of approved, the world begins to harmonize with that frequency.
Your being is your original music. It’s what enters the room before you even speak. It’s the steady pulse that keeps your actions true and your purpose clear. When you begin with being, you stop chasing alignment and start living it. That’s when life feels like poetry in motion.
2. The resonance of doing
When your being is tuned, your doing finds rhythm. Action no longer feels forced, it flows from integrity. Think of a carpenter’s steady hands, a mechanic’s rhythm, a photographer’s instinct, each act becomes an expression of who they are.
Resilient people don’t perform to impress, they create to express. Every step becomes a verse, every effort a beat in their life’s song. Your doing becomes more effective, not because you’re trying harder, but because it’s resonating with who you truly are.
3. The reward of having
When being and doing align, what you have is no longer random, it’s resonant. Peace, connection, and success become reflections of your inner harmony.
Having isn’t about possession, it’s about reflection. You don’t chase results, you attract mirrors. The world echoes back the energy you bring to it. True abundance begins when you stop striving to have more and start becoming more of who you already are.
4. The resilient equation
Most people live life backward. Have, do, be. They think, “When I have enough money, time, or confidence, I’ll do what I love and finally be happy.”
But those who thrive reverse the formula. Be, do, have. They say, “When I am aligned, I do with purpose, and naturally have what matters most.”
This is the rhythm of resilience, the art of tuning your inner instrument before playing the world’s song. It’s a daily practice of remembering that joy is not something to earn, it’s something to embody.
5. Living in rhyme: A practice
Every morning, pause and ask yourself three questions:
Who will I be today? (Choose one word, kind, brave, peaceful, curious.)
What will I do that aligns with it? (A small, intentional action.)
What will I have as a result? (Not a possession, but a feeling, joy, calm, clarity.)
Write it down. Repeat it tomorrow. Watch your rhythm shift. This simple awareness turns routine into ritual and effort into energy. When you live with intention, every moment becomes music in motion.
6. The harmony of collective being
When one person begins to live in tune with their truth, it creates resonance around them. Aligned people spark alignment in others. A calm leader inspires calm teams. A kind teacher grows confidence in students. A resilient soul radiates stability in chaos.
This is how collective transformation begins, not from massive movements, but from millions of individuals choosing to be the change in small, daily ways. Each aligned heart adds a new note to the global song of resilience.
Final thought
Resilience isn’t resistance, it’s rhythm. It’s remembering that life plays smoother when you stop fighting the tempo and start moving with it. When you live in tune with your essence, even storms become part of your music.
The universe doesn’t reward exhaustion, it responds to resonance.
Be. Do. Have.
In that order, and life will always sing back to you.
Read more from Martha Maria Smith
Martha Maria Smith, Bilingual Coach
Martie Smith's journey as a Resilience Ambassador began in Colombia and highlights her unwavering strength and adaptability. She exemplifies resilience from her service in the US Air Force to become a Radiation Therapist and certified personal trainer at 62. As an internationally acclaimed author and poet, Martie mentors young individuals, sharing her expertise and spreading messages of hope and resilience globally as a captivating speaker.
