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The Gift 7 – The Coordinates of Your Remembering

Dec 18, 2025
4 min read

Free Kinlow is loved for her intuitive coaching style and her ability to help others discover and uncover their spiritual giftedness. She is the founder of Freedom Love Experience coaching service and The Gift Shoppe, a virtual workshop designed to support participants in learning how to identify and tap into their spiritual gifts.

Executive Contributor Fredrica Kinlow

Welcome to The Gift Shoppe, a sacred space of remembrance. Each offering is a frequency, a revelation, a soul whisper wrapped in divine timing. This is Gift 7: The Coordinates of Your Remembering.


A glowing orange map pin set against a starry sky, with latitude and longitude lines and coordinates like 42°, -70° marked on a grid.

If you read Gift Six, the aha moment was clear:


As you remember who you are, everything that is yours arrives.

That truth stayed with me. And the more I sat with it, the more I realized something deeper. Remembrance doesn’t just expand your consciousness. It corrects your coordinates. It places you at the exact vibrational “address” where your blessings have been waiting.


Why coordinates matter


Once I understood that, I began thinking about how often we try to manifest outcomes without first checking whether we are even located in the frequency where those outcomes exist. It’s not that the blessing is running from you. It’s that the blessing is trying to arrive at your real address, not the temporary version of you shaped by fear or doubt. Your blessings are programmed to find the aligned you, the remembered you.


The GPS analogy


This works the same way a GPS works. You can have the right destination in mind, but if your starting location is wrong or the routing information is incomplete, you’ll be guided to the wrong place every time. Identity functions the same way. The universe cannot guide you accurately when the internal information you are broadcasting is incomplete.


For example


My office address included a directional marker, SE. Without it, even with the correct building number and street name, clients would arrive at the wrong location. If “SE” was left out, the GPS consistently guided them to a different building just down the street. Whenever someone called saying they were lost, the first question I asked was always the same. “Did you include SE?”


Almost every time, that’s what was missing. Being close wasn’t enough. The destination was still wrong because the coordinates were incomplete.


Identity works exactly the same way


You can pray, visualize, affirm, and take action, but if the energetic marker of your identity is missing, your blessings will land near your life, but not in it. You’ll feel like you are touching the edges of breakthrough, but never fully arriving. Your spiritual address is incomplete until you step into the version of yourself your destiny is coded to meet.


When you rise into who you truly are, opportunities find you, love recognizes you, and clarity sharpens. You become the address. You become the coordinate. You become the signal your blessings respond to. This is what remembrance actually does. It restores your true location.


Activation exercise: Returning to your coordinates


  • Step 1: Sit still. Take a slow inhale. Let your awareness settle into your body.

  • Step 2: Place a hand on your heart. Ask yourself, “What version of me is trying to emerge right now?”

  • Step 3: See that version. Imagine them standing one step in front of you, calm, clear, aligned.

  • Step 4: Step into the frequency. Lean your body forward an inch, as if stepping into that identity. Speak, “I step into the coordinates of who I truly am. I return to my true identity. I stand at the address of my destiny. Everything meant for me can now find me.”

  • Step 5: Hold for 20 seconds. Let your energy stabilize. You are now aligned with your true coordinates.


This is not a one-time exercise. It is a recalibration.


Each time you pause, remember, and realign, you return to the coordinates of your true self. And from that place, life responds differently, not because you are trying harder, but because you are finally standing where you belong.


You don’t need to search for what is meant for you. You only need to remain where you are most aligned. When you do, everything that is yours knows exactly where to find you.


And as my mama would say, “It just keeps getting gooder and gooder.”


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Fredrica Kinlow, Intuitive Life Coach

Free Kinlow is a world-renowned Intuitive Life Coach and spiritual gift cultivator. Since the tender age of five, she demonstrated an organic level of awareness of kindred spirits through her God-Given intuitions. She was not fully aware of her assignment in life, but was drawn to embrace other people. She enjoys living life in the realm of service and uses her love, clarity, and intuitive gifts to meet people where they are and support them in their healing and growth. Her motto is that every soul is beautiful if you look with the Eye of God.

This article is published in collaboration with Brainz Magazine’s network of global experts, carefully selected to share real, valuable insights.

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