Stop Waiting – The Life You Want Requires Action, Not Permission
- Brainz Magazine
- 6 days ago
- 4 min read
Valerie Priester empowers high-achieving women entrepreneurs who know they’re capable of more to break through internal barriers and scale with purpose.
There is a quiet heartbreak I see in so many high-achieving women. They are capable. They are intelligent. They are deeply gifted. And yet, they are waiting. Waiting for clarity. Waiting for confidence. Waiting for life to slow down enough to finally begin.
The problem is not that they lack vision. The problem is that they have been taught to believe that action should come after certainty, that confidence should arrive before movement, and that readiness is a prerequisite for progress. It is not.
Waiting is not neutral. Waiting costs momentum, self-trust, and time you do not get back.
The myth of “this is my year”
Every January, the declarations return. “This is my year.” “I’m finally going to do it.” “I’m done playing small.” And for a moment, it feels true.
But then real life shows up. Work gets busy. Family needs attention. Fear whispers that now is not the right time. And slowly, quietly, the same pattern repeats. The goal does not disappear. It simply moves to the background again.
What most women do not realize is that waiting does not come from laziness or lack of ambition. It comes from self-protection. Waiting feels safer than risking disappointment, wiser than making the wrong move, and responsible when we have been taught to put everyone else first. But safety and stagnation often wear the same disguise.
Why waiting keeps you stuck
After years of coaching heart-centered women entrepreneurs, I can say this with clarity. The women who feel the most stuck are not unsure of what they want. They are unsure of themselves. They have learned to second-guess their instincts, over-prepare instead of act, and delay decisions until someone else validates them. Over time, this erodes self-trust. And without self-trust, even the best strategy will stall.
Waiting teaches your nervous system that you cannot be trusted to move forward without guarantees. Action, even imperfect action, teaches the opposite.
Action builds confidence, not the other way around
Confidence is not a personality trait. It is a byproduct of action. You do not wake up one morning suddenly ready. You become ready by keeping small promises to yourself.
Sending the message you have been avoiding. Raising your rate even if your voice shakes. Showing up consistently instead of restarting every few weeks. Each action becomes evidence. Each step strengthens trust. Each follow-through rewires belief. This is how confidence is built. Quietly. Repeatedly. Honestly.
The cost of waiting versus the reward of movement
Waiting feels harmless, but it carries a hidden cost. It costs the income you are capable of earning, the impact you are meant to make, and the version of you who knows she is meant for more.
Movement, on the other hand, does not require perfection. It requires commitment. What must you be committed to? Acting before you feel ready, choosing progress over comfort, and trusting yourself enough to begin.
The women who change their lives are not the most fearless. They are the most willing to move while fear is present.
A different way forward
If you are tired of telling yourself that this is your year, only to repeat the same patterns, consider this instead. What if this is the year you stop waiting? What if you act without full certainty? What if you decide that your desire is reason enough to begin?
To make this happen, you do not need permission, more time, or to become someone else first. You need to move. Get in action. Because the life you want is not on the other side of readiness. It is on the other side of action.
Ready for a stronger, simpler, more aligned new year?
If you’ve been waiting long enough, I can help you reset and rise with aligned action and intention. Book a free Next Level Clarity Session with me. Together, we will map out the first aligned moves that get you out of “waiting” mode and into action that supports your life and your business. Click here to schedule your next level clarity session.
Or download my free guide, Break Through Your Confidence Plateau. Rebuild self-trust. Release old stories. Step into your next level with clarity. Click here to get your guide now.
Designing your victory is a choice. Start by taking one bold step today.
Valerie Priester, Mindset & Strategy Catalyst for Women Entrepreneurs
Valerie Priester empowers high-achieving women entrepreneurs who know they’re capable of more to break through internal barriers and scale with purpose. As Founder of Victorious Life Coaching LLC, Valerie blends deep mindset work with values-aligned business strategy, ensuring her clients don’t just set bold goals, they implement them with confidence and consistency.
