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Rising from Pain to Craft a Legacy of Healing

  • Writer: Brainz Magazine
    Brainz Magazine
  • May 8
  • 5 min read

An accomplished leader with 15 years of experience in the professional services industry, I am currently President and CEO of (Extraordinary Headhunters LLC). Demonstrated ability to improve the business performance of multi-billion dollar businesses and a strong record of consistent, above-market revenue and profit growth.

Executive Contributor Kiara Streater

In the midst of city life, a hidden retreat offers a quiet space where the warm glow of a candle can spark a journey toward deep recovery. Mrs. Shawna Sidner, founder of Sugar Mama’s Candle Bar, has transformed personal hardship into a powerful mission of healing. Her life is a master class in resilience, overcoming early trauma and an emotionally draining relationship by turning personal struggle into an art form that offers hope and strength.


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A healing journey from the depths of adversity


Shawna Sidner's early years were marked by relentless challenges, leaving her spirit weighed down by the scars of childhood trauma and an oppressive relationship. It was during a pivotal moment of self-discovery that she found solace in the art of crafting healing products. What began as a simple ritual of candle-making soon expanded into a broader practice, encompassing body butters and essential oils, tools for reclaiming her identity and rebuilding her life, piece by piece.


"In those moments of pouring wax and blending oils, I discovered my strength," Shawna reflects. "Each creation became a testament to my will, a declaration that my past does not dictate my future."


Through her handcrafted candles, nourishing body butters, and soothing oils, Shawna has not only found her own path to healing but also inspired others to embrace their journeys of resilience and self-discovery. Her story serves as a powerful reminder that even in our darkest times, we have the ability to create light and nurture our spirits.


Birth of a movement: Sugar Mama’s candle bar


Shawna’s healing journey gave birth to Sugar Mama’s Candle Bar, a handcrafted collection that transcends the ordinary. Each candle, body butter, and oil is infused with intention and care, serving as a powerful reminder that healing is a continuous journey. Rooted in self-respect and emotional restoration, Shawna’s creations are more than just products; they are tools for transformation.


Every item in her collection reflects a piece of her story, embodying resilience and strength. Shawna believes that true healing comes from within, and her work encourages others to explore their own paths to recovery. "Healing is not a destination; it's a journey we take every day," she says, emphasizing the importance of self-love and perseverance.


With Sugar Mama’s Candle Bar, Shawna has not only crafted beautiful products but also built a community of support and empowerment. Each creation inspires individuals to embrace their struggles and turn them into sources of strength.


A personal reflection on resilience


I’ve stood witness to Shawna’s journey from the very start. The moment I encountered her creations, I recognized the profound sense of calm they exude. Through her work, Shawna has converted her struggles into tools that help others rise above their challenges. Her products are not simply wax or oil; they are a living embodiment of resilience and encouragement. Each candle, body butter, and oil carries the essence of transformation, serving as a testament to the healing journey. They resonate with the stories of those who have faced adversity and emerged stronger, offering a tangible reminder that change is possible. Shawna’s creations inspire individuals to embrace their own paths, turning everyday moments into celebrations of self-love and growth.


Beyond candles: Building a future of support


In September 2025, Shawna will take on the role of Chief Spiritual & Mentor Officer with Extraordinary Healing Wellness, marking an exciting new chapter in her journey. Her vision extends far beyond the candle bar. She is launching a comprehensive mentorship and wellness program specifically designed for young adults navigating the aftermath of trauma.


Golden candle set with lotion pump, ribbon, and flowers on a glittery brown background. Text reads "Sugar Mama's Candle Bar." Luxurious vibe.

This initiative aims to provide essential emotional tools, creative outlets, and a nurturing community where sharing stories and finding support become integral parts of daily healing. Shawna believes that healing thrives in connection, and through this program, she seeks to empower young individuals to transform their experiences into sources of strength.


Transforming life’s milestones


Shawna’s commitment to healing is also evident in her partnerships. Collaborating with Isn’t She Lovely Bridal Boutique, she creates custom gifts that infuse special moments with gentle reassurance and hope. These products remind us that even during life’s most significant celebrations, strength and compassion remain at the heart.


"Every bride deserves a day filled with peace and beauty. Our creations are a reminder of the love surrounding her and the inner strength she carries."— Shawna Sidner

A life defined by love and courage


As a devoted mother and grandmother, Shawna’s greatest inspiration comes from her family. Their presence fuels her determination to keep creating, keep healing, and keep giving hope to others through her art.


"My children and grandchildren are my anchor. Their love inspires me to rise above any dark moment and to keep forging a path of renewal."— Shawna Sidner

Transforming pain into purpose


Through Sugar Mama’s Candle Bar, Shawna Sidner invites us to see that every struggle can be reimagined as a stepping stone toward a better future. Her creations serve as daily affirmations that even the deepest wounds can heal and evolve into something truly powerful.


"There is a plan for every heartache. Our most challenging times can be the very moments that guide us toward strength and healing for ourselves and others."— Shawna Sidner

Conclusion


Shawna Sidner’s story is an inspiring testament to the strength of the human spirit. With her handcrafted candles, oils, and body butters, she offers more than beauty; she provides a pathway to recovery and resilience. Her work is a call to all who have suffered, reminding them that renewal and empowerment are possible, even in the aftermath of life’s hardest battles.


If you are seeking a spark of hope and a tangible reminder of your own strength, Shawna Sidner and Sugar Mama’s Candle Bar are here to guide you. Every creation is a message: you are strong, you are capable, and your journey toward healing matters.


"Light a candle, and remember that you hold the power to turn your struggles into triumph."— Shawna Sidner

Where to find Shawna’s creations


Discover Shawna’s carefully crafted products at her online shop on Etsy. Visit Sugar Mama’s Candle Bar on Etsy to experience these healing creations for yourself.


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Read more from Kiara Streater

Kiara Streater, CEO & Business Powerhouse

An accomplished leader with 15 years of experience in the professional services industry, I am currently President and CEO of (Extraordinary Headhunters LLC). Demonstrated ability to improve the business performance of multi-billion dollar businesses and a strong record of consistent, above-market revenue and profit growth. Skilled at creating market opportunity and growth through innovative business strategy, process/technology transformation, and implementing complex technology and research-based solutions. Expertise working globally; attracting, developing, and leading top talent; fostering diversity; and building high-performance cultures for 6,000+ person organizations.

This article is published in collaboration with Brainz Magazine’s network of global experts, carefully selected to share real, valuable insights.

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