Manifest Your Dreams by Investing in Yourself
- Brainz Magazine
- May 8
- 10 min read
Written by Dayn Conrad, Land Investment Specialist
I am a 35-year businessman and a 20-year real estate agent and regional director in land investment wealth strategies, with a team of 16 agents today. It is my passion to bring the age-old concept of land banking to kitchen tables across the globe to enhance wealth. Today I manage and am responsible for the sales and training of my team.
As children, we dreamed big, no limits, no doubts. We imagined changing the world, inventing the impossible, and becoming wildly successful. Why? Because no one had told us we couldn’t, not yet. But over the years, that bold, limitless voice inside us got quieter. Life, expectations, and fear crept in. We did what we were told instead of what we dreamed. The good news? That voice never died. And today, you can bring it back.
This is your invitation to reignite your imagination, trust your inner drive, and take bold steps toward the life you’ve always wanted. Let’s start by investing in the most important asset you have: yourself.
1. Reignite your unstoppable imagination and drive
Think back to when you were a child, do you remember how unstoppable your imagination felt? You could dream up anything: building rockets, creating inventions, changing the world. Back then, impossible didn’t exist. It only entered our vocabulary when someone told us we couldn’t.
Here’s the truth: “Impossible” is just a perspective shaped by limited knowledge, not by reality. It’s not about your income, where you live, or what car you drive. Most of the boundaries we accept are self-imposed, rooted in fear or doubt passed down by others.
Yes, life throws real obstacles at us, but they’re not cement shoes. They’re just hurdles. And like children who leap without hesitation, you can learn to jump again.
Even in science and innovation, the principle remains: if you can imagine it, you can create it. Many of today’s everyday realities began as someone’s wild dream. So stop tearing yourself down in the mirror. Start building yourself back up. Encourage the dreamer inside you, because that dreamer still wants to play, create, and transform the world.
Creating your reality with intention, and a little playfulness
Imagine if our schools didn’t just teach the basics, math, science, language, but also taught us how to build, explore, and innovate from those foundations. What if we were encouraged to play with knowledge, to stretch it, remix it, and create something new?
That mindset doesn’t have to end when we grow up.
Many of us feel stuck, invisible, or just “useful enough” in our adult lives, conditioned to keep our heads down, follow the rules, and settle. But you don’t have to stay there. With a little planning and a lot of spirit, you can break that cycle and bring back the version of yourself that used to dream fearlessly.
Start by making it fun again. Yes, fun. This isn’t about grinding until you break. It’s about awakening your creativity, passion, and curiosity. Rekindle your inner child, the one who sees endless possibilities.
Two ground rules for dreaming boldly
Don’t hurt others, or yourself, in the process: Your dreams don’t require destruction, revenge, or resentment. Those paths cost more than they return.
Kindness, joy, and empathy are your power tools: You’ll achieve more by lighting up a room than by instilling fear. If you’re having fun and lifting others along the way, you’re doing something right.
Just say, “So?!”
From an early age, we’re taught to fit in. Society tells us, “Don’t rock the boat. Don’t make noise. Settle for what you have.” But what if you didn’t listen? What if you decided that your dreams are worth more than playing it safe?
What do you stand to gain by following your dreams?
Everything. Your fulfillment, your purpose, and the joy of knowing you gave it your all.
What will you sacrifice by staying small?
Your peace of mind. Your sense of self. And that restless ache will only grow.
There are people who spend their entire lives wondering what if, but you don’t have to be one of them. It's okay to say, “No! I’m not giving up!” You get to choose your path, despite the naysayers, and you get to keep going.
When people tell you how dangerous it is, or that it’s too risky, remember: their fear is not your fear. So, when they ask, “What if it doesn’t work out?” your answer is simple: “So?!” Keep going, no matter what. Keep learning. Keep growing. Keep creating.
Write down your dreams and ideas
I can’t stress this enough: write it down. Whether it’s in a journal, on your phone, or stuck to a vision board, putting your dreams on paper gives them life. Sure, some ideas might seem wild, but aiming for the moon is far better than never trying at all.
If you're more visual, gather magazines, create a vision board, and let the images fuel your imagination. If words resonate with you more, dive into your favorite books, cafés, or local bookstores for inspiration.
Break them down to achievable points
Dreams are wonderful, but without a clear path to turn them into reality, they can stay locked away in your mind. So let’s break them down into manageable steps.
Goals are only vague dreams without a timeline.
To make your dreams real, get specific. Create an outline. Break down your vision into small, actionable steps. What do you need to do? What resources or skills will you need? When do you want to achieve this? Without deadlines, it’s just a wish. With a plan, it becomes a project.
Relevance and measurability
Now, ask yourself: is this achievable with today’s technology and knowledge?
If yes, awesome! Now, what’s your first move? If not, don’t let that stop you. There’s no reason you can’t build that knowledge. Everything that hasn’t been created yet just means it hasn’t been discovered.
Think about the disruptors of today, companies and people who changed industries. They didn’t wait for the world to give them permission. They went out and created. You can be the next one.
Don’t listen to the naysayers
We all know them, the people who find joy in telling us why things won’t work. They may be well-meaning, but they’re often limited by their own fears or experiences. The more you share your ideas, the more you risk hearing, “It can’t be done.”
Instead of engaging with negativity, find your circle of support. These are the people who believe in you, who cheer for your success even when your ideas seem a little crazy. Surround yourself with those who see your potential, not your limitations.
Mapping, mapping, mapping
There’s no time like the present to start mapping your ideas. And there’s no age too late to start, either. Just begin.
Many of the world’s brightest minds didn’t hit their stride until later in life. There’s no shame in that. They didn’t quit. They kept going, even when people doubted them. And their ideas, groundbreaking, revolutionary ideas, are still changing the world today.
The naysayers of their time called them crazy, insane, or even dangerous. But those voices don’t matter. You don’t need the world’s approval to follow your path. Just keep building your map. Keep going. Because those ideas you have today could be the next big thing in tomorrow’s world.
Build your book of knowledge
You are the expert when it comes to your ideas. Keep track of them. Even if they seem extreme or unachievable now, those ideas may become the spark for something big.
Start a knowledge library, whether it’s digital or physical. Collect quotes, articles, images, and anything that fuels your vision. Your library will become your go-to resource as you grow your idea. Don’t rely on memory, it will fail you. Instead, create a collection of inspiration and research that you can pull from whenever you need a boost.
Remember, most “A-ha!” moments happen by accident, while you're digging and searching. So take notes. Keep track of your thoughts. The pieces will come together when you least expect it.
Allow yourself to fail
You will fail. You will fall. You will get battle scars. And that’s okay. It’s part of the process.
Don’t expect everything to go smoothly. Perfection is a myth. If you’re chasing it, you’ll burn out. Instead, embrace the lessons in every setback. Failure is just a stepping stone on the way to success.
As Oscar Wilde said, “We are all in the gutter, but some of us are looking at the stars.” Failure isn’t the end, it’s a chance to learn, grow, and keep moving forward. The only true failure is giving up.
Learn to step away
We’ve all seen the obsessive character in movies, working nonstop, never resting, and sacrificing everything for the goal. But it’s okay to step away.
Sometimes, the best ideas come when you give your mind a break. Go for a walk, take a trip, enjoy time with friends. Stepping back gives your brain a chance to reset.
When you feel stuck, don’t force it. Sometimes, the solution is right in front of you, but you need to clear your head to see it. Rest is not a sign of weakness; it’s an essential part of the creative process.
Who are your mentors?
You don’t have to do it all alone. Your ego shouldn’t be a barrier to asking for help.
Find mentors who inspire you, who have walked the path before you, and who can guide you through the tough spots. They’ll help you avoid unnecessary mistakes and may even offer insights that you hadn’t thought of.
No one achieves success completely by themselves. Everyone has been influenced, helped, or inspired by someone along the way. So, find those people, whether they’re mentors, peers, or even friends who push you to be better.
Focus on your strengths
It’s important to recognize what you’re good at and lean into those strengths. But also acknowledge the areas where you struggle. If you're trying to do everything, you’ll wear yourself out. At some point, you’ll need help.
Make a list of your strengths and weaknesses. For the areas where you’re not as skilled, find others who can fill in the gaps. Delegate tasks that aren’t your forte so you can focus on the parts of the project that align with your strengths.
Never forget to reward yourself
You’re investing in yourself, and that means recognizing the effort you put in. Take time to celebrate even the small wins.
It’s easy to keep pushing without acknowledging how far you’ve come. But rewarding yourself along the way is crucial for maintaining motivation and avoiding burnout. You don’t have to give yourself a gold star for every little thing, but make sure you’re taking care of your physical, mental, and emotional well-being.
And yes, sometimes that means treating yourself to a well-deserved break or even a little indulgence. You’re doing this for you, and you deserve to enjoy the journey.
Relationships matter
Many people think, “I’ll focus on my success first, and relationships will come later.” Don’t wait. Relationships, whether romantic, familial, or platonic, are key to a fulfilling life and your journey.
True success isn’t just about achieving your goals; it’s about having people who support and challenge you along the way. I’ve been in a 31-year relationship with the same person, and I can tell you, relationships require effort, but they are essential to your growth.
If you’re only taking from your relationships, it’s time to reflect on your own actions. Give more than you take, it’s the 50/50 rule. Successful relationships, just like your dreams, require work, trust, and care.
When you build relationships that truly nurture you, they’ll help you grow and help push you toward your goals. The people you surround yourself with can either support your dreams or drag you down. Choose wisely.
Your time is valuable, don’t waste it
We’ve already talked about the importance of healthy relationships and learning to say “no” to things that drain you. Your time is your most precious asset, so don’t waste it.
Stand your ground when it comes to protecting your time. You don’t have to be rude or dismissive, but it’s okay to prioritize what matters most. If someone or something drains your energy, question why you’re still investing in it.
As we grow older, we realize that life’s experiences are what we cherish most. Surround yourself with people, places, and things that recharge you, not ones that leave you feeling depleted.
Your home space is important
Whether you’re in your dream home or not, it’s essential to make the place you live a reflection of who you are.
Too many people wait until they have “enough” to create a space they love. You don’t have to wait. You can make any space your own, even if it’s just a small apartment or rented room.
Look for inexpensive ways to make your space feel more like “you.” You can find creative ways to express your personality without breaking the bank. By making your environment feel comfortable and inspiring, you’ll have a better foundation for success.
When you do get your dream space, you’ll already know how to make it uniquely yours. So start today by adding small touches of personal flair.
The ultimate message
Are you ready to start? The truth is, there’s never a perfect moment to begin. But every step, no matter how small, gets you closer to your dream.
It may be intimidating, but you have the power within you to succeed. I’ve started countless ventures in my 58 years, and each time it gets easier because I know I have what it takes. The most important thing is to keep moving forward, even when you feel uncertain.
You don’t have to change everything all at once. Begin with small steps. Maybe it’s painting a wall a color that inspires you or adding a bit of color to your wardrobe. These small changes can ignite creativity and motivation.
This is your life, your journey, and your dreams. You owe it to yourself to pursue them. And along the way, don’t forget to make it fun, add some fireworks, some sparkle, and enjoy the process.
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Dayn Conrad, Land Investment Specialist
As a Southern California native, I grew up among the orange groves, strawberry fields, and watched them disappear. Today, I teach the strategy of buying land, holding it, then selling to developers at top dollar with significant returns on investment over time. My company is Velur Real Estate Services and we focus on science and research to mitigate the risks, and bring the premier land strategies that are in the path of expansion and development directly to you. Land is, and has historically been a solid real estate investment, and with correct research behind it, it becomes a legacy changer for those who are middle class and high net worth investors.
