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Is Being Fat A Choice?

  • Writer: Brainz Magazine
    Brainz Magazine
  • Jun 15, 2024
  • 3 min read

Marsha Parcou is an entrepreneur, based in the Seychelles Islands, on a mission to empower corporate teams and employees to find confidence in themselves and maximize their wellness and productivity.

Executive Contributor Marsha Parcou

The question of whether being fat is a choice stirs up strong opinions, and the answer is more complicated than it might first appear.


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Think about choosing a colour of socks: black or white. It’s a simple decision that doesn't take much effort. In theory, losing weight is also straightforward: eat less and move more. But this oversimplifies the issue and ignores a crucial point: why is this choice harder for some people than for others?


Human bodies and behaviours add layers of complexity to this issue. Some people stay thin with little effort due to their genetic makeup and metabolism. Let’s call these individuals Slim Shady. They don’t consciously choose to stay thin; their biology helps them maintain their weight effortlessly. On the other hand, many people have to work much harder and still struggle to reach or maintain a similar size.


The concept of choice gets even murkier when we consider access and opportunity. For example, deciding to exercise regularly depends on several factors. One person might have a gym five minutes away and a flexible schedule, while another might need to drive 30 minutes to the nearest gym and juggle long work hours and family duties. So, the "choice" to exercise isn’t the same for everyone.


The same complexity applies to food choices. While everyone can technically choose to eat less, this decision is influenced by factors beyond immediate control. Genetics can affect hunger and how full you feel. Psychological factors like trauma and mental health issues, including depression, play a big role in eating habits and the risk of obesity. Socioeconomic factors also matter a lot; a child from a low-income family with limited access to healthy foods and physical activity is more likely to develop unhealthy eating habits that are tough to break later in life.


When we look at the choices available to people struggling with weight versus those like Slim Shady, it’s clear these choices aren’t equally easy to make. The idea of choosing between thinness and being overweight is far from simple. For many, the option to be thin is like trying to reach something that’s placed way out of reach, requiring them to navigate a tough and challenging path.


Acknowledging that "being fat isn't just a choice" or that "obesity isn’t just about willpower" reflects an understanding of the complex mix of genetic, environmental, psychological, and socioeconomic factors that influence weight. This viewpoint is supported by research and highlights the need for a multi-faceted approach to tackling obesity.


Understanding these complexities helps create empathy and informs more effective strategies for dealing with obesity. It’s not just about personal responsibility; it’s about recognizing the various and often uncontrollable factors that shape a person's health.


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Marsha Parcou, Integrative Health & Life Coach

Marsha Parcou is an entrepreneur, based in the Seychelles Islands, on a mission to empower corporate teams and employees to find confidence in themselves and maximize their wellness and productivity.

As the founder and figurehead of Fasinasyon, she runs a multi-faceted lifestyle brand that promotes a healthy and hol stic approach to the body, mind, and soul through a range of services, from corporate and life coaching to beauty and skincare products. Accredited by the Health Coach Institute, USA, she coaches using International Coach Federation (ICF) tools and exercises whilst delivering her own unique framework for personal and team transformation.

 
 

This article is published in collaboration with Brainz Magazine’s network of global experts, carefully selected to share real, valuable insights.

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