How To Start To Think About Planning For The Future And Know Loose Ends
- Dec 24, 2022
- 3 min read
Written by: Karen Peddie, Executive Contributor
Executive Contributors at Brainz Magazine are handpicked and invited to contribute because of their knowledge and valuable insight within their area of expertise.
Plan – Noun an intention or decision about what one is going to do. Verb decide on and make arrangements for in advance. We plan for all kinds of events, births, marriages, moving home even holiday itineraries so why not Life Planning? Probably because many people resist talking about death and dying until they really have to. Sadly, in some cases this is too late and others will then make decisions for you. Medical staff always have the final decision unless you have written documentation in place, stating your wishes. Is that what you want?
Making a plan for the future is NOT just for people with a terminal or life-shortening diagnosis. It is for ANYONE who wants to make sure their affairs are in order, should they be taken ill or die suddenly. Think of it in terms of insurance – we take out policies for our vehicles, homes even lives, but hope we never need it. But, should we ever need it, it is there to support us and help us through difficult times.
In my last 2 articles we talked about having the conversation with our loved ones and the benefits of doing so. If you missed them, click the links to read them and help you get started.
To get you thinking about creating your own plan, here are some questions for you to ponder on…
Who would you want (and trust) to make decisions for you, should be unable to yourself?
Do you have elderly parents or young children who depend on you?
Who would look after them?
Do you have any pets and who would care for them?
If you already have a Will, Power of Attorney or an Advanced Care Directive, where are they kept and would your trusted person know where to find them?
Do you want a funeral, if so, do you have any special religious or spiritual requirements?
Do you have online bank accounts, social media profiles or cloud storage that would need to be accessed?
These questions are not exhaustive, more are likely to pop up as you begin to work through them. Don’t be overwhelmed and take your time. It might help you to journal on your thoughts and feelings as they come up.
As part of my Facilitator training, I am offering my help at a reduced cost until the end of January 2023. So if these few questions have encouraged you to make a life plan of your own, please email me at karen@karenpeddieholistics.co.uk or message me on Facebook and we will work together to Know Loose Ends!
Karen Peddie, Executive Contributor Brainz Magazine
Karen is a natural, intuitive Energy Healer who uses Reiki, Emotional Freedom Techniques, and Meditation to help her clients improve their health and well-being. She works with them to identify and heal the root cause of any dis-ease which could be blocking the flow of energy either physically, mentally, or emotionally. As someone who suffered from anxiety, stress, and depression for many years, Karen's experience makes her a genuine, empathetic therapist who creates a safe, calm space in which to start the healing process
