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Do You Have To End Your Relationship To Find Love, Intimacy & Fulfilment?

  • Writer: Brainz Magazine
    Brainz Magazine
  • Feb 11, 2022
  • 4 min read

Written by: Oksana Irwin, Executive Contributor

Executive Contributors at Brainz Magazine are handpicked and invited to contribute because of their knowledge and valuable insight within their area of expertise.

Less than a month ago, when Wendy reached out to me in crisis, she was VERY emotional and frustrated.


She said that her relationship of 3.5 years was in big trouble and she was even contemplating the ending of it.

And now, not even a month later, after working with me, she and her partner are Lovey-dovey

  • Getting alone handsomely

  • Smiling and laughing together

  • Intimately connecting


This weekend they are booking a fancy hotel room with champagne, flowers, and negligée (Ooh-la-la baby!!) …



And they are even making plans on moving in together!!


Wow, this is quite the change in the energy between the two of them in such a short amount of time!


It’s amazing


And we had only just begun!


My strong belief and I say it with confidence, is that ending an existing relationship so you can move on in order to find love and happiness is NOT necessarily the answer.


Often, very often, we can shift things around in the existing relationships by using:


EFFECTIVE relationship strategies.

The RIGHT relationship tools.

And the RIGHT relationship mindset.


The changes create new dynamics and new energy in a relationship which consequently translates into different actions and feelings that bring people closer together instead of pulling them apart.


Having an understanding of MARS VENUS fundamentals of Gender Intelligence, Emotional Mastery, and Feminine Masculine Polarity which are the cornerstones of MARS VENUS Methodology, you can quickly remove frustration, resentment and apathy and smoothly create harmony, mutual respect, attraction, and intimacy in a previously ‘turbulent’, ‘frustrating’, or ‘stale’ relationship.


With the MARS VENUS Methodology:


You can learn how to mitigate internal and external stress that is based on our biological and physiological differences and how to effectively communicate your needs in the way that you are *actually* being heard.


You can learn how to re-ignite the spark, bring passion and polarity back to the surface, effectively communicate your needs, understand your partner's needs and fulfill them within an *existing* relationship.


You can learn to control your emotions and create happiness, joy, and bliss by managing your thoughts, emotions and hormones, and So. Much. More!


Women have an incredible *untapped* Feminine Power that can positively impact their relationships WHEN they have access to the RIGHT information.


The Mars Venus Methodology that I teach opens the door to the *profound* transformation and RELATIONSHIP MASTERY taught by Dr. John Gray who helped 50+ million people *all around the globe* and helped couples create loving, lasting, happy, and harmonious relationships.


With this methodology, MILLIONS of relationships and families have found happiness and were saved from the devastating breakups and costly divorces.


When YOU change your energy, it has a direct impact on your partner and your relationship.


YOU, as a WOMAN, have the power to shift the dynamics, reignite polarity and create intimacy and attraction in your relationship.


You can express your opinions and emotions in a way that supports your relationship and in a way that helps you fulfill your needs and your partner’s needs which creates a win-win situation and manifests harmony and peace in a relationship.


And when you do THAT,


Watch your relationship blossom!

This is exactly what Wendy did to shift things in her relationship.


She is an intelligent, ambitious, high achieving, beautiful woman from Vancouver, CA who decided to take charge of her love life… but she has gotten so much more!


Where there used to be conflict, disagreements, frustrations, and disappointments, now there is peace, love, harmony, connection, intimacy, support, understanding, feeling of well-being, and happiness.


Feminine Energy and Emotional Mastery TOTALLY ROCK!!


I believe it wholeheartedly and am excited to teach it to you!

  • If you want to turn your relationship around and start enjoying peace, romance, passion, intimacy, connection, and mutual respect

  • If you want to feel happy and ALIVE in your relationship and feel the excitement again of being turned on by your partner – you can absolutely create it with the right support.


P.S. I am so proud, grateful, and blessed to be one of a few Certified Mars Venus Life and Relationship Coaches around the globe who have been trained personally by the legendary John Gray. This training has given me the skills and knowledge to facilitate the TRANSFORMATION of your life and relationship and help you create:

  • Unity and understanding instead of distance and disagreements,

  • Connection and intimacy instead of indifference and emptiness,

  • Peace and harmony instead of frustration and tension anPolarity and passion instead of boredom and apathy.


Message me with questions or inquiries or book a Complimentary Clarity Session to get started.


Cheers to your happiness.


If you want to have success, Every. Single. Time in your dating experience without relying on ‘luck’ or ‘chance’, connect with me at my LinkedIn, Facebook Profile and connect with me on Instagram or visit my website. I look forward to sharing my zone of genius with you!


Oksana Irwin, Executive Contributor Brainz Magazine

Oksana Irwin is a Certified Mars – Venus Life and Relationship Coach, trained by the legendary John Gray. She is on a continuing mission to change the world one love story at a time!


Oksana is a leader in the dating and relationship coaching field. She equips her clients with powerful behaviors, winning mindsets, and gender intelligence knowledge that empowers them to unleash their mental and emotional constraints and achieve their very best in love, life, and career.


Within 3 years of sadly losing both her long-term marriage and role in a thriving family business, Oksana has created a new loving, passionate relationship and built a successful coaching business. She turned her pain into passion, passion into purpose, and purpose into profit by helping many women along the way.


She impacts her clients by unlocking access to feminine power, lowering stress, and skyrocketing confidence. Her clients learn effective and powerful gender dynamics, sufficient hormonal balance, and potent attraction and polarity techniques that produce outstanding results in creating loving and lasting passionate relationships and thriving successful and fulfilling lives.

 
 

This article is published in collaboration with Brainz Magazine’s network of global experts, carefully selected to share real, valuable insights.

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