Are You Failing If Your Pain Keeps Coming Back?
- Mar 19
- 4 min read
Updated: Mar 24
Patricia Kaulmann supports the balance between body and mind. She published the book "My Little Big Transformation" in Portuguese and German in 2024 and is a co-developer of HTGMusic, a supportive, energetic method with sound/frequencies.
If you've thought this way before, I invite you today to develop a new perspective. The feeling of having done everything right, only to have the pain or symptom return after a while, frustrates many people. In the brain, such experiences are stored as "I'm incapable," "I can't do it," or "I've failed again."
What often happens
In my practice, I often heard the phrase: "I did everything, but the pain kept coming back." As a therapist, this made me both puzzled and curious.
We already know that an emotional trigger initiates a cascade of reactions in the body. Many interpret this process as "I'm getting sick" or "something bad is happening now." But the body's biological laws say exactly the opposite: The system initiates regeneration and is ready to let go.
However, what you're thinking right now, at this moment, is the command your brain is sending. When you think and feel something negative, your brain produces neurotransmitters and associated hormones. This increases stress in the system and thus halts potential regeneration. Conversely, when you think and feel positively, your brain reacts accordingly. The result of a positive reaction? Self-healing powers are activated.
The question that then occupied me was
How could I explain the experience positively in order to change this negative reaction? That was the moment I began to access my mental files and create new connections.
If we have or create the wrong information within us, we react against ourselves. When we feel frustrated, we lose the motivation to continue. But it's important to remember here: Discipline leads to success, not motivation. Okay, now we can move on.
A new perspective when symptoms are coming back
From now on, I want you to see things differently when a symptom reappears. Body and mind block and heal together. If we look closely, the body begins to release something. More precisely, a symptom, or even several, will arise in an emotional context.
All events in our lives are stored with emotion. Let's consider an explanation from Traditional Chinese Medicine. It's based on the five elements and the five primary emotions (anger, love, worry, fear, and sadness). These are essential for survival. The system wants us to survive, and that's how it's programmed.
But note the crucial point: These five "primary emotions" can blend, creating subcategories. For example, frustration can be stored under both anger and sadness. Let's think mathematically: 5 emotions x 5 = 25. These blend again, and so on. Every event in life has a specific emotion stored within it.
So far, so good? Now let's think further. Every emotion is linked to at least one organ (more precisely: at least one organ and one viscera, e.g., anger-liver-gallbladder). Therefore, you can have several events stored under just one primary emotion.
Now comes the revelation: When an event is triggered and needs to be resolved, where do symptoms appear? If you were already thinking, "In the area linked to the primary emotion," you've now cracked the code.
Meaning
The solution is right under your nose, if I may say so. If you end something and the symptom "reappears," simply end it again because another old experience has been triggered and is ready to be released. So simple. So brilliant.
Let go. You're living today. Why cling to the past or drag it along? Do you enjoy suffering? I'll leave you alone, okay? It's truly your decision. It's not what happened to you that's causing you suffering and blocking you, but the feeling you're clinging to today instead of choosing differently. You'll be a victim for life if you choose and behave this way. In medicine, they say that people find "advantages" in suffering. Sounds crazy, but it's true.
And that's the majority opinion. Okay, I can only speak from my own experience as a therapist, from colleagues, and from books and training courses…
Honest words
Albert Einstein said: "Those who believe that others are to blame for their own dissatisfaction also believe that pencils make spelling mistakes."
Sometimes we go through something that is "not" our fault. The Pareto principle applies here: We have 80% control over everything. Only 20% is beyond our control, and that's the external stuff.
But I'm telling you in truth: No matter what those 20% were in your life, your reaction and what you do with them is 100% up to you. No excuses. No playing the victim.
It might be harsh, but it's reality. As you've probably read before: When life gives you lemons, make lemonade. That's not a play on words. Everyone should do that.
The answer is always within you. Out there, you'll find ways to achieve what you want. You have to take action yourself; otherwise, you won't accomplish anything. Only you can heal yourself. You, like everyone else, have received the divine spark. Let it ignite.
I wish you much love, the highest frequency in the world. When you love yourself and act on your passions and desires, you'll experience a different life. Yes, it will also have pain and depth. The difference? You'll be where you want to be.
And by the way, one way to act is to listen to frequencies derived from amino acids, which provide your system with what you're lacking. You can find it as an app under HTGMusic.
Thanks for reading.
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Patricia Kaulmann, Specialist for Biological Emotional Balance
Patricia Kaulmann helps people understand how they can activate their self-healing through their thoughts and emotions and how they can get rid of blockages and beliefs through emotional intelligence and energetically supported frequencies. The right mindset plays a major role in healing. For this, it is essential to understand your own body embryologically, biologically, and emotionally. This is where Patricia brings in her expertise. Everyone should have access to this information and be able to live happily.
