An Unexpected Shift During Día De Muertos
- Brainz Magazine
- Dec 7, 2023
- 3 min read
Updated: Dec 16, 2023
Written by: Robin Who, Executive Contributor
Executive Contributors at Brainz Magazine are handpicked and invited to contribute because of their knowledge and valuable insight within their area of expertise.
One of the learnings I brought home from my last trip in Mexico was deeper than expected.
It wasn't just about the breathtaking landscapes or the mouth watering cuisine, but rather a profound shift in my perspective on death.
Something I find extremely hard to even talk about. However, the Mexican celebration of Día de los Muertos illuminated a fresh, vibrant outlook—one that I had not anticipated. This celebration presented a joyous and colorful commemoration of departed loved ones, a stark contrast to the more somber approach I was accustomed to in Italy. The Italian tradition involves a visit to the cemetery on the first day of November. However, in Mexico, the Día de los Muertos is a burst of vibrant colors and joy—a true celebration of life and it almost feels like a street festival.
The tradition
They create beautiful altars for loved ones – including pets. The altars are adorned with marigolds, candles, photographs, and the favorite foods and beverages of the departed. This practice transforms cemeteries into lively and colorful spaces, challenging the conventional gloom associated with it all. The central belief is that, for two days, the spirits of the deceased return to the realm of the living, offering an opportunity for a joyous reunion. It's not just a time to reflect on their lives; it's an invitation to celebrate and reconnect. And everyone should have a great time together again. People go to colourful cemeteries and, depending on the family tradición, it can actually mean dancing, eating – happy activities "with them"!
The learning
This unique perspective on death as a celebration was a revelation for me. It made the idea of being around death, discussing it openly, and even embracing it during those two special days of the year seem not only acceptable but powerful. It transformed death from a topic of sorrow to an occasion for relieving precious memories and expressing love for those who are not here.
The Día de Muertos exemplifies the power of embracing life, and serves as a reminder that love and connection endure beyond the boundaries of life and death. It's a celebration that transcends cultural boundaries, offering a universal lesson in finding joy and beauty in the most unexpected places.
Witnessing the celebrations allowed me to view death not as an end but as a continuation of a shared journey, where the departed are still present, if only for a brief moment.
It's a beautiful perspective. So powerful.
Robin Who, Executive Contributor Brainz Magazine
Robin is a Travel Lifestyle Coach and the CEO of Our Connected World. With a background in Psychology and over 5 years of Marketing and Mentoring experience, she empowers women in life transitions to embrace a travel lifestyle of time, location, and financial freedom. As an educator and speaker, Robin draws upon her extensive knowledge to guide clients towards boundless possibilities. With a decade of experience as a student abroad, expat, nomad, backpacker, and immigrant, they understand the challenges and joys of a nomadic life. Through coaching, workshops, and speeches, Robin inspires others to break free from conventional living and create a life of adventure and fulfillment.
