5 Powerful & Mindful Ways to Release Anger
- Brainz Magazine
- Jul 31
- 5 min read
Updated: Aug 1
Written by Agnes Chvojka, Rapid Transformational Therapy® Hypnotherapist, Mindset and Confidence Coach
Agnes Chvojka is a Rapid Transformational Therapist® and mindset coach based in Ireland, working remotely worldwide. She helps women break free from self-doubt, shed emotional weight, and rewire deep subconscious blocks to reclaim their voice, embrace their power, and live with confidence and joy.
In this article, Agnes Chvojka, RTT® Hypnotherapist, Mindset Coach, and Energy Healer, explores how anger can be a sign of deeper emotional pain, sometimes inherited across generations. She shares five mindful practices, including a free guided hypnosis audio, to support subconscious healing and emotional release.
Have you ever noticed how anger can rise suddenly, like a wave that crashes over you, sweeping away your calm before you even realize what’s happened?
It comes from deep within: a rush of heat, tightness in your chest, and a storm you can’t quite explain. You react. You raise your voice. You say something you regret. And almost immediately, the guilt sets in. You find yourself asking, “Who is this person? Why did I respond like that? What’s wrong with me?”
But in many cases, anger isn’t just about the moment in front of you.
It’s a response shaped by past experiences. Beneath the reaction, there’s always something deeper: hurt.
So, here’s what I want you to know:
“You’re not an angry person. You’re a hurt person, carrying pain that hasn’t yet been fully seen, heard, or understood, maybe even pain passed down through generations.”
When you begin to recognize this, something starts to shift. And as you start to truly understand what’s driving the anger, you can begin to gently uncover the part of you that’s asking to be acknowledged.
Anger is one of the most misunderstood emotions, often seen as something to suppress or avoid. But it holds a deep message, one that can lead you to embrace it and transform it if you allow yourself to fully understand it.
Until you recognize that this anger is not a reflection of your true self, it will continue to shape your life in unconscious ways.
Releasing anger mindfully begins with that realization:
“There’s nothing wrong with me. Anger is not who I am. I will no longer let it define me.”
5 powerful & mindful ways to begin releasing that personal and generational anger
1. Find the root
To release anger, you must first understand it.
Close your eyes. Start breathing deeply: inhale for 4 counts through your nose, exhale for 6 through your mouth. Repeat 3-4 times. Now go back to the root. Replay two or three specific memories, past scenes that evoke anger, hurt, injustice, or frustration. These could be from childhood, teenage years, or early adulthood.
Ask these questions and reflect deeply:
How did I feel?
What message did I internalize about myself?
Whose anger did I absorb?
Was it truly mine?
Then, gently tell yourself:
“This is not mine. This no longer defines me. I choose peace. I choose calm.”
This is deep subconscious work. When your eyes are closed, you can truly begin to look inward. A simple act of awareness can shift your entire emotional landscape. Listening to theta waves, binaural beats, or solfeggio frequencies can help take you deeper into this trance state.
2. Breathe through the trigger
When anger rises, your nervous system is reacting to a perceived threat, real or remembered.
The next time something triggers you, pause and take three deep, slow breaths. Inhale peace. Exhale anger.
Then ask:
What am I really feeling beneath this anger?
Is this familiar?
Have I felt this way before?
What just triggered me?
Recognising that repeated triggers are an invitation to respond, not react, shifts your power back to you. Choose response over reaction. Choose consciousness over conditioning.
3. See the person behind the pain
When you reflect on the root of your anger, you’ll often uncover the person who unknowingly planted it in you.
This may be a parent, grandparent, teacher, or someone else from your past. Their unhealed trauma became your emotional inheritance. Close your eyes and visualize them. Not to blame, but to understand.
Say to yourself:
“I release you. I no longer need to carry your pain. I choose to feel peace instead.”
Understanding doesn’t mean approval or forgiveness, especially in the case of an abusive parent. It means unburdening yourself from pain that was never meant to be yours.
4. Mirror work
Mirror work is a powerful tool for healing emotional wounds on a conscious level.
Stand in front of a mirror, look into your eyes, and speak to that inner child within you. Acknowledge the pain, the anger, the triggers, and the weight you've been carrying for years—maybe even decades.
Then say:
“I see you. I understand why you're angry. But you are safe now. You are free to release it. You can let it go.”
Repeat this daily. Over time, your mind and nervous system begin to rewire to this new, positive feeling. Releasing anger isn’t instant. It’s a process of reprogramming and reparenting yourself. Be patient with the journey.
5. Reprogram with hypnosis
The mind learns through repetition. What we think and repeat, we become.
That’s why hypnosis is such a powerful tool for emotional healing. When you hear positive suggestions over and over again, your subconscious mind begins to accept them as truth. You create new patterns, form new beliefs, and over time, you teach your nervous system how to feel safe, calm, and in control.
This isn’t about force; it’s about gentle reprogramming.
You’re not pushing the anger away. You’re showing your mind and body a new way of feeling and being.
I’ve created a Gift Anger Release Hypnosis Recording for you to support you in letting go of what no longer serves you, and anchor in calm, clarity, and control at a subconscious level.
This guided audio will help you:
Calm your nervous system
Begin releasing stored or inherited anger with compassion
Create space for emotional balance and inner peace
Let this be a gentle reprogramming of your inner world, a space where peace and calm can take root.
Use headphones and find a quiet space where you can lie down or sit comfortably. For best results, listen daily for at least three weeks.
Final thoughts
Anger is not your enemy. It is a messenger. It wants you to look inward, to uncover the places that still need your attention, your compassion, and understanding. You do not have to be defined by what or who hurt you. You have the power to choose peace. Every single time.
Start today, one breath, one mirror moment, one reflection, one release at a time.
Ready to start your 1:1 subconscious healing?
If you’ve been carrying anger that feels too heavy, I’d love to support you.
Book a free consultation with Agnes at Happy Minds Therapy to explore how we can work together to gently release stored anger and bring your mind and body back into balance.
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Agnes Chvojka, Rapid Transformational Therapy® Hypnotherapist, Mindset and Confidence Coach
Agnes Chvojka is a Rapid Transformational Therapy® Hypnotherapist and mindset coach specializing in deep subconscious reprogramming and emotional healing. Passionate about helping women overcome self-sabotage, fear, and limiting beliefs, she guides them toward confidence, freedom, and self-empowerment. Her unique approach combines hypnosis and mindset work to create lasting transformation. Based in Ireland, she works with clients worldwide. Learn more here.
