Written by Julie Farnsworth, Trauma-Informed Grief Coach Julie Farnsworth has spent her life helping others to live better lives. After 30 years working as a social worker, she founded "One Free Soul Grief Journey, LLC" in honor of her sister, Erica, who lost her life to cancer at the age of 40. Advancing positive social change in my community has always been a very important focus of mine. As a professional in the field of social work over the last 30 years, I have been fortunate to have experiences in various roles where I could see the impact that I had on someone’s life. I have also felt the complete opposite of this too. I have wondered what I, as one person, can actually do when there are so many things that need doing. It feels overwhelming sometimes to ask the question, “What can I accomplish in my little corner of the world that will truly make a difference?” I remind myself that when my daughters were young, I took them with me to volunteer at local organizations like shelters and community events that helped serve others. It was important to me that they were always aware that even the smallest acts of kindness have the potential to make a difference to someone, and to never take that for granted. I was a young mother and new in my career at the time, full of dreams for the future and always the optimistic problem solver. If I saw a need, I would just simply figure out a way to solve it. This belief has served me well over the years in my career, but it has also been a downfall. I see now that it is not realistic to think that I, or anyone, can solve everyone else’s problems and fix all of the things. This is a recipe for disaster and burnout. One of the most significant things that I learned along the way is that people are not magically fixable just because you want them to get better and just because you give them all your time and energy. People are not problems to solve. People can thrive and change and grow with support and help and belief in them, but I can’t be the one to do all the work. Reflecting more on this, I think about my experiences from thirteen years ago working as a home visitor for Early Head Start. This role would lead me to make many connections, both professionally and personally. The Early Head Start program is designed to provide support to families and their children living at or below the poverty level and requires a commitment of weekly home visits for the first three years of a child’s life. Ideally, support for a mother would start when she is pregnant, providing guidance and education for a healthy pregnancy. Ideally, support with a mother would start when they were pregnant in order to provide support and education for a healthy pregnancy. The program also assists families with life goals such as getting a driver’s license, finishing school or obtaining a GED, starting college, finding gainful employment, and better housing conditions. Over time, my relationships with the families that I worked with (many for three years) progressed naturally. Families who might not have had any other support system learned to trust and grow. They realized that I was not there to judge them or be someone to tell them what to do. I was able to form some deep, trusting relationships with many parents. It is truly an amazing thing to be part of witnessing people transforming their lives. To see what a difference unconditional support and guidance can have on someone’s life. These things happened not because I fixed them or did my magical problem-solving, but they happened because I helped provide something that most of these parents never had before. The belief in them that they could do these things. Going back to my question about “what can I, as one person, do?” If I look at this question in a different way, I realize the importance of the answer. I realize that if everyone asks themselves that question, the importance of the answer magnifies. The families that I was lucky enough to see grow and change now have the opportunity to change the next generation by knowing they can achieve the things that they set out to do for themselves and for their children. Their children will then be able to have the benefit of this change and then their children will be too, and so it goes. I believe that is how change happens, it is a “ripple effect.” Sometimes you might not ever know it or see it, but when you do, it gives you the drive to do more. I am mindful every day of how all my actions affect others and am hopeful that the example I gave to my children inspires them to continue to do whatever they can throughout their lives to make an impact. Fast forward thirteen years and I am now a manager in the Early Head Start home-based program and have the honor of mentoring and guiding home visitors. As I get older, it becomes even more important to continue in my endeavors to make a positive impact on the next generation. I look forward to continuing in my work as one person that can provide the belief and the power in another person to impact the next. I realize this article is not about anything new or earth-shattering. It is not about neuroplasticity or the brain, but I think it is a valuable lesson that we all need to be reminded of from time to time. I, for one, need to be reminded over and over again to keep going even when I can’t always see the impact. Visit my website for more info! Read more from Julie Farnsworth Julie Farnsworth, Trauma-Informed Grief Coach Julie Farnsworth is a Certified Trauma-Informed Grief Coach, Neuro-Change and Mind-Body Medicine Practitioner, Social Worker, and Mental Health Therapist. Since the age of 12, as a volunteer with the Red Cross, Julie has been called to help as many people as she can. She is the founder of "One Free Soul Grief Journey," which provides 1:1 healing journeys for anyone who needs help navigating the intricacies of grief and loss. Julie brings her years of experience walking alongside fellow grievers, as well as her own personal experience with grief and loss, to ignite her passion to help others to go from surviving to thriving.

Written by Quintin Gunn, Chief Strategic Officer As CSO at Help My Medical Practice, Quintin draws on 25+ years in healthcare consulting and practice growth to help underperforming medical practices become patient-focused, profitable, and operationally efficient. Recent trends indicate a decline in traditional health insurance coverage, leaving many practices vulnerable. It's time to re-evaluate your model and consider options like transitioning towards concierge medicine. Here's what you need to know. The changing healthcare reality Coverage levels for employer-sponsored insurance are dropping, and while Medicaid has expanded, uncertainty remains regarding public program changes. As healthcare expenses continue to climb, many people lose coverage, which reduces the patient pool for practices, limits referrals, and creates revenue instability. Why concierge medicine could be your solution Concierge or Direct Primary Care models offer a way to insulate your practice by reducing reliance on insurance and serving primarily private-pay patients. These models provide predictable income through annual or monthly fees, ensure consistent revenue, and allow practitioners to focus on wellness, prioritizing prevention and leading to healthier patients. Additionally, concierge medicine enhances the patient experience by allowing more time per patient and building stronger relationships. The transition: Key considerations Staffing: Will your team adjust? Emphasize the shift toward exceptional patient care due to the reduced caseload. Patient communication: Be transparent. Highlight benefits like increased access and personalized treatment. Prepare to lose some patients who prefer traditional insurance. Financial modeling: Carefully calculate the number of concierge patients needed to maintain profitability. Practice management changes: Telemedicine, efficient scheduling, and proactive patient follow-up become even more crucial. The role of marketing in your success Target the right audience: Focus on people frustrated with the insurance system, those seeking personalized care, or those with the financial means to invest in their health. Social media is crucial: Reach new prospects, build relationships, and showcase the benefits of your model. Invest in expert help: Partner with experienced healthcare marketers who understand this nuanced field. Addressing concerns: Is concierge medicine right for you? Consider access for lower-income patients by offering sliding-scale or hybrid models. Ethical considerations are important to ensure the model prioritizes patient well-being, not just profits. Be prepared for the potential complexity and learning curve involved in managing this new practice model. The takeaway While challenging, the transition to a concierge model offers stability, improved patient care, and the potential for a more fulfilling practice. Careful planning and a commitment to quality patient relationships are essential for success. Need help? Contact Social Media Solutions For Doctors. We specialize in helping practices make this shift. Contact us for a personalized assessment at 407-702-4408. Let me know if you'd like to explore specific areas further, like marketing strategies or creating hybrid practice models. Follow me on Facebook, LinkedIn, and visit my website for more info! Read more from Quintin Gunn Quintin Gunn, Chief Strategic Officer With over 25 years of Practice Development and Medical Marketing experience in the healthcare industry, and formerly of Social Media Solutions For Doctors. Quintin has helped with the growth and profitability of many practice groups in multiple specialties, like Aesthetics, Med Spas, Cosmetic, Orthopedic, Sports Medicine, Integrative Health, Primary Care, Osteopathic, Ophthalmology, Brain and Spine, Regenerative Medicine, Anti Aging and/or Age Management along with Weight Loss, Ophthalmology, and Chiropractic. Helping doctors and medical practices to sell more than 5 million in patient treatments and medical services through practice development.

Most successful careers follow a predictable path. A person enters an industry, learns the rules, and spends years working within them. Sadie Nardini took a different approach. Throughout her career, she has built a reputation for asking questions others weren't asking and exploring ideas that are on the frontier. Whether it was bringing anatomy-focused education into yoga, teaching wellness online before it became mainstream, or creating a facial fitness method that reached millions, Nardini has consistently found opportunities where others saw limitations. Looking back, her success wasn't built around following trends. It came from challenging assumptions. "I've always been curious about how things actually work," Nardini says. "If everyone is doing something one way, I naturally want to understand if there's another way that might work better." That mindset would become the foundation of a career spanning wellness, education, digital entrepreneurship, and, most recently, facial fitness. How a life-changing injury shaped her perspective Long before she became known to millions online, Nardini was a teenager in Iowa recovering from a serious accident. At age 13, a grown man jumped on her head in a swimming pool, causing injuries that significantly impacted her mobility. The experience forced her to focus on recovery during the years when most teenagers are focused on everything else. Rather than accepting physical limitations, she became fascinated by the body's ability to heal and adapt. "Yoga was one of the things that helped me find my way back to mobility and health," she says. "It gave me a sense of possibility when I really needed it." That early experience taught her something that would influence her entire career: the body is often capable of more than people realize. Why she walked away from journalism Nardini's original career plans had nothing to do with wellness. She earned degrees in Communications and French Literature and envisioned a future in journalism. Writing and storytelling had always been important to her, and she expected they would define her professional life. Then an unexpected opportunity changed everything. When her yoga teacher decided to move to India, she asked Nardini if she could train her to take over her classes. Most people would have viewed it as a temporary responsibility. Nardini saw it differently. "I realized pretty quickly that helping people return to their strength, and inhabit their bodies more mindfully felt far more meaningful to me than the path I was on," she says. The decision led her to New York City, where she began teaching yoga full-time and quickly built a following. The big idea that changed her career As her teaching career grew, Nardini became increasingly interested in anatomy. While many wellness professionals focused primarily on movement, she wanted to understand why movement worked. And, importantly, when it didn’t. Nardini wanted to help her students avoid injury, and help yoga and fitness instructors teach more safely. She immersed herself in anatomy studies and eventually developed Core Strength Vinyasa Yoga, an approach that combined traditional yoga principles with a deeper understanding of biomechanics and functional movement. At the time, it was not the standard approach. But it resonated with students and instructors who wanted a more science-based understanding of the body, and to get better results from the time they spent doing their movement practice. That pattern would repeat itself throughout her career. Again and again, Nardini found herself exploring spaces where science, anatomy, fitness, and wellness intersected. Building online before it was popular Today, teaching online feels normal. Two decades ago, it wasn't. Long before virtual wellness programs became common, Nardini was creating digital courses, online trainings, and video content for a global audience. She was among the first generation of wellness professionals experimenting with online education. "The internet gave me the opportunity to help people I would never meet in person," she says. The decision allowed her to scale her impact far beyond a physical classroom and introduced her work to people around the world. It also reinforced an important lesson. Sometimes the biggest opportunities appear before most people recognize them. Creating Face HIIT and a new category Perhaps the clearest example of Nardini's willingness to challenge conventional thinking came with the creation of Face HIIT. The idea started with a simple question. If targeted high-intensity interval training can tone the body in less time, then could it work as well for the face? Drawing on her decades of study in exercise anatomy, she began experimenting with facial exercises, muscle activation techniques, and tension release methods. What started as personal exploration eventually became Face HIIT. “I started this style out of my own personal routine,” Nardini explains. “I watched my own face and neck start to slide south, and the face yoga that was out there wasn’t doing much for me. So I started to question it. Maybe another form of exercise would be more effective.” She experienced such incredible results applying HIIT to facial muscles, as well as myofascial release that is safer for mature skin, she decided to design an entire method that anyone can use to improve their faces and necks in less time. The concept attracted attention because it approached aging from a different perspective. Instead of focusing exclusively on products or procedures, it encouraged women to understand the muscles, fascia, and movement patterns that underlie the skin. “Restore the structure,” Nardini says, “and your skin reshapes over it.” Today, the method has attracted a global audience of 2 million and growing, and helped establish facial fitness as a growing area of interest within wellness. What success means to Sadie Nardini Despite reaching millions of people, Nardini's definition of success remains surprisingly simple. For her, the most meaningful feedback is not about numbers or recognition. It's about getting feedback from women who feel more confident, more capable, and more connected to themselves. "I love hearing that someone feels better about themselves," she says. "Not just because of how they look, but because they've built confidence and self-trust." That focus on empowerment has remained consistent throughout her career. Whether teaching yoga, anatomy, or facial fitness, her work has always centered on helping people understand their own potential. And perhaps that is the common thread behind every big idea she has brought to life. They all begin with the same belief: people are often capable of far more than they think. And when they realize that, everything changes for the better.

Written by Adam Markel, Author & Wellness Expert Bestselling author, keynote speaker, workplace expert, and resilience researcher Adam Markel inspires leaders to master the challenges of massive disruption in his new book. Your phone buzzes. An email lands. A Slack notification pings. Your brain splits three ways before you've finished your first sip of coffee. This is the modern workplace, and presence has become a superpower. Most leaders don’t realize how much of their effectiveness is being eroded by this—not because they’re incapable, but because their attention is constantly being pulled away from where it matters most. I’m not talking about showing up physically. I’m talking about being all there, attention, intentionality, the ability to actually listen to someone without your mind already three steps ahead to the next meeting. That kind of presence is rare now, which makes it one of the most valuable things a leader can offer. Why distraction is now the top barrier to effective leadership Distraction isn’t a character flaw anymore. It’s structural. We’re drowning in inputs, AI-generated content, notifications, news cycles that move faster than we can process them, and meetings stacked back-to-back with no space to reset. Most leaders I work with tell me the same thing—they’re operating at cognitive capacity all day. By the time they get home, there’s nothing left. But here’s what I’ve noticed, the leaders who struggle most aren’t the ones with the longest to-do lists. They’re the ones who’ve stopped being present with the people in front of them. They’re managing by email instead of conversation. They’re in meetings but not really in meetings, and their teams feel it. People can tell when you’re not actually there. The cost is real. Trust erodes. Creativity stalls. People stop bringing their full selves because they sense their leader isn’t bringing theirs. Ironically, distraction creates more problems, which creates more distraction. It feeds itself. Presence as a measurable leadership skill Here’s the part most people miss, presence isn’t soft. It’s measurable. When I talk with leaders about impact, I ask a simple question, “In the last week, how many conversations did you have where you were fully present?” Phone away, email closed, no divided attention. Most people can’t answer quickly. That’s the signal. Presence shows up in engagement scores, in retention, and in the quality of decisions made in meetings. I’ve seen organizations make a deliberate shift toward presence, and within months, engagement rises and attrition drops. People say the same thing in surveys, “I feel heard.” You can track it with a single question, "Do you feel like your leader actually listens?" Measure that over time, and you’ll see it clearly. When presence goes up, that number goes up. When it drops, everything else follows. The connection between presence and psychological safety This is where it becomes critical. Presence is what creates psychological safety. Think about a time when someone really listened to you, not waiting to respond, not interrupting, not checking their watch. Just listening. How did that feel? Safe. Like you could be honest. Like you could admit what you didn’t know. Like you could take a risk. That’s psychological safety, and it starts with presence. When a leader is distracted, the signal is clear, you don’t have my full attention. People pick up on that, even if it’s subtle. They hold back. They stop speaking up. They stop offering ideas. But when a leader is present, something shifts. People feel it. They open up. They say what’s actually going on. They bring the thing they’ve been holding back. That’s where real collaboration starts. Practical daily presence habits for leaders So how do you build this? It’s not complicated, but it does require intention. Start with your morning. I do this every day, I don’t touch my phone for the first ten minutes I’m awake. No emails, no messages, no news. I sit with my coffee and decide how I want to show up. That one habit changes the tone of the entire day. During the day, create real boundaries around meetings. Close your email. Put your phone face-down, not in your pocket where you can feel it buzz. It sounds basic, but most people don’t do it. Everyone can tell. Build in pauses between meetings. Five to ten minutes is enough to reset your brain, but you have to use it properly. Don’t fill it with emails. Take a walk. Breathe. Let your mind settle. Then there’s the pause inside the conversation. When someone is talking and you feel the urge to jump in, pause. Let them finish. Ask a question instead of making a statement. That’s where listening actually happens. Be deliberate about your one-on-ones. Don’t treat them like status updates. Treat them like real conversations. Ask, “How are you actually doing?” Then listen to the answer—not for five seconds, really listen. You’ll learn more in those conversations than in any formal meeting. How presence reshapes meetings, feedback, and decision-making When you change how you show up, everything else shifts. Meetings get shorter because people stop performing. They say what they actually think. Decisions move faster because you’re working with real information, not filtered versions of it. Feedback changes too. When you’re present, people can hear you. They’re less defensive because it feels like a conversation, not a correction. I’ve seen difficult feedback conversations completely turn because the leader showed up present instead of reactive. Decision-making improves as well. When you’re distracted, you’re working with partial thinking. You default to autopilot. But when you’re fully there, you see more. You ask better questions. You involve the right people. The quality goes up. The shift from distraction to presence isn’t about productivity hacks or better time management systems. It’s about recognizing that your attention is your most valuable resource. You can delegate almost everything else. You can’t delegate your presence. The world is loud right now. Intentionally loud. Designed to pull your attention in a thousand directions. Leaders who can reclaim their attention, who can be fully present with the people around them, will stand out. They’ll build trust faster. They’ll make better decisions. They’ll create environments where people actually want to show up. It starts small, one conversation where you’re fully there, one meeting where you’re not multitasking, one morning where you don’t reach for your phone immediately. Start there. Notice what changes. Your attention is your leadership. Where you place it is what your team will feel. Follow me on Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn, and visit my website for more info! Read more from Adam Markel Adam Markel, Author & Wellness Expert Bestselling author, keynote speaker, workplace expert, and resilience researcher Adam Markel inspires leaders to master the challenges of massive disruption in his new book, “Change Proof – Leveraging the Power of Uncertainty to Build Long-Term Resilience” (McGraw-Hill, Feb. 22, 2022). Adam is the author of the 1 Wall Street Journal, USA Today, Los Angeles Times, and Publishers Weekly bestseller, “Pivot: The Art & Science of Reinventing Your Career and Life.”

Written by Jannelle Jemmott, Founder, Own Your Life Jannelle Jemmott is the founder of Own Your Life, an entrepreneur, agency owner, and advocate for women's wealth and leadership. After surviving three near-death experiences, she now helps women build financial confidence, generational wealth, and lives rooted in purpose, ownership, and legacy. Most people do not wake up one day and consciously choose a life they do not love. Instead, they slowly drift into it. They follow the path they were told would make them successful. They work hard. They get the degree. They build the career. They check the boxes. They become responsible. They do what is expected. Yet somewhere along the way, many find themselves staring at a life that looks successful on paper but feels disconnected from who they truly are. I know because I have lived it. What does it mean to own your life? Owning your life means taking full responsibility for the direction of your future. It means recognizing that while you cannot always control what happens to you, you can control how you respond, what you build, and who you choose to become. For many years, I lived between two very different worlds. One side of my family taught me the value of hard work, discipline, education, and ambition. The other side showed me resilience through struggle, sacrifice, and perseverance. Both shaped me. I pursued education. I built a successful career. I worked in project management. I followed what society often defines as the path to success. But life had other plans. A devastating car accident in Trinidad left me fighting for my life. I was ejected through a windshield and spent months recovering. Years later, other major life events forced me to reevaluate everything I thought mattered. Why so many high achievers feel stuck One of the biggest misconceptions about success is that achievement automatically creates fulfillment. It does not. Many high achievers are silently struggling. Achievement without alignment creates emptiness. The hidden cost of living on autopilot Living on autopilot comes with a price. It may not show up immediately, but over time it becomes impossible to ignore. You begin feeling exhausted even when you are accomplishing more. You experience burnout despite achieving your goals. You lose connection with your creativity and vision. Five signs you are not living in alignment Your success feels empty You constantly feel exhausted You avoid thinking about the future You no longer recognize yourself Your dreams feel distant Five steps to start owning your life Define success for yourself Get honest about where you are Create a vision bigger than your circumstances Build financial freedom intentionally Take one courageous step today The life you want is waiting for you The greatest tragedy is not failure. The greatest tragedy is reaching the end of your life and realizing you spent it becoming who everyone else wanted you to be. You have gifts. You have dreams. You have purpose. The world does not need another version of someone else. It needs the version of you that has the courage to step fully into who you were created to become. Most importantly, own your life. Follow me on Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn, and visit my website for more info! Read more from Jannelle Jemmott Jannelle Jemmott, Founder, Own Your Life Jannelle Jemmott is an entrepreneur, agency owner, speaker, and founder of Own Your Life. Growing up between the United States and Trinidad & Tobago and surviving three life-threatening accidents shaped her mission to help others take ownership of their future. Today, she helps women, entrepreneurs, and families build wealth, leadership, and a lasting legacy through business ownership, financial education, and personal development. As a wife, mother of three, and host of the Own Your Life podcast, Jannelle is passionate about helping people create opportunities that impact generations to come.

Written by Jenna McDonough, Emotional Regulation Specialist Jenna McDonough is a trauma-sensitive emotional regulation specialist who supports adults and children through meditation, mindfulness, breathwork, somatic resets, and sound healing. She is the creator of the PEACEFUL: Mindful Moments for Every Age app and author of Kind Kids. Her mission is to make emotional well-being accessible to all. Many adults were taught that discipline means controlling behavior. But neuroscience shows us something different, children regulate through connection before they regulate independently. Long before children can calm themselves, they borrow calm from us. What is co-regulation? Co-regulation is the process of helping a child regulate their nervous system through connection with a calm, supportive adult. Before children can self-regulate, they first experience regulation relationally. This happens through tone of voice, facial expression, physical presence, breathing patterns, and emotional safety. Children’s nervous systems are constantly reading the adults around them. Why punishment often escalates dysregulation When a child is overwhelmed emotionally, their nervous system shifts into survival mode. In those moments, reasoning decreases, emotional reactivity increases, and connection becomes more difficult. If we respond with escalation, shame, or harsh punishment, we often intensify the dysregulation rather than resolve it. This does not mean boundaries are unimportant. Children absolutely need structure and accountability, but regulation must come before reflection. A child who feels emotionally unsafe cannot effectively access learning or repair. Connection creates safety One of the most transformative shifts for many parents and educators is recognizing behavior as communication. Instead of asking, “How do I stop this behavior?” we begin asking, “What is this child communicating through this behavior?” That shift changes everything. It invites curiosity instead of control. What co-regulation looks like in real life Co-regulation is not permissiveness. It can sound like, “I see you're overwhelmed,” or, “Let's take a breath together.” Adults might say, “Your feelings are okay. Your actions still matter,” or, “We'll solve this together when your body feels calmer.” When adults pause before reacting, they model the very skills they hope children will develop. In those moments, children learn that emotions are safe to feel, that mistakes can be repaired, and that calm can be practiced together. That is the essence of co-regulation. Children borrow our nervous systems One of the most humbling truths about parenting and teaching is that children often regulate through our regulation. If we want calmer children, we must first support calmer adults. That doesn’t mean we never struggle. It means we become aware of our own nervous systems too. Sometimes the most powerful thing an adult can do is pause and regulate themselves first. Co-regulation builds long-term emotional resilience Over time, repeated co-regulation experiences help children internalize those same skills independently. Eventually, the child who once needed, “Take a breath with me,” begins saying, “I think I need a breath.” That is emotional resilience developing in real time. The ripple effect of raising kind kids Children do not learn emotional safety through fear. They learn it through connection and while discipline may change behavior temporarily, co-regulation helps shape emotional intelligence for a lifetime. Follow me on Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn, and visit my website for more info! Read more from Jenna McDonough Jenna McDonough, Emotional Regulation Specialist Jenna McDonough is a meditation and mindfulness teacher, children’s book author, and emotional regulation specialist dedicated to helping people of all ages live more peaceful and present lives. She supports adults and children in recognizing, understanding, and moving through their emotions with meditation, mindfulness, somatic resets, breathwork, and sound and energy healing, all offered through a trauma-sensitive approach that ensures safe and empowering experiences. She is the founder of the PEACEFUL: Mindful Moments for Every Age App and the author of Kind Kids: The Adventures of Hurley, Pearl, and the Pink Soldiers of Kindness, and the creator of meditation and healing arts courses designed to foster emotional intelligence, resilience, and compassion.

Written by Hannah Townsend, Intimacy and Self Connection Coach Hannah Townsend is an Intimacy & Self-Connection Coach and founder of PLSRXO ÍNTIMA, helping individuals understand their intimate desires and boundaries, express themselves, and move from performance into a more deeply connected, pleasurable, expansive and authentic life. The strongest leaders are not those who separate every part of themselves, but those who understand how their inner world shapes the way they lead. From attachment patterns and emotional protection mechanisms to the body’s unique language of safety and connection, true executive presence begins with self-awareness and integration. This article explores why embracing your authentic self may be the most powerful leadership strategy of all. The myth of compartmentalization In high pressure careers, we are often taught that we can mentally "switch off" our personal lives to hyperfocus on the task at hand. However, this oversimplification of compartmentalization is unsustainable. Trying to force a hard boundary between your professional and personal lives overlooks a simple reality, your career identity overlaps directly with the other roles you hold, such as a parent, partner, or community member. The attempt to segment these worlds often leads to emotional disconnection. Instead of successfully "holding it all together," you end up feeling fragmented. The suppressed stress and dissatisfaction do not just disappear. They manifest in unimagined ways, such as burnout, mental fog, irritability, or escapist behaviors like doomscrolling. Ultimately, this internalization makes it difficult to decompress, robbing your body of the natural capacity to sustain the high output demanded of you. Vulnerability and leadership Contrary to the belief that vulnerability invites judgment, criticism, or manipulation, authenticity is the antidote to the exhausting performance of perfectionism. As Brené Brown notes, vulnerability is our ability to “allow ourselves to be seen, just as we are. In doing so, create the conditions for others to do the same,” which often means confronting our underlying fears of shame and inadequacy. When you drop the facade and practice humanistic honesty, you shift the dynamic. You do not need to overshare personal details. Simply stating, "I am navigating a challenging time right now, and it is affecting my capacity," often invites grace, compassion, and support rather than frustration. This level of honesty empowers your team to do the same. When staff and peers witness a leader's vulnerability, they recognize that psychological well being is valued. This creates a deeply connected culture where: Psychological safety is prioritized: Team members feel comfortable sharing when their own output capacity is impacted. Problems are resolved faster: People stop hiding crucial details out of fear of ridicule. Resilience increases: The team continuously uplifts one another through struggles, significantly reducing collective stress and sustaining high performance over the long haul. Ultimately, authentic leadership lessens your personal load. It helps you view your responsibilities from a realistic, accomplishable perspective while allowing you to embrace the parts of yourself you may have previously hidden to avoid ridicule. Conflict avoidance as a barrier Conflict avoidance is the choice to steer clear of, redirect conversations, or back down from conversations that could lead to disagreements, confrontations, or arguments out of discomfort. Although healthy conflict avoidance, such as choosing to disengage from controversial topics that make you feel uncomfortable as a way of protecting your emotional and mental bandwidth, can be beneficial, research has shown conflict avoidance to be a significant detriment in spaces where participation, feedback, and resolution are needed, often leading to poorer psychological well being. A few problematic conflict avoidance tactics include deflecting serious conversations by joking about the topic, holding back from disagreeing or sharing your opinion even when you feel the other person is incorrect or missing context, choosing to be seen as "easygoing" or "nice" to avoid specific perceptions, and denying the reality of an existing problem. There are a multitude of reasons why conflict avoidance is prevalent, stemming from attachment security, low self esteem, and trauma. Across my work with professionals ranging from start up founders to directors, managers, and high-achieving degree earners, I have begun noticing a profound pattern, your attachment style in intimate relationships almost always mirrors your behavior in the professional environment. For example, anxious attachers in intimate dynamics constantly seek reassurance and over commit to keep partners happy due to a fear of abandonment. In the workplace, this manifests as constantly checking emails for approval, struggling to say "no" to extra projects, people pleasing, and experiencing chronic burnout while trying to be liked by everyone. Dismissive avoidant attachers withdraw when things get too emotional, prioritizing extreme independence. At work, they often refuse to ask for help, prefer to work in isolation, and struggle with the collaboration necessary for high level leadership. Fearful avoidant attachers crave closeness but pull away when they feel exposed. In a professional setting, they often appear "stuck," alternating between a desire to collaborate and working in isolation because of an aggressive defense against perceived criticism or rejection. Secure attachers express their needs openly and handle conflict constructively. In the workplace, they set professional boundaries, navigate feedback without feeling attacked, and create an environment of psychological safety for their teams. These behaviors are not just personality traits. They are subconscious survival strategies designed to navigate the high stakes of connection and performance. The internal management team To understand the nuance of these expressions, we must adopt the concept of Internal Family Systems, or IFS. In IFS, we have four distinct parts. 1. Our core self: Who we are when we are not masking. This looks like leading with curiosity, staying calm under pressure, and having the courage to admit mistakes without shame. It is being compassionate toward ourselves and others, confident in our leadership, and clear in our execution. It is staying connected to ourselves and our teams to move goals forward while feeling free in our creative expression. 2. Our managers: The proactive coping skills that create a "mask" to hide our vulnerabilities. This can look like relentless perfectionism, being overly critical of yourself and others, or maintaining a rigid, ultra professional facade. In leadership, this often manifests as excessive caretaking, taking on everyone else’s responsibilities to ensure you remain "indispensable" and in control. 3. Our firefighters: The reactive mechanisms that jump in when we are triggered. This looks like lashing out in anger, ghosting messages, or numbing out with shopping or sleeping to distract from an emotional trigger. This can also include restrictive dieting or overconsumption to escape a feeling. Shockingly, even exercise can be a firefighter when it is used as a tool for punishment or a way to obsessively "outrun" your emotions rather than nourish your body. 4. Our exiles: The "shadow" parts holding deep seated traumas and painful feelings of inadequacy, loneliness, guilt, rage, or grief. These parts carry the "fraud" or "unworthy" narratives that our Managers and Firefighters work 24/7 to keep locked away. As Carl Jung famously shared, “Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life, and you will call it fate.” When we repress these parts, a process Susan Schwartz, a Jungian analyst, calls "abjection" in her writing The Absent Father Affect on Daughters, it leads to a mind body disconnection, severing us from our innate senses which serve as our most vital data guides. While often discussed in the context of parental absence, these themes of the "absent" or un nurtured self resonate across all backgrounds, creating internal exiles that drive our professional behavior. I find it crucial to get radical clarity on your specific needs so you can provide yourself with the support required to lead effectively. By understanding the Exiles, those parts of us we have hidden or shamed, you develop the mind body connection necessary to trust your intuition as a high level guide. This requires unlearning inherited patterns and thoughts, the generational, religious, social, and cultural messages about how we should function, to finally formulate a roadmap of what works for your unique system. The integrated leader: Where the boardroom meets the bedroom To do this, I utilize a framework called the Erotic blueprints, created by somatic sexologist and sexological body worker, Jaiya Ma. While the name suggests a focus on the bedroom, it is a map of our somatic language. Through her work, Jaiya realized that every person’s body speaks a different language in response to touch, space, and intimacy. This language determines how our system receives nurturance, the fuel we need to feel safe and available. There are five core blueprints, which are Energetic, Sensual, Sexual, Kinky, and Shapeshifter. Understanding your profile is the key to your executive presence. It reveals why you might "short circuit" in a meeting or why you need a specific environment to close a deal. The Energetic blueprint: Need for space and anticipation In intimacy: They are "teased" into desire, rushing straight to physical touch feels like a trespass to their body and sensory field. In leadership: They are the visionaries who need "white space" to think. If an investor or co-founder crowds them with too many demands too fast, they "short-circuit" and withdraw. Their executive presence is magnetic but fragile if not given room to breathe. In executive presence and work: If you are energetic, your "executive presence" is felt before you even speak. You are likely the leader who can "read the room" instantly. The strength: High "tease factor" in business, they excel at building anticipation for a launch or a vision. You lead through inspiration and "vibe" rather than just data. The struggle: They can "short-circuit" from sensory overload in high-stimulus environments. Open offices or back-to-back work calls with no space in between can lead to sensory overload, making you appear distant or flaky when you are just overstimulated. Secure functioning / Self-care habit: “The transitional buffer.” Before a big meeting, an Energetic needs 5-10 minutes of silence or breathwork. In the workplace, secure functioning for you means setting a boundary around "deep work" time where no one can "smother" your energetic fire. In Intimacy, they need foreplay that prioritizes anticipation, subtle eye contact, meaningful glances, or lingering touches that build tension without rushing toward a goal. Because they are highly sensitive, direct or heavy touch can feel like an "assault" on their nervous system. Instead, hovering hands and teasing fingertips allow them to stay present, too much touch, too fast, often causes them to "short-circuit" and withdraw. The Sensual blueprint: Obsession with atmosphere and the vibe In intimacy: They can’t get aroused if the room is messy or the mood feels "off", they need the five senses engaged before they can drop into their body. In leadership: They are the "cultural architects." If the office is chaotic or the team energy is toxic, they cannot lead effectively. They become the "picky" manager who obsesses over small details because they are somatically distracted by the lack of harmony in the environment. They lead best when the environment is harmonious. In executive presence and work: For the Sensual, executive presence is about Aesthetics and Environment. You are the leader who notices the "vibe" of the office culture and how the physical space affects productivity. The strength: They excel at creating psychological safety through curated environments. They likely give the best feedback because you understand the "texture" of human interaction and are highly attuned to the teams’ dynamics. The struggle: They cannot focus with messy spreadsheets, chaotic Slack channels, or a tense office atmosphere. They get stuck in their head, fixing the environment rather than leading the team. Secure functioning / Self-care habit: “Environmental curation.” At work, this means having a clean, beautiful desk, high-quality stationery, or noise-canceling headphones. At home, it’s the "decompression ritual" shifting from "boss" to "individual" requires a sensory pivot, such as a shower, a change of clothes, or a specific scent to signal to the nervous system that it is safe to relax. In Intimacy, they need an immersive atmosphere and a "slow burn" to feel safe. This looks like prioritizing high-quality sheets, soft lighting, and curated music. Their primary "fuel" is touch that isn't goal-oriented, think massage, skin-to-skin contact, and the awakening of all five senses. Any pressure to "get to the point" or ignore the ambiance causes them to move out of their body and back into their head, killing the connection. The Sexual blueprint: A drive for directness and efficiency In intimacy: They value high-intensity, direct connection, and the path to the “main event”. In leadership: They are the "closers." They value transparency and raw impact with honesty. However, they risk appearing like a "Dictator" if they treat team members like tools to reach a KPI. In executive presence and work: For the sexual, executive presence is about directness and efficiency. You are the "closer" who values transparency and the raw thrill of getting the deal done. The strength: They have an incredible "go-getter" energy. They can go from 0 to 100 on a project instantly. They are unapologetic about their goals, which makes them a powerful, high-impact leader who doesn't waste time on fluff. The struggle: They can become too focused on the end goal, rushing to the finish line, and forget about morale or the process, steamrolling others to reach a milestone. Secure functioning / Self-care habit: “The presence check.” Because you are so goal-oriented, your secure habit is to build in "process-focused" checkpoints. In the workplace, this means taking a 10-minute pause before a meeting and at the start of a meeting, connecting with your team as people before diving into the data. In intimacy, it’s about intentionally slowing down to enjoy the "journey" and creating a heart-to-heart connection rather than immediately diving into physical intensity and release. The Kinky blueprint: The thrill of taboo and power play In intimacy: They are turned on by psychological edges and power dynamics, surrender, dominance, switching between surrender and dominance, or playing outside the "norm." In leadership: They are the "disruptors." They thrive in the high-stakes negotiations and creative edges others fear to look at. If they carry shame about their disruptor nature, they might over-compensate by being a rigid, "by-the-book" leader, which creates a deep internal disconnect and eventual burnout. In executive presence and work: For the Kinky, executive presence is about disruption and power dynamics. You are the leader who thrives on the "edge" and finds the most creative solutions in areas others are afraid to look. The strength: You are a master of power dynamics and hierarchies. You understand hierarchy and negotiation better than anyone. You excel at "thinking outside the box" because your internal world is already built outside of the "norm." You can hold the tension of high-stakes psychological games without folding. The struggle: Your greatest hurdle is shame- based masking. If you haven't made peace with your unique wiring, you may mask it with a rigid, ultra-traditional persona that leads to burnout. This creates a response where you might self-sabotage or rebel against authority just to feel a sense of "taboo" or autonomy. Secure functioning / Self-care habit: “The creative edge." You need an outlet for your psychological complexity. Professionally, this means taking on the "impossible" or "unconventional" projects that others shy away from. At home, it means having high-consent conversations about your desires to release the shame and reclaim your power, including aftercare, dedicated time after intimacy to cuddle, check in emotionally, and reaffirm the connection. The Shapeshifter blueprint: Radical adaptability In intimacy: They are chameleons who can become whatever their partner needs, often at the expense of their own pleasure in the process. In leadership: They are the "relational masters" who can speak to anyone, but they struggle with "founder identity." Because they are so busy shifting to meet the needs of everyone, they lose their own core self, leading to an executive presence that feels "perfect" but fundamentally hollow. In executive presence and work: For the Shapeshifter, executive presence is about radical adaptability. You are the ultimate chameleon who can speak any language to any stakeholder, from the janitor to the Chairman of the Board. The strength: They are never boring and incredibly versatile. They can mirror the "Energetic" founder’s vision and then pivot to the "Sexual" investor's direct demands. They are a "superhero" lover and leader because you can meet anyone exactly where they are. The struggle: They are at high risk for identity loss. Because they are so good at shifting to please others, they might wake up and realize they don’t know what they want. Their mask is so perfect that they end up chronically dissatisfied because they are "performing" a persona rather than "being." Secure functioning / Self-care habit: "The core anchor.” You must practice radical self-inquiry. Before every major shift or transition, ask yourself: “What is my true core desire in this moment, regardless of what they need? “Your self-care is finding a "home base" (a hobby or a private ritual) where you don't have to shift for anyone. In Intimacy, they need a partner who encourages them to stay anchored in their own pleasure rather than just "performing" for the other person. Momentarily stopping to ask, “Am I doing this because I want to, or because I think they want me to?” They also need variety and permission to change the 'flavor' of connection frequently. Their greatest intimacy "fuel" is being loved for who they are at their core, not just for the roles they play. At our core, we are all shapeshifters with unlimited access to every type of pleasure and connection. However, through life experiences, conditioning, and trauma, we begin to favor one blueprint over another to feel safe. We develop these shadow or preferred languages to navigate the world, but the goal is to reclaim access to the full spectrum of somatic power. Leading from the core to be fully alive Ultimately, the way you show up in intimacy is a mirror for how you show up in leadership. By understanding your attachment style and connecting with Internal Family Systems, you begin to see that your professional mask is often just a manager part trying to protect an exile from being seen or rejected. When you layer in the Erotic Blueprints, you gain a somatic roadmap to give those parts what they need to feel safe. Understanding your blueprint is the key to fueling secure functioning in every area of your life. When you stop shaming your need for space, ambiance, directness, power, or variety, you move out of survival and into presence. You realize that executive presence is not about performing a persona. It is about self acceptance and self connection required to lead from your core self. When you honor these somatic truths, your firefighters no longer need to snap or numb out to protect you from dysregulation. Instead, you show up in the workplace grounded, authentic, and clear. You move from being a leader who is simply functional to one who is truly integrated, bridging the gap between professional excellence and personal vitality. By feeding your blueprint, you do not just become a better founder or director. You become a person who is finally, fully alive. Ready to uncover your unique somatic language Take the Complete Blueprint Quiz to receive your personalized 28 page report and begin your journey toward integrated leadership, The Blueprint Breakthrough. Deepen the integration For personalized guidance on bridging your attachment style, parts work, and executive presence, book a consultation through my website. Follow me on Instagram, and visit my website for more info! Read more from Hannah Townsend Hannah Townsend, Intimacy and Self Connection Coach Hannah Townsend is an Intimacy and Self- Connection Coach and founder of PLSRXO ÍNITMA, a platform focused on helping people understand their relationship to intimate desire, boundaries, and self expression. With nearly a decade of experience in mental health and sexual wellness, she has worked with growth driven individuals, couples, and high performing professionals navigating emotional disconnection, performance burnout, and relational misalignment. Her approach integrates psychological and systems based education with embodied awareness to support more intententional and connected ways of living. She is also a Certified Erotic Blueprint Coach, incorporating pleasure- based frameworks into her work around intimacy and desire.

In the world of fashion, where trends often move faster than the human pace, Ayana Ames has carved a distinct path by blending style with intention. Drawing inspiration from everyday life and the communities around them, they create collections that honor individuality while fostering connection and self-expression. Known for designing pieces that empower as much as they adorn, Ayana emphasizes quality, craftsmanship, and sustainability as the foundation of every garment. Their approach transforms clothing into a canvas for personal storytelling, offering customers more than just aesthetics. In this interview, we explore how Ayana balances creativity with purpose, the philosophies guiding their slow-fashion approach, and the transformative experiences they aim to offer through each design. Ayana M. Ames, Owner, Am.A-line Collections LLC What inspired you to create a brand that blends style with purpose, and how does this vision shape every collection you release? Every day life and watching others throughout their lives inspired me to create my brand. Growing up around business owners, educators, and tradespeople showed me the need for versatility and evoking a sense of self, particularly style, regardless of trade, status, or location. Those personal touches demonstrated the spirit of community, the instilled power of quality, and how interconnected we all are, which helped to shape my aesthetic. The vision of my brand evolved out of interconnectivity: the connection to one another, our deeper selves, the world around us, and how we communicate that. Every collection comes forth from just how human we are, exploring our flaws as well as our growth. How do you design pieces that not only look beautiful but also empower your customers to feel confident and aligned with their identity? At the core of my design process is naturally placing confidence and individuality into a piece that aligns with the values of my customer. They are conscious and intentionally use clothing to create conversation, whether it’s redesigned or newly constructed. Each garment within a collection creates space for my customers to tell their own story by how it resonates with them. Clothing, more so fabric, is a canvas of stories that binds a community, and each individual pours into the collective story of that community. Connection and quality are part of my design process goals. By keeping that first in mind, it helps me to create something that, in turn, empowers my customers by allowing them to create a narrative of their own, uniquely tailored to their lives and their style. How do you ensure that your brand stands out in a competitive fashion market while staying true to your core values and mission? Slow fashion moves the competition needle differently. My brand is built one event and one personal interaction at a time through community and quality. Quality is a value that I hold not just in the final garment, but also in the community and connections I can create through every interaction. It’s the bridge to embracing a different definition of value and creating something someone will covet for years to come. It then becomes more about how I am impacting one person and their community at a time, rather than competing with other brands that don’t speak the same language to my customer. Offering more services and educational courses has helped me to connect with my customers further in a more intimate way of understanding who they are and what they are looking for. Adding repair, trade-in programming, and offering exclusive one-of-one redesigned pieces helps share my core mission to extend the life of our clothing. There is so much more life left in our clothes, and having the ability to add your own story to those clothes, through repair or redesign, changes the value; and that’s what is most important to me. What transformation do you aim for your customers to experience when they wear your designs, beyond just aesthetics? I love seeing my customers light up. When the clothes go on, and immediately a smile, a change in posture, or any glee and pride that makes itself known, let me know I’ve done my job. I aim for comfort as much as style and quality in my pieces. When I hear, “I love it so much and don’t want to take it off. It’s so comfortable,” it makes my day. That transformation from “it’s been a long day” energy to “I’m ready to step out in my power/beauty/strength (etc.), regardless” is part of the mission every day. Positively impacting someone’s perception of themselves when they put on a garment whose story resonates with their identity is the ultimate goal. When they reach for one of my pieces, I want them to feel like they can conquer the world and are wearing their armor and sharing their loudest voice possible. How do you approach sustainability, quality, or craftsmanship in your products, and why is this important for your audience today? In a world of fast fashion, quality and craftsmanship can be easily misconstrued to the untrained eye, until something breaks apart in less than 5 wears. Sustainability leads with quality and craftsmanship, where circularity adds the layer of durability and longevity from the very beginning. Every piece that I design starts with the fabric I intend to work with, whether post-consumer or pre-consumer materials. The difference in material quality then dictates how long the garment can be worn, washed, and reused. When I choose a fabric, I think about what impacts it could have and may have already had throughout its lifecycle. I prefer natural materials, like cotton and linen, the majority of the time, with some regenerative or natural blends thrown in the mix. Comfort comes from these selections, along with breathability and the versatility to move throughout the day. From custom and one-of-a-kind pieces designed and constructed by me to ready-to-wear pieces I had produced, craftsmanship makes the difference between a well-made piece that lasts and one that doesn’t. I find that all three of these aspects are important to my audience for a number of reasons. First, we are all starting to feel overwhelmed by too many options that are the same and promote individuality less, while negatively impacting our psychology and the environment through fast-fashion products and trends. The pressure to keep up with the latest trends extends beyond monetary means, but the psychological effects from the constant desire to fit in within a frame of time, near blinking an eye. Not to mention, the speed of clothing production has only increased, with the amount of textiles ending up in landfills outpacing the amount worn. Second, bringing back skillsets around repair and mending allows us to take pride in something we accomplished and fixed. It allows us to create a new story for the clothes we already love, adding to their emotional value, regardless of the monetary value. Mending circles and workshops also allow us to reconnect with our community and hear stories we may not have by remaining separated. It adds a human touch to sustainability. Third, quality pieces can be timeless and last for decades if properly cared for. In a world lacking in quality, those who care about what they put on their body and want it to outlast the fads and seasonal trends are looking for something that resonates and aligns with their values as much as their style. Sustainability is as nuanced as every individual. That’s why I feel it’s imperative to address quality and craftsmanship with the same care in my design process. Follow me on Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn, and visit my website for more info! 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Written by Tracy Ann Messore, Integrative Coach Tracy Messore is well-known when it comes to trauma recovery and nervous system healing. She is a bachelor's-prepared registered nurse, certified trauma coach, and the founder of Integrative Coaching. Through her specialized courses and integrative approach, Tracy guides trauma survivors to heal and reclaim their authentic identities. Generational trauma isn’t just psychological, it lives in the body. Through somatic awareness, you can release inherited tension, reparent your inner child, and set boundaries that break family cycles. This article explores practical approaches to heal your lineage, transform your nervous system, and create a healthier future for yourself and your children. The pattern I couldn't explain I was sitting in a webinar on trauma when the facilitator asked us to notice physical sensations in our bodies. As I tuned in, I felt a familiar tightness in my chest, a heaviness I'd carried for as long as I could remember. I had always assumed it was my trauma, my abuse, my anxiety. But then she asked, "What if the sensations you're feeling aren't just yours? What if your body is also carrying the unprocessed trauma of your parents, grandparents, and ancestors?" Something shifted in that moment. I thought about my mother's chronic anxiety, my grandmother's depression and emotional shutdown, and my great-grandmother, who experienced betrayal and abuse. None of them had the language, tools, or support to heal their trauma. They just survived and passed the unhealed wounds forward. Suddenly, that tightness in my chest felt different. It wasn't just mine. I was carrying generations of unprocessed fear, grief, and survival held in my body, affecting how I moved through the world and influencing how I would parent my own children if I didn't do something about it. That's when I understood: healing generational trauma isn't just about processing your own experiences. It's about releasing what your body has been holding for people who came before you, people who didn't have the opportunity to heal. People who passed down their pain like a family heirloom. Understanding generational trauma from a body perspective In previous articles in this series, I've written about how trauma lives in your nervous system, how it buries your authentic self, how it affects parenting, and the tools to heal it. But there's another layer I haven't fully explored: how trauma passes through generations, not just through stories or behaviors, but through our very biology and how somatic awareness can break that cycle. As a registered nurse with experience across multiple disciplines, I've seen how patterns repeat through families: the same nervous system dysregulation, the same emotional shutdown, and the same anxiety or depression appearing generation after generation, even when life circumstances are different. This isn't a coincidence. This is generational trauma, and it's stored in the body. The science: How trauma transfers through generations Epigenetics: Research in epigenetics has shown that trauma can actually change how genes are expressed, not the genes themselves, but whether they're turned "on" or "off." These changes can be passed to offspring. Studies on Holocaust survivors found that their children and grandchildren showed altered stress hormone levels and increased anxiety, even if they never experienced the original trauma. The trauma had changed the parents' gene expression in ways that affected their descendants. Nervous system inheritance: Your nervous system baseline, which determines how activated or shut down you typically are, is influenced by your parents' nervous systems. If your mother's nervous system was constantly dysregulated, your developing nervous system learned that the world is dangerous before you had any direct experiences of danger. Attachment patterns: The way your parents related to you was influenced by how their parents related to them. These patterns of attachment, secure, anxious, avoidant, or disorganized, pass through generations unless someone interrupts the cycle. Learned behaviors: Even without biological transmission, children learn by watching. If your parent's way of coping with stress was to rage, shut down, dissociate, or use substances, you learned those patterns as "normal" responses. What generational trauma looks like in your body From my somatic work with clients, carrying generational trauma often manifests as chronic tension that feels unexplainable. This can appear as tightness in the shoulders, jaw, or stomach, a sense of bracing against something, or the feeling that you're always waiting for the other shoe to drop. Often, this tension doesn’t fully release, even with massage or relaxation. Emotional patterns may arise that don’t match your life experiences. You might experience anxiety about things that haven’t happened to you, depression without a clear cause, rage that feels disproportionate to the situation, or grief that isn’t tied to your own losses. Responses can also feel “too big” for the triggering event. You might overreact to situations that should not be that stressful, experience terror in circumstances that aren’t objectively dangerous, or feel like you are responding to ghosts from the past. Generational trauma can also result in repeating family patterns. You may act like a parent even though you swore you wouldn't, face similar health issues as previous generations, especially stress-related ones, or experience relationship dynamics that mirror those of your parents. Finally, there is often a vague sense that something is wrong, even if you can’t name it. You might feel as though you’re carrying a heavy burden, sense impending doom, feel older than your years, or experience weariness that feels bigger than your own life experiences. Breaking the cycle: Why you're the one Here’s something crucial to understand: the fact that you’re reading this, that you’re aware of these patterns, and that you’re doing healing work likely means you are the cycle breaker in your family line. You are the one who has language for what previous generations couldn’t name, has access to tools and resources they never had, is willing to feel what they had to bury to survive, and can interrupt the automatic transmission of trauma to the next generation. This is both a profound responsibility and a profound gift. The cycle breaker's experience Being the cycle breaker is challenging, and you might encounter several difficulties along the way. Resistance from family can arise in many forms. You might hear phrases such as, "You're being dramatic," "It wasn't that bad," "Why are you dwelling on the past?" or "You're breaking up the family" when you set boundaries. Even when family members say, "We turned out fine," you may know that the impact of unhealed trauma persists. Guilt and grief are common experiences. You may feel guilty for "betraying" your family by speaking the truth, grieve for what you didn’t receive, mourn what your ancestors endured, or carry guilt for having opportunities to heal that they never had. Loneliness often accompanies this work. Your family might not understand what you’re doing. You may be healing patterns that others prefer to keep buried, and in some cases, you might need to distance yourself from family members. Walking a path no one in your family has walked before can feel isolating. The burden of knowledge can feel overwhelming. Once you see these patterns, you can’t unsee them. You carry awareness of what happened to your ancestors while simultaneously doing your own healing and managing their unhealed trauma. The responsibility of this awareness can feel heavy, but it is also a testament to your courage and commitment. Despite these challenges, what makes it worth it is the liberation that comes from breaking the cycle. Every generation that doesn’t have to carry this trauma forward experiences freedom. Your healing ripples backward, honoring your ancestors, and forward, protecting your children and their children. Somatic approaches to healing generational trauma Traditional talk therapy can help you understand generational patterns cognitively, but somatic work allows you to release what is stored in your body. Here’s how you can approach it: Sensing what's yours versus what's inherited Begin by finding a quiet space and tuning into your body. Notice where you feel tension, heaviness, or discomfort. Ask yourself, "Is this sensation from my own experiences, or am I carrying this for someone else?" Sometimes you may receive a clear knowing. Other times, you might visualize a family member or sense their presence. In my own experience, the tightness in my chest felt like my mother's anxiety, and the heaviness in my shoulders felt like my grandmother's grief. Recognizing these sensations as partially inherited allowed me to work with them differently. This practice does not diminish your personal experiences, it simply acknowledges that some of what you carry might be amplified by generational transmission. Movement to release ancestral holding This practice focuses specifically on releasing energy on behalf of your lineage, different from general regulation techniques. Begin with intuitive movement: put on music and allow your body to move freely, without choreography or control. Let sounds emerge naturally, imagining that you are moving on behalf of your ancestors who couldn’t. You may notice gestures that feel ancient or unlike your usual movements. Completion movements are designed to finish defensive responses that your ancestors’ bodies never got to complete. If your ancestors had to run but couldn’t, allow your body to run. If they had to fight but couldn’t, engage in fighting movements, such as punching pillows or pushing against walls. If they needed to cry or scream but couldn’t, allow yourself to do so safely, whether in a private space or using props like pillows. These practices are effective because your body is completing defensive responses that remained unfinished in your lineage, releasing the stuck survival energy from your system and helping you integrate both inherited and personal trauma. Dialoguing with your lineage This practice might sound esoteric, but I have found it powerful both personally and with clients. Begin by entering a meditative state and imagining your maternal or paternal lineage behind you. Feel the presence of all the mothers and fathers going back generations. Speak to them: "I see what you endured. I honor your survival. I'm doing the healing work you didn't get to do. I'm carrying your unfinished business to completion." Notice what wants to be released from your body and imagine passing healing back through the lineage, liberating them as well. This works because trauma often carries a sense of owing your ancestors something. By acknowledging them in this way, you honor their experiences while also giving yourself permission to heal. Somatic boundaries with family Part of breaking generational cycles involves setting boundaries with living family members whose unhealed trauma affects you. Pay attention to how your body feels before, during, and after interactions. Physical tension is information about where boundaries might be needed. Practice saying no, even if it’s just aloud in your room, to build capacity. Notice when you are absorbing others' emotions and use energetic boundaries: imagine a protective boundary around your body. Remember, their feelings are theirs and yours are yours. You can care for them without carrying their trauma. Reparenting your inner child Generational trauma often means you didn’t receive the attuned, regulated parenting you needed. Somatic reparenting helps you provide to your inner child what your actual parents could not. Tune into a younger version of yourself at whatever age feels right, and notice what that child needed but did not receive. Provide it now through touch: hold yourself, rock yourself, place your hands on your heart, or gently stroke your own hair or arms. Speak to that younger part: "I'm here now. You're safe. I won't abandon you like they did." This works because your nervous system does not distinguish between comfort from others and comfort from yourself. You can literally reparent yourself somatically, giving your inner child the safety and regulation it missed. Resource building While trauma is transmitted generationally, so too are strengths and resources. Begin by identifying the strengths that run in your family, such as resilience, creativity, humor, or intelligence. Notice where you feel these qualities in your body and amplify the sensations. Allow yourself to receive the gifts of your lineage, not just the burdens. This practice works because you are not only carrying trauma, you are also carrying the strengths that allowed your ancestors to survive. Connecting with that legacy is empowering. The stages of healing generational trauma From my work with clients and my own experience, healing generational trauma typically moves through several stages. Stage 1: Recognition: This is the moment you realize, "Oh. This isn't just mine. I'm carrying something that isn't all my own." Recognition brings both relief, since it’s not all your fault or weakness, and overwhelm, as you face the question: how do I heal something I didn't create? Stage 2: Grief: Grief involves mourning what your ancestors endured, what you didn’t receive due to their trauma, the childhood you missed, the parent you needed but didn’t have, and the weight of being the cycle breaker. This stage can be long and painful, and it’s important to allow yourself to feel it fully. Stage 3: Anger: Anger is a natural response to injustice. You may feel anger toward the people who hurt your ancestors, toward your parents for not healing before having you, toward the unfairness of having to heal what you didn’t create, or toward family members who refuse to acknowledge or heal. This anger is healthy and necessary and should not be skipped. Stage 4: Release: Release involves using somatic practices to let go of what is stored in your body. This is not a single event, it is ongoing. Each layer you heal often reveals another layer beneath it, creating a gradual process of liberation. Stage 5: Integration: In this stage, you begin to embody a new way of being that is not dictated by generational trauma. Your nervous system baseline shifts. You parent differently, relate differently, and experience yourself differently. Stage 6: Generativity: Finally, generativity is about actively creating a new legacy. You parent from a place of healing rather than trauma, model emotional regulation for your children, and pass forward liberation instead of wounding. This stage reflects the culmination of your healing work, extending its benefits to future generations. The ripple effect: How your healing changes everything When you heal generational trauma somatically, the effects ripple in multiple directions. Backward: Even though your ancestors are gone, healing your lineage honors them and completes what they couldn’t. In some spiritual traditions, this is understood as liberating their souls. Inward: You reconnect with your authentic self, the self that wasn’t distorted by inherited trauma. You feel lighter, freer, and more alive. Outward: Your relationships improve because you are no longer unconsciously repeating patterns. You can be present, set boundaries, and show up authentically. Forward: Your children, whether current or future, receive a different nervous system transmission. Instead of inheriting dysregulation, they inherit your healing. They gain a regulated nervous system to borrow from, learn healthy emotional expression, and don’t have to resolve what you have already healed. Your children are watching your nervous system This may be the most important point: children do not primarily learn from what you say, they learn from your nervous system. When you engage in healing work, even when you mess up or get triggered, you model repair. They see that people can heal and change, learn that feelings can be felt and released, experience co-regulation with your increasingly regulated system, and inherit resilience rather than trauma. You don’t have to be perfect. You just have to be committed to the healing process. When the work feels too big Healing generational trauma can feel overwhelming. You’re not just healing yourself, you’re healing your entire lineage, and that is a lot to carry. It’s important to remember that you don’t have to do it all at once, and you don’t have to do it alone. Therapy, coaching, or support groups can provide guidance and support. Some days, simply surviving is enough, and every small step of healing counts. Your ancestors would be proud of the work you’re doing. Know this: you were chosen for this work, or you chose it yourself. The fact that you’re aware, willing, and actively engaging in this healing is extraordinary. Most people remain in the patterns, you are breaking free. The liberation that comes After years of doing this work, here’s what I’ve experienced. The chronic tension in my body has eased, and I no longer feel like I’m constantly waiting for disaster. I can be fully present with my children without my ancestors’ trauma interfering. I feel lighter, as if I’ve set down a backpack I had been carrying my whole life. I am living my life, not just surviving it. This freedom is available to you too, not quickly, not easily, but truly. Your body has been keeping the score for you and for your ancestors. But your body can also be the site of healing for you and for the generations that come after you. Honor the healing you’re doing. It is sacred work, and it matters more than you know. Follow me on Facebook, Instagram, and visit my website for more info! Read more from Tracy Ann Messore Tracy Ann Messore, Integrative Coach Tracy Messore is well-known when it comes to trauma recovery and nervous system healing. She is a bachelor's-prepared registered nurse, certified trauma coach, and the founder of Integrative Coaching. After enduring decades of generational trauma and abuse, Tracy transformed her pain into purpose by combining her nursing expertise with somatic body-based healing and polyvagal theory to help trauma survivors break free from survival mode and rediscover their authentic selves. Through her specialized courses and integrative approach, which addresses the mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual dimensions of healing, Tracy guides people through processing stored trauma, regulating their nervous systems, and breaking generational cycles. References and further reading: The concepts in this article are informed by research on generational trauma and epigenetics: Epigenetics and trauma transmission: Yehuda, R., & Lehrner, A. (2018). "Intergenerational transmission of trauma effects: putative role of epigenetic mechanisms." World Psychiatry, 17(3), 243-257. Generational trauma theory: Wolynn, M. (2016). It Didn't Start with You: How Inherited Family Trauma Shapes Who We Are and How to End the Cycle. Penguin Books. Somatic approaches to ancestral healing: Menakem, R. (2017). My Grandmother's Hands: Racialized Trauma and the Pathway to Mending Our Hearts and Bodies. Central Recovery Press. Attachment across generations: Siegel, D. J., & Hartzell, M. (2003). Parenting from the Inside Out: How a Deeper Self-Understanding Can Help You Raise Children Who Thrive. TarcherPerigee. The body and generational memory: van der Kolk, B. (2014). The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma. Penguin Books. Note: This article presents these concepts through the lens of the author's nursing training, personal healing journey, and professional coaching practice. The explanations and applications are the author's own interpretations designed to make complex concepts accessible to survivors.

Written by Alex Manos, Elite Athlete Life Coach Alex Manos is a Coach for Elite Athletes and Professional sportspeople. He is the founder of Athlete Life Coaching, which is a bespoke coaching business that focuses on coaching the human behind the athlete to maximize performance in their sport and life. If you want to get stronger, lift weights. If you want to get fitter, do some cardio. If you want to lose weight, eat less and train more. If you want to write a book, write consistently. If you want to play the piano, practise the piano. If you want to become mentally stronger and more emotionally resilient as an athlete, how do you train that? Here are my five non-negotiables 1. Mental training is training The first and most important is this: mental training is training. Unfortunately, there is often an inconsistent relationship between mental performance and mental training, as athletes tend to wait until competition to work on their mental skills. They learn techniques but only use them on game day. That would be like attempting a free throw in a game without practising it outside of competition. Mental performance needs mental training at four key times: Outside of your sport Pre-training and competition During training and competition Post-training and competition Treat mental training as you would physical, tactical, and technical training, it is a skill that requires consistent practice. 2. Repetition, repetition, repetition The simplest training principle is repetition. Mental training requires repetition and is arguably harder to build momentum with than physical training. Why is that? Because the results are often less tangible and immediate. Take one example of mental training: breathwork. If you practice breathwork for five minutes daily for a week, you may not see results. If you practice your tennis serve for five minutes daily for a week, you will likely notice improvement next time you play. The same goes for doing five minutes of press-ups daily for a week, you will feel, and maybe even look, slightly different. Mental training requires repetition, so my advice is to start slow and build up gradually, as it can feel overwhelming at first. The old adage “rinse and repeat” is 100 percent necessary for mental training. 3. Consistency Consistency is not the same as repetition. Consistency means sticking to the process despite changes in performance. I have worked with athletes who practice journaling, meditation, or a new morning routine for a few weeks or months, and when performance rises or dips, they stop. This does not build skill or mental capacity, it only gives a temporary boost before returning to square one. Consistency is trusting the process, no matter what the performance. It is sticking to the plan and committing to the training in the long term. A caveat: if the type of mental training is not producing the desired effect, then change it, which brings me to the next point. 4. Be willing to try different techniques and practices Journaling, breathwork, meditation, visualisation, mindfulness, reading, writing, listening to podcasts, yoga, tai chi, Qigong, EFT, prayer, and more are all options. Mental training is not, and should not be, the same for everyone. It must fit your energy and inspire you to keep doing it. If reading biographies of athletes or role models and taking notes works for you, great. If sitting for five minutes a day with guided meditation works, great. If a mindful, silent walk for 20 minutes a day works, perfect. It is unlikely that you will only need to do one thing. My advice is to have a small toolbox of three to five practices to build your mental training. Here is the easiest way to know you have a structured process and routine: if someone asked, “What does your mental training look like?” you should be able to answer clearly and concisely, like a diary system. For example: “I do five minutes of guided meditation twice a day, journal before and after competing, and practice tai chi three times a week for 15 minutes. I also meet with my mental performance coach twice a month.” 5. Find a coach, mentor, or psychologist Of course, I am going to say this as it is my job, but like hiring a PT, physio, sports coach, nutritionist, or doctor, working with one of the above can be the difference between managing mental training adequately or at an elite level. Find someone who can guide you through the process and push you when needed. Find someone who understands you and provides a framework that works for you. Find someone you are willing to invest in long-term and trust completely. Hiring a professional eliminates guesswork, as they have already done the work you are seeking to do. They also hold you accountable. Final comments Mental training is not easy, but the process can be incredibly simple. With a clear plan and consistent training principles, improvements can be both performance- and life-changing. If you are an elite athlete looking to maximise your performance and feel that your mentality is holding you back, I can help. Email me at alex@alexmanoscoaching.com. Follow me on Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn, and visit my website for more info! Read more from Alex Manos Alex Manos, Elite Athlete Life Coach Alex Manos is changing the landscape for how coaching and mental training can benefit Elite Athletes. Having spent 25 years as a physiotherapist, half of which was working in professional sport, he turned his career to coaching several years ago. Passionate about developing athletes as humans first, his work focuses on self-discovery and realization of how their life outside of their sporting arena is a reflection of life in it. Put simply, his coaching philosophy is "Where the athlete meets the human".

Written by Bradley Abbott, Personal Coach Bradley Abbott is known for his wholistic approach to personal coaching merging fitness training with nutritional therapeutics. Author of the e-books A How-to Guide in Developing Functional Strength, Power and Adaptability, and The Cussing Coach, both published in 2024. Strength is more than muscles, it is the discipline to overcome mental resistance and stay committed to your goals. This article explores how negative thoughts can derail your progress, why the battle within is universal, and practical mindful and emotional tools to help you follow through, set a positive example, and achieve lasting fitness and self-confidence. The mirror tells the truth You must become as sharp as a knife, a razor wind, and be the example to your family and community that is undeniable. Fail to prepare, and you prepare to fail. However, do not become rigid in your approach to health, business, or life. Give in to temptation too many times, and you will find yourself looking at someone you do not recognize. The mirror tells the truth, though sometimes you may not truly see that person looking back at you. Heed my words, and you will succeed. The gym-goer: The true strength of character Picture this: you’ve had a hard day at work. You’re tired, outright exhausted, anxious, and sweating. Your parents have argued with you over small things, and you know you have to get that gym session done because it is the closest thing you have to a sense of tranquillity, a sense of peace. Do you do it? You hear online “gurus” and some successful businesspeople talk about “using something to fuel it,” but how many of them actually practice what they tell you to do? Perhaps not many. But you are not like them, are you? You have a hunger, a fire in your belly that sometimes drives you greater than what the online “gurus” can comprehend. Now, think about this: what happens if you don’t do that workout? By default, there are always consequences. At the very least, you will break the promise to yourself, causing your confidence and sense of self-worth to decline. If this continues, you will become the person in the mirror you do not want to recognize. Gradually, you chip away at your own morale and confidence, crush one of your goals, decline your self-image, and dampen any chance you have of being recognized as that person who had the potential to be fit, healthy, energetic, and inspiring to future generations. We always have that battle inside us, especially when we are tired. Some call it the “boss voice” and the “b***h voice.” Others call it “negative thought” and “positive thought.” Those more religiously inclined may call them the “angel on my shoulder” and the “devil on my other.” Whatever you call them, that inner battle about making better choices is part of our humanity, and it never completely goes away. However, depending on the habits you develop, one of those “voices” can become stronger than the other, and it begins with becoming aware of that battle from moment to moment. When we are tired, even outright exhausted, we are most vulnerable to the negative voice telling us to eat that pizza, saying, “It’s okay, you’ve had a hard day. You need to rest and pick it up again tomorrow.” We are our own best salesmen. We know exactly how to exploit our own weaknesses, and we are damn good at it. So, I ask again: will you do it? If you have kids, think about the positive example you are setting, showing them how to push past your own mental barriers that keep you from being the person you want to be. This is the true strength of character. Be the example your parents could not be for you. Set the stage and be excellent. You are worth the fight. Your kids are worth the fight. Your community is worth the fight. The example you set will be seen by others in your family and your neighborhood. So, I ask one more time: are you going to do it? Mindful tools you can use Mindful practices help you connect with your body and mind, making it easier to overcome negative thoughts and stay committed to your goals. A five-minute body-scan meditation allows you to identify areas of tension in your body, bringing awareness to where stress may be held and helping you release it. A ten-minute breath meditation helps you observe thoughts as they pass in and out, teaching you how to let them go instead of being controlled by them. These simple practices improve focus, reduce stress, and strengthen your ability to act with intention. Emotional tools you can use Emotions such as anger and anxiety are powerful, and when properly channeled, they can become fuel for your goals. Learning to direct these emotions into productive action transforms frustration and tension into motivation. By consciously harnessing your energy, each workout, task, or challenge becomes an opportunity to build resilience, discipline, and confidence, helping you maintain progress even when the mental battle feels toughest. Caution If you do not learn to channel your emotions properly, they can run away with you, leaving you drained and exhausted. Remember, emotions are extremely powerful. Follow me on Facebook, Instagram, and visit my website for more info! Read more from Bradley Abbott Bradley Abbott, Personal Coach Bradley Abbott is a personal coach and author. Known for his wholistic approach to training merging naturopathic principles with fitness training, he has managed to reverse the symptoms of his clients almost completely, and raise their energy to heights they never thought possible. He is the founder of Phoenix Phorm Online and uses these platforms to educate and inspire a larger audience.

Written by Alan Melton, Business Coach Alan Melton, founder of Small Business Coach Associates in 2002, is a seasoned entrepreneur and advisor to over 1,000 business owners. His expertise earned his business an Inc 500 ranking and him the U.S. SBA's Small Business Person of the Year. To succeed in the modern competitive environment, an entrepreneur needs more than a good idea to run a business successfully. Firms must navigate evolving customer needs, operational challenges, financial pressures, online competition, and long-term strategy simultaneously. As a result, many organizations turn to top business consultants to make better decisions and create a more solid path forward. Whether a start-up, a growing company, or an established business, professional consultation brings clarity where there is uncertainty. An effective top business consultant does not merely offer opinions. Instead, they examine business performance, diagnose areas of weakness, enhance systems, and suggest solutions that facilitate measurable growth. They also help business owners save time, minimize costly mistakes, and focus on the areas that truly matter. The value of professional consulting continues to increase as industries become more complex. This article explores the value of a top business consultant, the role of consulting in business success, and why more companies are seeking reputable consulting services to improve their performance. It also highlights the qualities of a good consultant and the real advantages businesses gain by engaging one. What does a business consultant do? A consultant provides external expertise, objective review, and strategic advice to help a business operate more effectively. Business owners are often deeply involved in daily operations, which can make it difficult to identify what is holding the company back. A consultant offers a fresh perspective and can pinpoint gaps in planning, workflow, team structure, marketing, or financial management that might go unnoticed from within the business. Strategic planning and decision support A top business consultant plays a critical role in helping businesses make strategic decisions. Growth does not happen by accident, it results from careful planning, market insights, and thoughtful execution. Consultants collaborate with business owners to set achievable objectives and develop strategies aligned with those goals. For example, a consultant may assist a company in entering a new market, launching a product, increasing operational efficiency, or reorganizing aspects of the organization. They ensure that strategies are grounded in data and practical reality rather than guesswork, enabling more confident business decisions. Why businesses need a top business consultant Many firms assume that consulting is only for large organizations, but this is no longer the case. Expert guidance is equally valuable to small and medium-sized businesses, especially when expanding, adapting, or overcoming challenges. External expertise creates better perspective Teams that operate in the same environment over several years can become blind to inefficiencies, prolonging outdated systems and habits. A top business consultant provides a fresh, impartial perspective that the business may need. Consultants often bring experience across multiple industries or business models, introducing tested practices and new ideas that internal teams might not have considered. This external knowledge helps businesses operate more efficiently and avoid common mistakes. Time and cost efficiency Hiring a consultant may seem like an added expense initially, but in most cases, it saves money in the long term. Consultants identify waste, improve productivity, and guide businesses toward smarter investments, resulting in a net payoff that often exceeds the initial cost. A business strategy consultant also saves time. Business owners can get on the right path sooner rather than spending months experimenting with ineffective ideas or addressing the wrong problems. Consulting is, therefore, a sound investment in speed and efficiency. Key qualities of a top business consultant Not all consultants provide the same value. The best professionals combine knowledge, communication, strategic insight, and problem-solving skills to achieve meaningful outcomes. Deep business understanding A top consultant understands how businesses operate in practice, including operations, customer behavior, pricing, team management, market competition, and financial planning. Without this depth, advice may sound good but be ineffective. Good consultants recognize that no two businesses are the same and tailor recommendations to the company’s size, industry, goals, and challenges. Strong communication and clarity Even the best strategy is ineffective if poorly communicated. Communication is a key attribute of an excellent consultant. Business owners need straightforward, realistic guidance and candid feedback. Consultants must be able to present complex issues in a clear and practical way, helping leaders and teams understand the plan and act confidently. Focus on results A true business consultant is not just there to produce reports. They focus on generating measurable outcomes, whether in sales, cost management, efficiency, market penetration, or team performance. Ideal consultants think creatively and prioritize actions that enhance the business and provide long-term value. Industries that benefit from business consulting Business consulting applies to a wide range of industries. Although the specific challenges differ, nearly all sectors benefit from professional guidance. Retail businesses may need support with customer experience, inventory, and sales strategy. Service companies often require operational improvements and stronger positioning. Manufacturing firms typically focus on process efficiency and cost control. Startups frequently seek help with planning, scaling, and market entry. Because of this broad applicability, consulting services are valuable to both traditional and emerging industries. Appropriate guidance improves decision-making and reduces uncertainty, regardless of the sector. Choosing the right business consultant Selecting the right consultant is crucial. Companies should look for individuals with relevant experience, strong communication skills, practical problem-solving abilities, and knowledge of the business’s specific goals. A good consultant explains how they assess a business, identify targeted improvements, and measure success. They provide practical guidance rather than promising instant change. Quality consulting is tactical, carefully designed, and based on real business realities. Final thoughts Expert advice is in high demand in a competitive business environment where decisions carry real consequences. Professional consulting helps businesses make smarter choices and avoid unnecessary setbacks in planning, operations, market strategy, and performance improvement. A skilled consultant not only identifies problems but also develops viable solutions that drive tangible results. For any company seeking to improve performance, refine strategy, and achieve sustainable growth, partnering with a top business consultant is an intelligent and valuable choice. Follow me on Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn, and visit my website for more info! Read more from Alan Melton Alan Melton, Business Coach Alan Melton is an accomplished entrepreneur and seasoned business coach with a track record of profound impact. In 2002, he established Small Business Coach Associates, making use of his experience from founding and growing several businesses and consulting over a thousand business owners. With his leadership, his business was recognized as an Inc. 500 fastest-growing company and has earned him prestigious awards, such as the U.S. SBA’s Small Business Person of the Year and the Governor’s Sterling Award. His mission alongside his team is to "coach you to wealth and business freedom."