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Why We Shouldn't Keep Healing To Ourselves – And Why We Really Should Share

  • Aug 23, 2024
  • 3 min read

Naseha, a healing coach with a Master's in NLP, TimeLine Therapy certification, silva practitioner and a background as an ex-airforce officer, adeptly guides clients to inner peace.

Executive Contributor Naseha Shaban

Every day, we face challenges, whether it's a stressful job, handling family responsibilities, or just the ups and downs of life. It's easy to think we should handle these struggles quietly, on our own. But what if sharing our healing process could make a big difference? What if talking openly about our struggles could help us and others find peace?


woman sharing her struggles with her peers during a group therapy session

The problem with silent healing

For a long time, we’ve believed that dealing with our problems should be a private affair. We keep our struggles to ourselves, thinking we need to be strong and handle everything alone. When we keep our pain hidden, it can feel even heavier. We need to change this. Healing shouldn’t be something we do quietly. Instead, it should be something we share with others.


Why talking about healing is important

When we speak openly about our struggles, we help ourselves and others. Sharing our stories can make us feel understood and less alone. It also shows others that they’re not alone in their pain. Talking about healing helps build a community where everyone feels supported and cared for.


How to start healing out loud


  1. Open up: Start by talking to people whom you trust. Whether it’s friends, family, or a coach, sharing your feelings can be freeing.

  2. Join a group: Look for support groups or online communities where people talk about their struggles and offer support.

  3. Use your voice: Consider writing about your journey or sharing it on social media. It can be a great way to connect with others who might be going through the same thing.

  4. Practice self-care together: Sometimes, just inviting a friend to join you in a relaxing activity, like a walk or a yoga class, can be a way to share your healing process.

  5. Advocate for change: Get involved in initiatives that promote mental health awareness and emotional well-being. Advocate for policies and practices that support open discussions about healing.


Your next step

It’s time to make a change. Let’s make healing something we don’t hesitate to share. Share your story, listen to others, and build a community of support. Together, we can make healing a part of our everyday conversations and find peace in the process.


Start today. Speak up about your journey and support others who are doing the same. Let’s break the silence and create a world where healing is a shared and celebrated experience. By addressing the topic of healing with a new mindset, we not only challenge the norms but also create a space where emotional recovery is seen as a shared experience. Let’s make the change together, one story at a time. The world needs your voice loud and clear.


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Naseha Shaban, Healing Coach & Timeline Therapist

Naseha, a former air traffic controller in the Pakistan Air Force, transitioned into motherhood before rekindling her passion for learning. She achieved mastery in NLP and became a Timeline Therapist and a Silva Practitioner. Engaging in social work for special kids with the Pakistan Association Dubai, she now empowers clients as a healing coach, guiding them towards inner peace.

 
 

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