Why Time Management is Emotional, Not Logical
- Brainz Magazine
- Jul 16, 2025
- 5 min read
Liz Reddish is the founder and owner of Devon Well House, the 'home' of holistic health expertise, training, and her online community, the Holistic Health Network. She is a Functional Kinesiology Professional, TFH Kinesiology Instructor, and Mentor (CNHC, IKC & KF reg.), drawing on over 20 years of experience to promote balance and healing for all.
We’ve all said it."I just don’t have time!"But what if the issue isn’t time itself, but how we feel about time? According to time strategist Rory Vaden, time management isn’t just about logic and scheduling. It’s about emotion, self-awareness, and how we prioritise what truly matters. In short, managing time is really about managing yourself. In this article, I explore the practical applications of better time management as well as provide my insights into the value of creating quality time both in my personal life and in my clinical practice.
Why time feels so scarce
Traditional time management tools teach us to focus on urgency (how soon does this matter?) and importance (how much does this matter?). But here’s the truth: that binary system doesn’t create more time, it just helps us shift things around.
We live in a world of endless tasks, distractions, and demands. Efficiency may help us do things faster, but it doesn’t always help us choose better.
This is where Rory Vaden introduces the idea of 3-dimensional thinking:
Importance – How much does it matter?
Urgency – How soon does it matter?
Significance – How long will it matter?
In other words: What can I do right now that will make the future better?
Multiplying time: A radical shift
Here’s the key insight:
You multiply time by giving yourself emotional permission to spend time on things today that will give you more time tomorrow.
This means allowing yourself to pause, reflect, and invest in systems, strategies, and tasks that reduce chaos in the future. It’s not about cramming more into your calendar; it’s about creating space.
On an emotional and energetic level, when we trust we have enough time, we begin to act from a place of clarity rather than panic. And that trust itself can create more ease, focus, and yes, time.
Before we go into the practical application of this, I want to highlight the part of the statement above that has been part of my awareness from a very early age: giving ourselves emotional permission to place real value on ‘time’. I grew up in a family of ‘doing’. We had a very full life, which meant that my parents were very busy ‘doing’ most of the time. I remember making a conscious decision in my teens that one thing I was going to prioritise when I grew up was to create ‘quality moments’ with my family and friends that create a pause for ‘quality time’, rather than constantly being on the go, fulfilling the endless lists that continue to grow!
I have also learned the hard way, like so many of my clients, that when we are in constant ‘doing mode’, we override the signals from our body that reflect the need for some ‘time-out’, and our health becomes compromised. The physical and emotional ‘fallout’ can be significant, and the productivity that once defined us becomes compromised. Our health is our greatest asset, and yet our relationship with time seems to override our perspective and priorities.
Here is a practical process to work through to help you re-evaluate your relationship with time and how to maximise and support a more balanced outlook.
The focus funnel: A new way to choose
On a practical level, to make better decisions about where your time goes, Vaden offers a simple but powerful tool: The Focus Funnel. Ask yourself these questions:
1. Can I eliminate this?
Not everything needs to be done. In fact, true perfection isn’t about adding more, it’s about removing what’s not essential. Every time you say yes to something, you’re saying no to many other things. Choose wisely.
2. Can I automate it?
Set up systems that run without you. Yes, it takes time upfront, but it pays dividends later. Automation turns one-time effort into ongoing time savings.
3. Can I delegate it?
Can someone else do this? Can you teach them how? Delegating frees you to focus on what only you can do. Let go of the belief that you must do everything yourself.
If it can't be eliminated, automated, or delegated
Ask: Should I do it now, or later?
This is where purposeful procrastination comes in. Not all delays are bad. Sometimes you need to wait because the timing isn’t right. But if a task keeps getting pushed back, ask yourself:
Is it fear holding me back?
Or is it truly not aligned with my priorities?
Because procrastination is the killer of all success.
And as the saying goes: How you do one thing is how you do everything.
Creating emotional space
Beyond all the strategies, there’s something deeper. Time expands when we feel spacious, grounded, and present. When we stop gripping onto the illusion of control and begin to trust that we do have time for what matters most, something powerful shifts.
Your nervous system regulates, allowing you to become more creative and more productive.
You see more, hear more, and feel more.
Your presence of mind supports you to say no to the things that don’t serve you and let go of what no longer fits.
By taking the time today, it creates ease tomorrow.
When your nervous system regulates and you feel safe not to rush, it supports others to do the same. This supports deeper, more meaningful connections and relationships to form.
This is how we reclaim our time, not by doing more, but by doing what matters with intention.
Final thought
Time will always be finite. But your relationship with time? That’s infinite and it's transformable.
So next time you find yourself saying, “I just don’t have time,” pause and ask: Is this really about time or about permission?
Because maybe what you need most is to give yourself both.
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Liz Reddish, Kinesiology Professional, Trainer and Mentor
Devon Well House stands as a beacon of hope, education, and inspiration, offering personalised care and empowerment to those seeking wellness from within. Liz Reddish welcomes you to a space where healing is more than a service–it's a journey of self-discovery and transformation. Her passion for empowering others and sharing her knowledge and skills is evident through her training opportunities, mentoring programs, and the Holistic Health Network Community. If you are seeking a deeper connection, a greater understanding, and a guiding light to bring you 'home' to yourself and your innate healing wisdom within, contact Liz at liz@devonwellhouse.co.uk.
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