Why 'Sucking It Up' Isn't Always The Answer Mastering – Mindset: Breaking Free From Unhelpful Patterns And Embracing Transformation
- Brainz Magazine
- Feb 6, 2024
- 3 min read
Updated: Sep 26, 2024
Written by: Jennifer Degen, Executive Contributor
Executive Contributors at Brainz Magazine are handpicked and invited to contribute because of their knowledge and valuable insight within their area of expertise.
In the world of personal growth, the conversations around mindset often lead us to explore the intricate connection between our thoughts, emotions, and the choices we make. Today, we delve into the subject of mastering one's mindset – a journey that transcends mere coping and invites a transformative evolution.
Capturing the essence of change
In a recent training session, my lead coach Marissa Peer shared a thought-provoking anecdote from one of her coaches' mothers. A simple yet powerful question echoed through the conversation: Why can't people just "Suck it Up and Get On With It"? This phrase, often associated with an old paradigm of resilience, prompts us to consider the balance between pushing forward and acknowledging our need for support.
Understanding the impact of thoughts
Our thoughts are the architects of our emotional landscape, and consequently, they shape our daily experiences. While a swift "get on with it" may be appropriate for minor setbacks, if I find myself entangled in persistent negative beliefs that hinders my wellbeing, why not question it? The perpetual replay of outdated mental chatter and scripts inherited from family or society can keep us in unhelpful patterns of thinking, feeling and living.
Embracing evolution
Change takes courage, awareness is required in order for us to observe that we have these unhelpful thoughts. Mindfulness is a great gateway to self-awareness. True evolution also calls for a departure from the patterns of the past. It beckons us to replace unhelpful self-talk with new, empowering ways of thinking. Choosing thoughts that align with our values and aspirations becomes a crucial step in breaking free from the pain of limiting beliefs.
Transformation as a choice
Transformation is more than a fleeting moment of change; it is a conscious and permanent choice to make shifts that serve the higher and greater good. It involves recognizing patterns that no longer serve us, dismantling them, and replacing them with beliefs that propel us forward.
Practical steps to mindset mastery
Embark on a Mindfulness Practice - Awareness is the foundation of being in our bodies, and feeling and observing what is going on.
Identify Negative Thought Patterns: Take a reflective pause to recognize recurring negative thoughts. Awareness is the first step towards change.
Challenge and Reframe: Question the validity of these thoughts. Are they rooted in reality, or are they echoes of the past? Reframe them into positive affirmations.
Cultivate a Growth Mindset: Embrace challenges and triggers as opportunities for growth. See setbacks not as failures but as stepping stones toward success.
Visualize Success: Create a mental image of your desired future. Visualization can be a powerful tool to manifest positive outcomes.
Seeking to cultivate a growth mindset in the workplace, the journey involves integrating these principles into leadership, decision-making, and team dynamics. Recognizing that mindset is contagious, leaders can inspire positive change by fostering an environment that encourages continuous learning and adaptability.
As we navigate the fascinating terrain of mindset mastery, let us remember that each thought is a thread to the multicolored tapestry of our lives. The masterpiece we create depends on the colors we choose. So, dare to replace old paradigms with thoughts that fuel your evolution, and watch as your life transforms into a work of art that inspires and uplifts not only you but everyone around you.
Would you like to explore a journey into change? I have a few slots on my calendar this month, let’s have a chat.
Jennifer Degen, Executive Contributor Brainz Magazine
Her work as a Somatic Coach and Resiliency Expert draws on 30 years of eastern and western traditions. Jennifer’s post-traumatic growth from having brain surgery was a catapulting force that led her to shaping sustainable wellness solutions. Her work with health professionals, caretakers and leaders focus’ on Expanding connection, Opening to creativity, Life work balance, Embodied mindfulness, Self-leadership, Insight and Sustainable change. Mind Body Awareness is the intersection of somatic psychology, neuroscience, mindfulness and personal growth.
