Why Being “Too Much” Is the Secret to Attracting Everything You Want
- Brainz Magazine
- 5 hours ago
- 8 min read
Juniper Celeste Winter is a Soul Embodiment Mentor and the host of the Soul Syntegration podcast. Her work fuses ancient soul wisdom with practical modern life to guide cycle-breakers and soul-led seekers to stop spiraling, start integrating, and finally live the life they always imagined for themselves.
What if the things you’ve been told to tone down your whole life, your emotional intensity, your passion, your depth, are the very key to attracting your dream opportunities with ease? In this article, I’ll show you how to turn your ‘too much’ into the kind of magnetic power that makes everything you desire come to you naturally, so your emotional depth becomes your greatest superpower.
The truth about “too much”
I was sitting in a booth at a noisy restaurant across from former friends and acquaintances when the conversation shifted to a more exciting topic. I was never one for small talk, but deep dives into science, spirituality, health, and mysticism always light my fire. I perked up, excited to engage. I joined in passionately, then quickly noticed someone shift uncomfortably.
After a while, he spoke up. “Hey, can you quiet down a little? You’re being really loud.” My heart sank with disappointment.
What began as a passionate fire within me suddenly shrank and deflated. I didn’t feel like speaking much anymore.
At that time, I was still unconsciously seeking approval. I thought I had done something wrong. After all, his sentiment echoed the voices of so many parents, teachers, and other authority figures I had heard growing up. I was conditioned to believe that there was something inherently “wrong” with me and the way that I naturally took up space.
While he didn’t use the words “too much” explicitly, the message was the same: Your bigness makes me feel uncomfortable, so tone it down, would you?
It often felt like my bigness wasn’t wanted.
At the time, I believed those messages. I thought something was wrong with me.
Now, I understand the truth:
Your authenticity will always trigger those who have not fully met themselves yet.
I began to realize that my bigness and boldness were never actually a problem for me.
It was that same passionate fire, loudness, and boldness that were the very things that attracted more opportunities to me than I could count.
It made me magnetic.
And a lot of people can get triggered by that.
Why? Because being magnetic makes things look easy.
Opportunities simply land in your lap. People seek you out for advice. Jobs try to snag you. Gorgeous strangers that everyone hopes will notice them approach you shyly to ask you out.
That same quality that got you labeled “too much” by all the wrong people is the same energy that will help you attract all the right ones.
That energy isn’t a liability, it’s your calling card.
What if the very thing you’ve been told your whole life to tone down is the exact thing you’re here to amplify? What if others ask you to shrink not because you’re doing anything wrong but because they don’t know how to magnetize effortlessly?
And once you realize that, you can stop shrinking and start magnetizing, which is your superpower.
You just have to remember who the heck you are first.
Why emotional depth is pure magnetism
Realistically, you were probably called “too much” for tapping into some type of emotion.
Whether it was passion (like in my story above), grief, sadness, or even joy, you were probably told to “tone it down” in one way or another for expressing that emotion outwardly in some way.
Emotions tend to make people uncomfortable, especially when they are not in tune with their own. However, that’s why those same people can struggle to attract their deepest desires.
Why? Because emotional depth and authenticity are pure magnetism.
Your heart frequency creates an electromagnetic toroidal field around you. It’s not just mysticism, it’s science.
That electromagnetic field is fueled by your heart, your emotions.
When you own your emotional depth, you stop hustling for scraps of attention and start watching aligned opportunities, dream clients, collaborations, and invitations simply find their way to your inbox without you lifting a finger.
No extra hustle, just pure, authentic alignment.
In short, your emotional depth is exactly what creates a strong gravitational pull towards your heart’s electromagnetic field.
Your heart’s electromagnetic field isn’t just measurable science, it’s your beacon, constantly sending out a signal that calls in what’s meant for you. When you clear emotional static, you tune that signal to the exact frequency of your deepest desires. That’s when everything polarizes.
Magnetism attracts both charges in equal measure. For as many aligned opportunities as you attract, there will be an equal number of unaligned people, places, things, and circumstances that you will repel. It’s a blessing, not a curse.
When I was waiting tables at a restaurant in Lahaina, the tides shifted after I had been there for almost a year. What was once a sustainable income dramatically decreased seemingly overnight. After a few months of waiting for business to pick back up again, I was forced to seek other job opportunities.
I applied to multiple restaurants. My resume was immaculate. I was normally highly sought after in the restaurant industry for my experience, but I wasn’t getting any callbacks. Even after a few interviews, no job offer came.
Eventually, I realized that I was trying to push something into being rather than magnetizing what was most aligned for me. Instead of continuing down the “logical” path of applying for more jobs, I got deep into my heart. I asked it to magnetize the right opportunity for me.
The next day, I stumbled into one of my favorite art galleries while still applying at restaurants. I mostly stopped in to say hello to my friend who ran the gallery on a whim, but as we talked, he asked me if I had considered selling art. It had not occurred to me because I had never done it before. He gave me some recommendations on which galleries to apply to (his wasn’t hiring) and told me to tell them he referred me. I landed a job at my other favorite galleries within a few days, and was hired on the spot after my interview.
I wasn’t rejecting restaurant jobs because I couldn’t do them. I was repelling them because another opportunity to make more money doing less work was more aligned.
And the opportunity just landed in my lap without me chasing it.
When you start to realize that what you are repelling is not meant for you (and that’s a good thing), you can shift your focus to what you want to attract. When you shift your focus to your desired outcome and align your frequency with it, it will come to you.
Effortlessly. Easily. Naturally. At the perfect time and in the perfect way.
Which is going to trigger the people who don’t know how to do that yet, but that’s okay. When you start recognizing their reactions as a testament to your power, you won’t be bothered by their reactions anymore. You’ll start to thank them.
That’s when you know you’ve turned your depth into a superpower.
Turning depth into your superpower
Emotions aren’t meant to be something that rules over us, but many people are not taught how to manage them in a way that allows them to be used as a guide, not a master.
The problem is, when you’ve been taught to suppress your emotions for a long time, letting them surface can feel overwhelming, but it doesn’t have to be.
When you learn how to integrate your emotions as a powerful tool rather than something to be suppressed or avoided, they become your superpower.
When I was studying for my biology degree, I took an entomology class and learned that cockroaches can sense food, mates, and danger even around corners through chemical signals. It made me wonder: what if our emotions work the same way? What if they’re not here to overwhelm us, but to guide us toward opportunity and away from misalignment?
I know that human emotion is far more complex than cockroach sensory detection, but I think it still implies that our emotions can detect far more complex scenarios should we learn to understand them better.
Just like those chemical signals, emotions only guide us if we both feel them and learn how to interpret them, which starts in the heart, the center of your electromagnetic field.
Your heart is the center of your electromagnetic field, your personal gravitational pull. That gravitational pull is your magnetism.
But what if it’s blocked?
From a young age, we’re taught that our emotions are “too much” and must be toned down, but doing so is like jamming your electromagnetic field; you can’t attract what’s truly yours until you clear the interference.
Your emotions are energy in motion, powerful signals that can alert you to both danger and aligned opportunity, if you know how to read them.
When you clear your heart space, you clear your frequency, and that’s when aligned opportunities show up naturally, without chasing. That’s when emotions have become your superpower.
During a time when my living environment felt toxic, I longed for a way out but had no resources. Every logical path was blocked. So I turned inward, releasing what was weighing on my heart until I found peace. The very next day, the path opened for me to move into a better situation, so effortlessly, it seemed like magic.
When you stop over-identifying with or suppressing your emotions, you allow them to flow as the intelligent guidance they are. Understanding them as information lets you transmute them into magnetism, attracting exactly what’s aligned for you and repelling what’s not.
Which means that tuning into your emotional depth and therefore your greatest magnetism is your key to embracing your emotional authenticity and becoming Magnetic AF.
It’s not about doing more.
It’s about recognizing the truth of who you already are, clearing the noise, and transmuting all the emotions that get you called “too much” into your greatest superpower and stepping fully into your most authentic, magnetic baddie self.
An invitation to step fully into your magnetic self
Your emotional depth is rare in a world addicted to surface-level vices and superficiality.
While rare might trigger those who have devoted their lives to mediocrity, their triggers are showing you your power; they are not an invitation to shrink.
It’s your emotional depth, your authenticity, your passion, your zeal, your muchness, that sets you apart, and the things that set you apart are the things that magnetize your dream opportunities to you.
No chasing. No hustling. No grinding.
Just pure authentic alignment, drawing everything you want to you with ease. You’re already magnetic.
Every glance, every word, every spark of passion carries a frequency that either calls in your destiny or scatters your power to the wind.
How you harness that power has a lot to do with how you handle your energy and emotions.
Your energy isn’t random, it’s a current.
When you understand its flow, you can direct it with intention, like a lightning strike finding the exact point it’s meant to touch.
That’s what your Sacred Rebel Archetype reveals.
It’s not about changing who you are. It’s about remembering, with startling clarity, the blueprint you’ve carried all along, the one that was never “too much,” just waiting to be fully claimed.
When you take the quiz, you’ll see exactly how to:
Channel your magnetism toward what you most want (without chasing).
Amplify your depth into an irresistible force that draws the right people, opportunities, and experiences to you.
Let go of what’s misaligned and feel the freedom in that release.
Your archetype is already alive in you. The quiz simply names it, so you can live it on purpose.
Start your initiation. Discover your archetype. Step fully into the life your magnetism has been calling in all along.
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Juniper Celeste Winter, Soul Embodiment Mentor & Podcast Host
Juniper Celeste Winter is the creator of Magnetic AF: A Guide to Aligned Attraction and her signature program, Rise Above: 4 Keys to Becoming Unshakable When Life Throws Punches.
Initiated by fire, both literal and spiritual, Juniper’s path cracked her heart open to the deeper codes of embodiment, integration, and soul-aligned magnetism. Her work doesn’t tiptoe around transformation; it dives straight into the mess, the magic, and the underlying truth. Raw, real, and deeply rooted, it’s built on the knowing that you don’t need to be fixed, you just need to come home to yourself.
Her mission is to help others burn down their old programming and rise unstoppable, unshakeable, and unapologetically alive.
