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Three Steps To Living The Life You Truly Desire

  • Writer: Brainz Magazine
    Brainz Magazine
  • Jun 21, 2022
  • 3 min read

Written by: Paul Kearney, Executive Contributor

Executive Contributors at Brainz Magazine are handpicked and invited to contribute because of their knowledge and valuable insight within their area of expertise.

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What if living the life you truly desire is actually about exploring the question of what is required and what do you desire rather than worrying about getting something right? What life do you desire to create that you have never considered?


So often we live life day-to-day, just maintaining and doing what is right in front of us and just keeping our heads above water rather than actively creating something greater. But what if you took the time to look and ask “OK What life do I truly desire to create? Who would be fun to hang out with? What places would be fun to visit? What experiences do I desire to have?”

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A great question to ask is: “Who am I today, and what grand and glorious adventures are available for me to be and receive?” This is a question and a tool from Access Consciousness that allows a space to open up for you to create the life you truly desire to create. To this end, creating the life you truly desired is much easier if you follow three simple steps:


STEP ONE:

Approach the creation of your life as if there are endless possibilities available to you (which there are). Ask a question and allow the Universe to respond. “What is truly possible for me that I have never considered in any lifetime?”


When you start to acknowledge that you create everything in your life, the good, the bad and the ugly, then everything starts to open up with more ease. From this space, you can say “Wow, I’ve created this. What would I like to create now? What would actually be fun for me?”


STEP TWO:

The second step is to ask “What feels light for me?” What’s light for you is true, and what is heavy for you is a lie. When you actually acknowledge “This is true for me, this is fun for me” it will open up a lightness in your world and following that lightness will open up more space for you to do more things in your life that are fun and enjoyable for you.


STEP THREE:

The third step is to ask “What do I truly desire?” When you acknowledge what you actually desire in life and you clarify what is fun for you (spending time with certain people, doing certain things, visiting certain places) you set yourself on the path to actualizing more of those moments. What is required for you to have a magical life? It may be time in nature, it may be time by the ocean when you acknowledge those desires, you actually start to create the life you truly desire. By asking the question “What life do I truly desire?” you become more aware and open to that space.


So what life do you desire, what actions are required to actualise that desire, and what choices can you make now that will allow you to create the life you truly desire?


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Paul Kearney, Executive Contributor Brainz Magazine

Paul Kearney is a Business and Wellness Coach, a qualified Yoga, Tai Chi, and Meditation teacher, and an Access Consciousness Certified Facilitator who travels the world facilitating change in the business sector and with private clients.


With a background in International Sales and Project Management, Paul’s personal experience with depression led to a deep exploration of various Well-being practices and heavily influences his work choices today. Paul is currently the European director of Access Consciousness International Limited, and he is also the General Manager of Castello Di Casalborgone, a stunning semi-private residence-based outside Turin in Northern Italy. The Castle is a place of beauty, joy, and peace, surrounded by rolling hills and beautiful vistas across the Italian countryside, which make it a beautiful place to stay and relax and restore your body and mind.


A creator, mover, and innovator of the highest caliber, Paul is blazing a new and unique trail in the provision of Personal Facilitation and Corporate Coaching through the courses and sessions he runs globally, both in person and virtually.


Paul is an avid horse lover and a dedicated sports enthusiast, and he balances these passions with creating a world-changing impact through his various business interests. In his role as an Access Consciousness Certified Facilitator, Paul takes great pleasure in traveling the world, empowering people to know that they know and to trust themselves to create a life they love.

 
 

This article is published in collaboration with Brainz Magazine’s network of global experts, carefully selected to share real, valuable insights.

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