The Spiritual Hangover and When Healing Hurts and Why That's a Gift
- Brainz Magazine
- Jun 9
- 4 min read
Written by Sabine Bierenstiel, Business & Life Coach
Sabine Bierenstiel, a dynamic Business Coach and Spiritual Healer, synergizes her expertise to guide individuals towards transformative growth and profound self-realization.
In today’s spiritual world, awakening is often celebrated as a breakthrough. But what few talk about is what happens next: the spiritual hangover. This is the phase where deep-seated fears, hidden patterns, and outdated beliefs rise to the surface. Energetic realignment doesn’t just bring clarity, it often brings confrontation.
Many people report anxiety, withdrawal, sleeplessness, or even a loss of momentum right after powerful healing work. Ironically, they find themselves losing touch with success, abundance, or joy, just when they thought they were stepping into a higher frequency.
What is a spiritual hangover, really?
A spiritual hangover is not a setback, but a sign of deep energetic detox. Much like a physical cleanse, the energy body can react strongly when old emotional and energetic imprints begin to dissolve.
Typical symptoms include
Sudden self-doubt despite recent progress
Withdrawing from key relationships or career opportunities
Fatigue or energetic crashes
Unexplained sadness or fear after healing work
Self-sabotaging just before a breakthrough
Loosing faith
The root causes: 3 core blocks behind the spiritual hangover
1. Fear of abundance and losing control
Many spiritually inclined people carry a subconscious mistrust of abundance. The belief that success equals disconnection or ego-driven behavior often keeps them from receiving fully.
Example (relationships): Client A began pulling away from a loving partnership after deep heart chakra work. In truth, the opening had activated long-held abandonment fears he had been spiritually bypassing for years.
2. Self-limiting beliefs
“I’m not good enough.” “I don’t deserve this.” “Success will cost me myself.” These internal narratives act like hidden anchors, holding you back from stepping into your next level.
Example (business): Client B was on the verge of launching a powerful soul-based business. Suddenly, she felt paralyzed by fear of visibility and shut the entire project down.
3. Energetic blocks (especially in the root chakra)
In over 90% of energetic readings, a major block is found in the root chakra, the energy center linked to safety, grounding, and trust. Without healing this foundation, sustainable success remains out of reach.
Solutions: Energetic rebalancing and shadow integration
1. Awareness and observation
The first key is to become conscious of your thought patterns. When and where do fear and doubt show up? What triggers your self-sabotage?
Practice tip: Keep a “mindset journal.” Each time you hear yourself think, “This is too much for me,” or “I don’t deserve this,” write down:
The situation that triggered it
The exact thought or emotion
Any physical sensations (e.g., tight chest, unease, sudden fatigue)
2. Identify the origin: Childhood conditioning and systemic patterns
Most limiting beliefs stem from early life experiences or societal conditioning. As you track patterns, the emotional root often reveals itself.
Example (work): Client C realized her fear of responsibility was linked to a childhood experience where she had to parent her siblings while her own needs were ignored.
3. Shadow work & energetic healing
This is where true transformation begins:
Shadow work uncovers the parts of yourself that were exiled or suppressed.
Energetic signature reading pinpoints specific blocks and helps direct healing.
Root chakra clearing restores stability, trust, and a sense of groundedness.
The role of mudras: Energetic keys to restore confidence
Mudras are ancient hand gestures that act like energetic codes, activating healing, flow, and self-regulation:
Mudra for grounding: Reconnects you to safety and body awareness
Mudra for self-trust: Dismantles inner saboteurs
Mudra for transformation: Integrates the shadow self
Mudra for forgiveness: Releases guilt and past pain
Mudra for receiving: Opens your system to abundance and success
(Additional Mudras available through advanced sessions and mentorship programs.)
Coaching offer: Navigate the spiritual hangover with confidence
In my 1:1 sessions and group programs, I help you:
Identify and release energetic patterns
Safely explore and integrate your shadow
Heal the root chakra and other key energy centers
Activate your personal Mudra code
Reconnect with your true essence and leadership power
We use:
Energetic Signature Readings
Soul-aligned Coaching
Somatic tools for nervous system regulation
Spiritual techniques for grounding and stabilization
Breathing Techniques to take off the stress in the nervous system
Conclusion: The hangover is not the end, it’s the gateway
The spiritual hangover isn’t a failure; it’s the transition between your old identity and your embodied truth. It invites you to look at what was once hidden so you can become who you truly are. When you release the fear of success and abundance, you allow your soul mission to fully come online, clear, powerful, and authentic.
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Sabine Bierenstiel, Business & Life Coach
Sabine Bierenstiel blends her knowledge from the realms of business and spirituality, catalyzing transformative experiences in others. With a background in both economics and spiritual practices like Akashic Records and Seashell Healing, Sabine embodies resilience and perseverance. Her mission is to unlock the highest potential within individuals, making it tangible through her coaching and teachings, ultimately guiding them towards profound self-realization.
