The Energy of Leadership – How Your Vibe Shapes Every Room You Walk Into
- Dec 18, 2025
- 3 min read
Janice Elsley is a leadership strategist, author, and keynote speaker who helps CEOs and leaders elevate their impact. As founder of Harissa Business Partners, she blends neuroscience, change management, and human design to drive success.
Before you say a word, your energy has already spoken. People may not remember what you said in a meeting, but they’ll remember how you made them feel. That feeling, the calm, confidence, or chaos that fills the air when you arrive, is your leadership energy. And here’s the truth: most leaders don’t realize you’re not just managing people. You’re managing energy, your own and everyone else’s. Because leadership isn’t a title, it’s an energetic transfer.
The science of energy in leadership
Every human being has an emotional frequency, an energetic “tone” that others can sense, often before a single word is spoken. This isn’t just poetic, it’s neurological. Through a process called emotional contagion, your nervous system mirrors the energy of those around you. When a leader walks in calm, centered, and present, their team’s heart rate literally lowers. But when a leader walks in anxious, impatient, or tense, that stress ripples instantly through the room. This is why culture doesn’t start in policy. It starts in presence.
Your energy sets the emotional climate
You are the emotional thermostat of your team. If you’re reactive, everyone tightens up. If you’re grounded, everyone relaxes. And it’s not about perfection, it’s about awareness. Here’s the key difference between average leaders and exceptional ones. Average leaders absorb the room’s energy. Great leaders shift it. They don’t just read the mood, they raise it. They don’t just notice tension, they neutralize it. They know that influence begins with the vibration they carry, not the words they deliver.
How to lead energetically
Leading with energy isn’t about being “positive” all the time. It’s about being intentional. Here’s how to tune your leadership energy daily:
Set your frequency before your day begins. Before checking emails, ask, “What do I want people to feel in my presence today?” Calm? Inspired? Safe? Choose it consciously.
Ground yourself before big conversations. Take one deep breath before you walk into the room. It tells your nervous system, “We’re safe. We’re steady.”
Reflect before reacting. When something triggers you, pause and ask, “What energy am I about to spread?”
Recover after you lead. Leading energetically takes intention. Schedule time to recharge so you don’t lead from depletion.
The ripple effect you create
When you shift your energy, you don’t just change meetings, you change momentum. A calm leader creates clarity. An inspired leader sparks creativity. A compassionate leader cultivates commitment. And it’s contagious. One grounded person can reset an entire team’s nervous system. The most powerful part? You don’t need louder words, bigger strategies, or more authority to shift energy. You just need awareness and presence.
The leadership challenge
This week, I invite you to try this. Before your next meeting, take one slow, deep breath and silently say, “I bring calm and clarity into this space.” Then observe what happens. Watch how people open up. Notice how the tone softens. Feel how your presence changes the flow of the room. That’s energetic leadership in motion, invisible but unmistakable.
Final thoughts
Leadership isn’t about what you do, it’s about who you are while you’re doing it. You can’t fake frequency. People will always feel the truth beneath your tone. So protect your peace like it’s part of your job description, because it is. The most magnetic leaders aren’t the loudest or the busiest. They’re the ones who walk into chaos and carry calm. The ones whose energy makes others exhale. And that, more than any strategy or title, is what people follow and never forget.
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Janice Elsley, Leadership Expert, International Author, and Podcast Host
Janice Elsley is a leadership expert, author, and keynote speaker helping CEOs and executives future-proof their leadership with neuroscience-driven strategies.
As founder of Harissa Business Partners, she drives performance, inclusivity, and talent retention. Her book Leadership Legacy and programs, Leading Edge Women, The Leading Edge, and First 100 Days of Leadership, equip leaders with the confidence and strategies to make an impact. Whether coaching executives or delivering transformational keynotes, Janice creates real results.
