The Discipline Deficit That Holds You Back from Success
- Brainz Magazine
- May 2, 2025
- 4 min read
Arthur J. Rutledge is a mindset and leadership speaker, coach, and trainer. He helps people to beam with their dreams and how to put fire on their desires. Best selling Author of the new book "11 Pillars of Confidence" published by the L.A. Tribune. Also an entrepreneur and co-founder of Peoples Pride.
Over the past month, I’ve been reflecting on how often we find ourselves stuck in stagnation, living lives that feel unfulfilled. We may flirt with fulfillment but rarely embrace it fully, as the loyal companion it’s meant to be. So the real question is: How do we commit to the necessary work of growth without being consumed by the discomfort it often brings?
Many of the things we don’t want in life happen simply because we lack awareness. If we knew what was coming while we were still in the thick of the doing, we’d likely be much further along. Discipline is the bridge between where we are and where we want to be. It teaches us to develop skills, nurture habits, and turn setbacks into springboards for transformation. With discipline, we build the strength of character to invent new, lasting ways to succeed.
“Discipline is doing what you hate but doing it like you love it.” – Mike Tyson
In our culture, discipline can feel like a dirty word, unless you’re German. (No offense intended!) But when a colleague recently asked me for three essentials that help people live their best lives, my answer revolved around this: Taking charge of what’s priceless always comes at a cost.
The student who studies earns good grades.
The artist who honors a vision may wear their hands out, yet feel their soul lit up.
The speaker who communicates with power does so after tireless reflection and preparation.
The athlete who trains daily attunes body, emotion, and mind to be ready for the
win.
Life’s precision is sharpened through discipline in the areas where we seek results. The process we commit to becomes the journal that tells the story of our success.
Five ways to frame a foundation
1. Reframe your fall
Start viewing setbacks as stepping stones. Failure isn’t the end, it’s information. Every challenge holds a lesson. The only true failure is quitting. Choose instead to rise, recalibrate, and carry on. The body may stumble, but the soul invites the heart to transcend.
2. Reframe your perspective
Change the story you tell yourself. Your mindset shapes your ability to overcome. If you see every setback as defeat, you’ll stay discouraged. But if you view each challenge as a growth opportunity, the game changes. Quiet your mind and you claim your power.
3. Reframe your purpose
Reconnect with your why. Purpose infused with passion fuels progress. Without it, even the most brilliant plans will fall flat. When you understand why you do what you do, clarity and energy follow. One sign of progress in life is when clinging to what’s lost becomes less important than understanding what’s growing within you.
4. Reframe your intention
Intention thrives through discipline. There’s the intention of reflection, looking inward, and the intention of insight; seeking truth. Both explore what’s known and what’s hidden. Objective thinking is the cornerstone of success. Authenticity and clarity walk hand in hand. Right intentions lead to bold actions; poor intentions lead to hesitation. Wisdom is the skill of thinking swiftly yet mindfully. And integrity guards that wisdom.
5. Reframe your resolve
Unshakable resolve is the mark of excellence. Strengthen your bounce-back ability. Learn from reflection. The better you understand your missteps, the easier it becomes to move forward. Forgiveness renews self-trust and opens the door to emotional and mental freedom. Even small acts of preparation are signs of wisdom and growth.
“Discipline is the bridge between goals and accomplishments.” – Jim Rohn
I once heard the phrase wandering generality from the late great Zig Ziglar. He often said, “You cannot make it as a wandering generality; you must become a meaningful specific.” He believed that success depends on clear intentional goals, daily action, and the warming of fine relationships.
Discipline isn’t one thing, it’s a layered approach. If you want to shorten the gap between where you are and where you want to be, you must direct your attention toward persistent awareness. That awareness makes course corrections easier, stretches your comfort zone, replaces mistaken thinking with creativity, and uncovers buried insecurities that can now be resolved.
So what area of your life are you ready to discipline today? What’s one habit you’ll commit to for the next 30 days?
Where can you apply discipline right now that would change everything? What’s your next right step toward becoming a meaningful specific?
Staying in curiosity with these or similar questions will establish and enhance an authentic look at how to navigate in critical thinking. Yes, these skill will tone down the feelings of unconditionally or uncomfortably blindsided. Life has one surprise after another for us. So, arm yourself during those present day lofty pursuits.
Success begins with discipline!
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Arthur J. Rutledge, Author, Leadership Speaker & Coach
Arthur J. Rutledge is a thought leader with an unwavering mission to enhance, cultivate, and empower over a million leaders to fulfill their pure potential in life. Starting from a young age, his love for people became fundamental and sparked his passion for giving back by supporting people in their personal growth. 2024 marked the fruition of that endured vision with the new book " 11 Pillars of Confidence, build and Lead an Empowered You." He is also an entrepreneur, owner of Kap Group Events NYC, and co-founder of the online store Peoples Pride. His abetment in life is to continue helping people to reinvent and reinforce the vertical mindset, the words he is known to say as an encouragement to all, "Shine on!"
