The Book Every Cycle-Breaking Parent Needs This Summer – Wiggles McGee- The Magic Within
- Brainz Magazine
- Jun 13
- 5 min read
Sogol Johnson, MA, ICF Candidate, is an award-winning experience designer who left her Fortune 500 career to break the generational cycle of trauma. Founder of The Self Parent, she is an educator, writer, and coach empowering parents through self-parenting and healing journeys to create a healthier next generation.
Thank you for sharing this beautiful and insightful introduction to Wiggles McGee – The Magic Within. It sounds like a truly powerful and much-needed resource for families seeking to break generational cycles and build emotional resilience together. Wishing you all the best with the launch!
The inspiration behind the book
As a trauma-informed coach and somatic practitioner, I’ve witnessed firsthand how unresolved emotional wounds echo across generations. I also saw what was missing, particularly in children’s literature, where stories often stop at naming emotions rather than teaching what to do with them. There’s an abundance of beautifully illustrated books that describe feelings, but few that empower adults with in-the-moment practices to regulate and co-regulate nervous systems. What was needed were stories that bridge the science of emotional development with the imaginative, heart-led world of childhood, making self-regulation not only understandable but doable.
Many books talk about feelings, but few teach children or more importantly the caretakers what to do with those feelings in the moment. Wiggles McGee – The Magic Within was born from that gap. I wanted to create a book that didn’t just narrate emotions, but modeled emotional intelligence through action, breathwork, sensory awareness, and imagination.
The Wiggles McGee series is a compilation of love letters to the parents trying to break generational cycles. It’s for those who didn’t grow up with tools to process emotions but are now brave enough to learn alongside their children. In McGee's world, both child and adult readers find space to breathe, reflect, and reset – together.
Ancient roots, modern relevance: Zoroastrian wisdom for emotional wellness
As someone raised with Zoroastrian heritage, one core belief has shaped how I approach emotional regulation: Humata, Hukhta, Hvarshta – good thoughts, good words, good deeds. But that goodness has to start inward first and foremost before it can spread its wings and embrace those around us. You cannot give what you don’t have. If you don’t think, speak, and act kindly toward yourself, how can you truly show kindness to others? I model that at home, and it has become a parenting, friendship, and relationship superpower.
In The Magic Within, McGee learns that calming his body and speaking gently to himself is not only brave, it’s necessary. This reflects a deeper spiritual truth: regulating your internal world is the first step in contributing to a more peaceful external one. The story gently introduces this concept to children in playful language while reminding adults that self-kindness is not indulgent – it’s foundational. It’s true self-care, and it deserves to be normalized.
The mission of the wiggles mcgee series
The Wiggles McGee series exists to build bridges between inner child and outer parent, between nervous systems, between ancient wisdom and modern science. The vision is to help children develop emotional agility by teaching them what many adults are only now learning: that feelings are messengers, not enemies.
Encourages parents to co-regulate, not just correct; to lead by example rather than demand behavior management
Moves families and teachers from reactivity to connection by offering in-the-moment practices anyone can use
Make emotional fitness as routine as brushing teeth with tools like:
Breathing bubbles to self-soothe
Hugging yourself and tapping
Grounding through the toes to reconnect with the body
Naming emotions with curiosity to reduce overwhelm
Teaches children to:
Build emotional vocabulary
Practice patience with yourself and self-kindness
Strengthen empathy and listening
Feel safe expressing big feelings without shame
Teaches adults to:
Model nervous system regulation
Repair ruptures through presence, not perfection
Rewire their own emotional patterns while parenting
The science behind the story: Polyvagal theory, tantrums, and co-regulation
Wiggles McGee – The Magic Within is more than a bedtime story. It’s a neuroeducation tool disguised as a playful moment of discovery. At its core, the book draws from Polyvagal Theory, which explains how our nervous system moves between states of connection (ventral vagal), fight or flight (sympathetic), and shutdown (dorsal vagal). For children, these shifts can happen rapidly, especially during transitions, overstimulation, or perceived threat, like being told, “No, don't do that.”
Rather than framing tantrums as “bad behavior,” Wiggles McGee shows how the body is asking for safety. The book offers simple, science-backed regulation tools, such as rhythmic movement, deep breathing, and naming emotions, which help bring the child back into their window of tolerance—the zone where they can think, feel, and engage without becoming overwhelmed or shut down.
Equally important is the role of co-regulation: the idea that a calm adult nervous system helps calm a child’s. Wiggles’ caregiver doesn’t lecture or punish. They breathe with, slow down, and listen. In doing so, the book teaches parents that their presence—not perfection—is the most powerful regulation tool they have.
Practical takeaways for parents
The beauty of The Magic Within is that it invites you to practice emotional regulation, not just read about it. Here’s how families can integrate the book into everyday life:
Pause to co-feel: When reading together, let the story slow you down. If Wiggles takes a breath, you take one too.
Create a “magic within” corner: Designate a cozy spot in the home with soft textures, calm visuals, and maybe a Wiggles plush or printable affirmation cards. This becomes a safe space for calming, not punishment.
Use wiggles language: Say “Let’s find the magic within” during emotional meltdowns to reframe dysregulation as a moment of reconnection.
Introduce window of tolerance as zones: Green (calm), Yellow (wobbly), Red (overwhelmed). Use Wiggles stickers or drawings to help children identify and move between zones.
Practice self-kindness together: Share aloud something you did today that was a “good thought,” “good word,” or “good deed” – starting with yourself.
Final reflection
At a time when children are hard on themselves, overwhelmed, and overstimulated, Wiggles McGee – The Magic Within offers a moment of shared grounding. It's a system reboot disguised in a story, for adults to learn from and children to enjoy. Rooted in ancient values and guided by modern neuroscience, this playful book helps children and adults alike learn that true magic lies not in fixing emotions, but in feeling them together, fully, and with compassion.
Sogol Johnson, MA, ICF Candidate Trauma Informed Coach
Sogol Johnson, an award-winning designer with a master’s in Human-Centered Design, left her Fortune 500 career as a strategist to focus on breaking the cycle of generational trauma. Now an educator, writer, and advocate for healing childhood trauma, she combines her expertise in Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), Somatic Therapy and Trauma- Informed coaching to empower parents and communities through self-parenting and healing practices.
