The Benefits of Lived-Experience Counselling
- Brainz Magazine
- May 15
- 3 min read
Written by Sarah Montes, Addiction Counsellor
Sarah Montes is a Lived Experience Addiction Counselor with a rich background in addiction recovery, having transformed her own challenges into a career dedicated to helping others heal and find purpose.
When it comes to healing from addiction and codependency, clinical knowledge matters, but so does lived experience. Lived-experience counselling refers to support provided by individuals who have personally navigated the challenges of addiction, codependency, or both. These professionals bring a unique depth of understanding that goes beyond theory; they’ve walked the path, and now they help others find the way out.
Here are some of the transformative benefits of lived-experience addiction and codependency counselling
Practical tools grounded in reality
While academic training provides a solid foundation, lived-experience counsellors supplement that with real-world strategies. They understand what it feels like to go through withdrawal, set boundaries with loved ones, manage triggers, or rebuild a life from the ground up. This practical insight leads to tools that are realistic, sustainable, and often more effective.
Deep empathy and understanding
Lived-experience counsellors truly “get it.” Their empathy is not learned from textbooks but earned through personal struggle and healing. They understand the shame, guilt, denial, fear, and the internal tug-of-war that clients often experience. This deep empathy creates a safe, nonjudgmental space where clients feel heard and validated.
Credibility and trust
Clients are more likely to open up when they feel understood. Hearing, “I’ve been there too,” can instantly break down walls. Lived-experience counsellors can connect in a way that builds trust quickly, allowing for deeper, more honest conversations about what’s really going on beneath the surface.
Authentic role modelling
Recovery isn’t just a theory; it’s a daily decision. Lived-experience counsellors embody what is possible. Their presence alone can inspire hope. By sharing parts of their journey (appropriately and professionally), they demonstrate resilience, healthy boundaries, and a realistic picture of recovery that includes setbacks, self-compassion, and growth.
Practical tools grounded in reality
While academic training provides a solid foundation, lived-experience counsellors supplement that with real-world strategies. They understand what it feels like to go through withdrawal, set boundaries with loved ones, manage triggers, or rebuild a life from the ground up. This practical insight leads to tools that are realistic, sustainable, and often more effective.
Breaking the stigma
Addiction and codependency are often misunderstood, especially in environments that expect perfection or self-sufficiency. Lived-experience counsellors help dismantle shame by normalizing the recovery process. Their vulnerability is a powerful reminder that healing is not only possible, it’s courageous.
Hope that hits the heart
Sometimes, the most powerful thing a person in pain can hear is: “You’re not alone and this doesn’t have to be the end of your story.” Lived-experience counsellors don’t just share knowledge; they share hope. And in many cases, hope is the turning point.
In summary
Lived-experience counselling bridges the gap between clinical insight and personal wisdom. Whether addressing addiction, codependency, or the layers of trauma and identity that often accompany them, this approach offers profound benefits for individuals seeking authentic healing.
In a world where many suffer in silence, lived-experience counsellors are beacons of light, proof that pain can lead to purpose, and brokenness can be transformed into strength.
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Sarah Montes, Addiction Counsellor
Sarah Montes, founder and CEO of Sarah Montes Recovery Services, is a Lived Experience Addiction Counselor with a profound understanding of the complexities of addiction and recovery. Having overcome personal struggles, she has held pivotal roles in withdrawal management and residential treatment centers. Her work, infused with deep empathy and unwavering commitment, extends beyond her practice to other clinics and treatment centres, where she supports individuals, families, and communities on their journeys to healing.
