The Art of Love
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Carmen Heystek is the founder of the Kundalini Temple Method. She is an Expert of Healing & Kundalini Energy. She is a Feminine Leader who embodies Love & Sexual Alchemy. This High Priestess & Mentor is known for her LifeWisdom and her clear Channel to God. She is an Author, a Speaker, a Business Mentor & Couple Coach.
There comes a moment in your life where love takes over. When you keep pushing life in a direction that has never been the right one, God will turn your back. God will show you another way. A way that is authentic, and one from your heart.
Maybe it will not be the simplest way. Maybe it will be scary, or it will ask you to cry. Maybe you feel you want to give up. This way does just freak you out. It does ask more than your trust could ever hold. Here, you need trust in God. You need something bigger than yourself, hope that comes to you, and start learning to work with God. To trust this way. A way that is truthful, love, and a way that is about devotion.
It does not need to nourish you right away. It is a way of God that takes time. It is a way where, mostly, the lottery comes later. The lottery means love. It means fulfillment, something greater than we knew existed, and enrichment in parts of your being that you were just praying for. It might take years and tears to get there. To this moment where you know you have what you want.
In that moment, your breath will become silent. You will feel your tears moving through your heart. Your body will express something without words. It is not needed anymore to perform what you feel. This other being does feel you. This life that was waiting for you will be home. All God will do for you is pray. Pray that you trust, stay true to yourself, your belief, to love, and to that which makes us happy.
It takes a whole breath of trust to move into a way we do not know. Into a portal that God reached out to us through. Into the initiation that was held for you. When you surrender, God can do his work. When you allow, Sophia, the Goddess of Creation, can do her work too. God is a co-creation of their beauty. When you work with God, you will work with both of them. Nothing in creation is whole without the feminine. Without her love, touch, transparency, and name, nothing is truly free.
Many of us are moving through this initiation of the feminine. Many men are losing their egos in their hearts. It is needed for them to be embodied in healthy masculinity. Any man who takes his crown into his own kingdom allows another woman to rise. We are so ready, dear women. We are ready to be the Queens of fire on this planet. A warm fire that is shining like never before. We are here to embody ourselves in all our beauty. Not to miss a part of that. We are to embody the full aspect of ourselves. What it means to be who we truly are can only be experienced in life. Life teaches us who we are more and less than we think we are. God does not want us to be small. God wants us to be truthful.
In everyone's heart, there is a Rose. A Rose that is waiting for our King or Queen. We are here to be met in more of who we are. We are here to be reflected, not made smaller. To take pieces of our ego into love, bury histories of old wounds, break patterns into light, and move lighter and greater into life. Innocent and bowing to what God teaches us.
Every day, I feel more touched by what I know and see about life. I think the greatest school is life itself. It is what we meet, eat, and feel. In all these experiences, we receive truth and information that we can use for inspiration. We are here not to be perfect but to sharpen ourselves. To be this diamond rock that is raw but shiny. To just stay human while living in the sunlight of heaven.
If there is one thing that I love about myself, it is that life did not provide what I thought I needed. Life did give me the depth to become who I need to be. Life was so rough that it gave me the initiative to understand the deepest love and pain that we can have. I am sure there is more that I do not know. The most painful experiences can only enrich us when we try to catch more beauty in them. It will never stop hurting us, losing what we love. It will only show us how important it is to be grateful for every moment we have together. Any moment of love is a moment. It can be the last moment with someone we love. It can be the last sunset that you can see together. It can be the last kiss, the last movie, the last lovemaking, the last car drive.
Life made me so aware of being present. Being really grateful for what we have. We can look at everything we do not have, but the luxury is this moment. This is one sacred moment when we are together. This moment where the path is just silent. This moment when it feels like confetti and butterflies. This moment where you just have money to do anything you want. This moment where there is no stress to drink your coffee in a market. In this moment, you might feel lucky. In another moment, life throws thunder and storms upon you. All of these moments are moments that we are here. Take nothing for granted. Take life as a gift. Be with love from a deep honor. Everything we have is more precious than we know. Most people realize everything way too late. This is why I am here. I do not want people to realize love too late. I have been there. In so many moments where I was really enjoying what I had. Still, realization can become even stronger when even you and your conscious being lose the things you love the most.
I was struggling with abandonment wounds for a long time. I realized one thing. It never gets easier. It becomes worse. When you become more aware of the gift of love. When you become more aware of its preciousness. I believe no one wants to lose what we love the most. It is human to cry inside. We do not want to lose what we love. We feel safe with what we love. We do not want to walk another way when we are happy with the one we have. The truth is that life is about not knowing. It is about knowing that we are going to lose everything that is precious to us. It is very painful to know, but I did learn that very deeply in my life. We have to start accepting that we are going to lose everything we have from the moment we attach to it. It is strange, right? Love is, for sure, the most painful thing we can experience. Love always includes abandonment. Even if we do not want it, life is life. We can lose someone through a breakup, through death, or through something else. It took a lot from me to accept this realization.
It also became my freedom. Knowing it. Having experienced it on the deepest level of my bones. The only thing I know is that I am guilty of not being conscious enough to realize every moment of love that is gold. Every moment that I had was amazing. Every moment that God pushed me further made me realize more of what I have. This does help me to embody love even deeper. To not take anything for granted. To trust what I lose. To trust what I learn in that. To improve myself in an even deeper love commitment. Where I will allow myself to experience it even deeper.
I am here to teach you about the art of love, the alchemy of it, and the gift of every moment we have. Love is the most transparent element of life, that which haunts us in the day and night. It is our deepest desire to love and to be loved. It is also for many people the biggest fear. Love is so vulnerable. It is something that catches us in our hearts. It does expose our wounds. Our shadows, desires, and unfulfilled destiny.
It touches our inner waters. Our emotions are hidden. Silent voices inside. Love is louder than we think. Love is the voice that is upon us. Allow God in your life. Allow love to be the greatest part of your life, to enrich you, scare you, and touch the rawest elements of your being. All these parts want to be felt, and free. Pain is so clear to love. Love will always touch what is suppressed underneath. Pain cannot hide itself from love. Love will be the hero to take the pain into the light. Love is brave, will not hide from pain, and is the one who says, "I am here, and I will pull you out of your darkness. I stay strong because I love you. I see you. I do care about you. I want you to be free in all these parts within you that are scared. I stay here as long as needed. Until you rise, and trust me."
The greatest thing we have is love. Love is the bravest power that creation holds. Love is the essence of God. It is a force that is way stronger than any fear. It is that which we embody, breathe. It is that feeling that we never want to lose once we have it. It is profound, extraordinarily beautiful, stormy, shaky, soft, and woven into everything in life. In feathers, leaves, water, and fire. In the touch of a hand, a soft and silken one. One of love, presence, and gold.
Allow me to teach you more about love. Where hearts are closed, I am open. Where minds are fixed, I will see more space. I will let you move with life. With God, love, and beyond love. To really be home. I have space for some exclusive mentorship places where love is the initiation. Where Kundalini will rise. Where you will go deeper and deeper. To find the pearl of love inside. To live love through a body of golden light.
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Carmen Heystek, Mentor, High Priestess of Love and Sexual Alchemy
Carmen Heystek is one of the most profound mentors of Love & Sexual Alchemy. Since her birth, she has a very open channel to God. She initiates Kundalini energy from her nature. Her methods are given to her by conscious visions and downloads. She travels to other galaxies while drinking coffee. She talks with God-Sophia, like if she talks with her neighbour. She eats chocolate while she works with Mary Magdalene, Isis and Cleopatra, to fulfill her mission. She is here to embody and initiate freedom, love and sexuality. She had a rough life, but she chose to thrive. She mastered to transform trauma and pain into beauty. She was supressed in many of her gifts. This is why she uncages the beauty of many women and men.
