The Art of Life and Finding Happiness Beyond the Self
- Brainz Magazine
- Sep 8, 2025
- 3 min read
Discover a groundbreaking approach to rapid psychological transformation with Dr. Hadi Eltonsi’s patented Immediate Healing for Personality Development. Combining science, hypnosis, and energy transfer, this method unlocks leadership potential and lasting emotional well-being.
We all long for happiness. Yet life, unpredictable as it is, offers no guarantees. Success may come after years of struggle, wealth may elude even the brightest minds, and health can vanish in a single accident or epidemic. Glory and power, often desired most, bring their own price, tension, conflict, and the constant fear of loss.
So how do we find peace, purpose, and joy in such a fragile and uncertain world?
When goals become chains
Chasing goals is natural. But when we cling to them as the only path, they become chains.
If we live only for the future, we miss the present.
If we believe success is guaranteed, failure devastates us.
If we drown in despair, we waste life in distractions and temporary pleasures.
The problem is not in having goals, it is in staking our entire happiness on their outcome.
A balanced approach
The art of life lies in balance. We can dream, plan, and work hard. We can adjust when obstacles arise. But we must also accept what is beyond our control.
This balance comes from three forces:
Faith: Trusting that unseen grace protects and guides us.
Resilience: Turning pain into opportunities for growth.
Gratitude: Appreciating what we have, which attracts more good into our lives.
Living beyond the self
True joy does not come from the ego. When we are consumed by our desires, fears, and frustrations, our energy drains away, weakening both health and relationships.
Happiness deepens when we live outside the self, when we share joy, share pain, and recognize the value of others. By doing so, life stops being a battlefield and becomes a garden. Compassion, love, and peace replace tension and rivalry.
The power of perspective
Living beyond the self also changes how we see others. We understand that our achievements are not only the result of effort, but also of opportunity, environment, and grace. Were we in another’s place, we might act as they do.
This realization dissolves hatred. Life contains both good and evil, but both fuel growth and learning. Every challenge, whether painful or uplifting, can move us forward.
Happiness is the path, not the goal
The greatest paradox is that happiness is not found in the end result, but rather along the way. It is the path itself.
When we live with love, passion, and gratitude, every step becomes meaningful. Life becomes a stroll for the spirit, a source of healing for others, and a deeper freedom for ourselves.
Practicing the art of life
To live this way requires intention. It means:
Managing our energy wisely.
Directing emotions consciously.
Choosing thoughts and feelings that empower, not weaken.
Living beyond the self is not easy. It is the “simple yet difficult”, the hardest challenge, but also the most rewarding. Even if we cannot live it fully, we can live it partially. And even fragments of this practice transform our lives.
Final thought
The art of life is to keep striving, learning, and hoping without making our happiness depend on outcomes. Goals give direction, but happiness is the way we travel.
When we learn to live beyond the self, we discover that life, despite its uncertainty, can be full of love, creativity, and meaning.
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Hadi Eltonsi, Instant Remote Leadership Mindset Development
Dr. Mohamed Hadi Eltonsi is an Egyptian medical doctor, psychotherapist, inventor, and former ambassador, renowned for creating the patented method Immediate Healing for Personality Development. With a unique background blending medicine, psychology, diplomacy, and energy healing, he has helped hundreds of individuals and leaders achieve lasting personal transformation in just one three-hour session. His work has been internationally published in peer-reviewed journals and recognized by BP International as one of the world’s leading discoveries in personal development. As Chief of the Council of Medicine and Welfare at ELFO, Dr. Hadi Eltonsi works to improve leadership effectiveness, emotional well-being, and productivity worldwide. His innovations have inspired award-winning films and documentaries, including The Messenger and Psychic Psychiatrist. He has been featured on TV, radio, and international conferences as a leading expert in rapid psychological healing. Dr. Eltonsi continues to practice offering both in-person and remote transformative sessions.
