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Reconnect With Pleasure and Passion 

  • Writer: Brainz Magazine
    Brainz Magazine
  • Aug 8
  • 3 min read

Toni Stevens is a healer and energy coach, well known for her ability to tune into people's energy and create calm. She is the creator of the Chakra Connection, an online healing and coaching course. Toni educates people about emotional freedom, how to calm and reset the nervous system and how to build deep connection and trust in oneself.

Executive Contributor Toni Stevens

It’s been on my mind lately how, as high achievers, we pour so much energy into our people, our projects, and our purpose that we often forget what simple pleasure even feels like. Think: a luxurious, slow breath, a long, warm hug, or an afternoon spent lost in a story. Sometimes, taking time for pleasure can even trigger a stress response because slowing down feels unfamiliar. But here’s the truth: pleasure is good for you. It softens the edges, nourishes your nervous system, and brings you back to life.


Woman in a white lace dress smiles while sitting on rocky beach. Ocean waves and sandy shore in the background create a serene scene.

Pleasure is something you may unconsciously believe to be sinful, or feel guilty about


But what if we reframed your idea of pleasure?


The word itself can conjure up all kinds of images, right?


Just pause for a moment and notice what’s coming up for you now.


Pleasure can be the delicious taste of honey,

or the caress of sunshine on your skin.

It can be the cool ocean or a warm bath.


Pleasure can be quiet solitude at dusk,

the nuzzle of your furry friend,

or the loving gaze of someone who truly sees you.


It’s whatever brings you back to yourself

A photo or memory of a loved one.

The scent of a blossom, the rhythm of music, the curve of art, the comfort of friendship.


Beauty and joy release feel-good endorphins,

soothe the nervous system,

and lift your spirit back into alignment.


Pleasure is not a sin. It’s not something to feel guilty about.

It is your birthright to feel good, to enjoy this body and this life.


So ask yourself


Where have you stopped feeling pleasure?

Where do you still allow it, guilt-free?

Why did you stop scheduling joy?

Or when do you choose joy, and where do you make space for it?


What belief has blocked your access to feeling good?

And what new belief might open the door?


Because passion is the next level of pleasure.

It fuels your fire, lifts your energy, and inspires you to act.

It’s your spark. And when passion meets purpose, you rise.


Burnout happens when you run dry – Healing begins when you reconnect


To joy, to your senses, to what lights you up.


Let me help you rekindle that flame, from burnout to brilliance.

Because you're not here to survive, you’re here to feel alive.


Ready to reconnect with your pleasure, passion, and purpose?


Let's talk.


Together, we’ll explore a current challenge and set some clear, positive intentions to support you moving forward. There’s no obligation, just an open, heartfelt conversation to help you shift perspective, reclaim the power of your thoughts and emotions, and take aligned action from a place of positively charged energy.


It’s time to start creating the life you truly dream of. Read more about my 1:1 hypnosis and therapeutic coaching work here, or book a free intro session here.


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Toni Stevens, Healer and Energy Coach

Toni Stevens is a healer and energy coach, empowering men and women to create calm, confidence, and a deep connection to themselves by healing childhood trauma and releasing social conditioning with an intensive, one-on-one, 8-week healing journey. Toni transformed her own anxious symptoms of physical pain, fatigue, and negative thoughts with her personal program of meditation, mindset, and movement. She helps transform stress, anxiety, and overwhelm into a life of peace and empowerment. Her mission together is to raise your consciousness and elevate your vibration.

This article is published in collaboration with Brainz Magazine’s network of global experts, carefully selected to share real, valuable insights.

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