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Numbers Versus Soul Whispering? Who Is In The Lead?

  • Feb 3, 2024
  • 3 min read

Updated: Jul 28, 2025

Written by: Jane Haridat, Executive Contributor

Executive Contributors at Brainz Magazine are handpicked and invited to contribute because of their knowledge and valuable insight within their area of expertise.

Executive Contributor Jane Haridat

In the big world of business, where experts lay down strict rules for success based on money and followers, I, a teacher of sacred sexuality and soul embodiment, faced an inside struggle. A haunting childhood hurt whispered that I was not enough to get that amount of followers and money, casting shadows on my journey.


Balancing stones on the shelf.

While writing, guiding, and sharing my teachings, I dealt with constant doubt fueled by societal norms demanding conformity. Trying to fit into these external expectations made the struggle even harder.


Yet, in the quiet of the night, among doubt and hesitation, I realized something important. The rules set by business experts weren't my guide to success. A change happened when I followed the tune of my inner voice, adding authenticity to my work. Suddenly, happiness became my guide, and the numbers started to agree with this newfound authenticity.


This change wasn't just a move away from the usual—it was matching my soul-based approach to teaching about sacred sexuality and soul embodiment, based on what felt true to me. No longer tied to random standards, I found a connection that went beyond numbers. Authenticity became the foundation, attracting a community bound by a shared journey of self-discovery.


In this journey, my uniqueness wasn't a problem; it became a source of strength. The teachings, now filled with authenticity, reached people more deeply. The old fear of not being good enough lessened, replaced by confidence rooted in my inner truth.


The business world might push for everyone to be and do the same, but by embracing my own story, I found a truer path to success—measured not only in numbers but in the deep impact on those I touched. Today, I'm on a meaningful journey, still teaching and healing, but with an energy that connects with the core of who I am.


Standing at the crossroads of authenticity and success, I'm reminded of these wise words I once heard: "Success is measured by how you make those around you feel"


Embracing my authenticity was the push I needed to blossom, and in that blossoming, I found a path to success that echoed the truth of my soul, to helping others to find theirs and live a happy and soulful love.


This is my story. How about you? 


As you reflect on your journey, have you felt the pull to align yourself seriously with your inner truth? Taking numbers seriously but not giving them the total lead, and listening to your inner voice instead? If you're ready to embark on a path of authenticity, self-discovery, and soulful living, I'm here to support you. Let's start a conversation. 


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Jane Haridat, Executive Contributor Brainz Magazine

Jane Haridat is a well-known passionate spiritual teacher, healer of sacred sexuality and soul embodiment, a multidimensional medium, writer, and motivational speaker. She is also doing wedding ceremonies to give couples the most unforgettable and magical experience of their life. Her mission: Raising global awareness about what sexuality truly is and how a good flow impacts all areas of our life including the success of our business. Her vision is that understanding the essence of our sexuality, creates happy independent people. Happy people make happy families. Happy families create a happy planet filled with peace and harmony. Embracing your sexuality is embracing your true self, is her strong belief.

 
 

This article is published in collaboration with Brainz Magazine’s network of global experts, carefully selected to share real, valuable insights.

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