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Navigating Overwhelm & Overstimulation for HSPs & Empaths

  • Writer: Brainz Magazine
    Brainz Magazine
  • 3 hours ago
  • 5 min read

Sinéad Rafferty is a Career & Alignment Coach for highly sensitive people (HSPs), empaths & neurodivergent professionals. She has 15+ years’ experience empowering the genius of others. Founder of The HSP Purpose Pathway™ online course & community, she is passionate about the strength of high sensitivity & the impact of empathic leadership.

Executive Contributor Sinead Rafferty

"Overwhelm is what chaos feels like." And if you're a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP) or an empath, chances are you know that chaos all too well. It’s what happens when your senses, emotions, or energetic field become flooded beyond your capacity to process.


The photo shows a woman sitting with her head in her hands next to her luggage at an airport.

It’s the subtle unravelling of your focus and energy. It’s the spacey disconnection from yourself and/or hyper-awareness of others. It’s the tightness in your chest at a crowded gathering or after a full-on workday. It’s the emotional hangover that hits harder than any glass of wine ever could.


For HSPs and empaths, overstimulation isn’t just a once-in-a-while inconvenience, it can be a daily struggle if left unacknowledged and can turn chronic in our lives, leading to burnout and a disconnection from self.


Overwhelm is not a weakness on your part.


You are wired to feel, sense, absorb, and care so deeply that it accumulates fast. What you did yesterday absolutely impacts your nervous system today.


Recognising the early signs of overwhelm and overstimulation is the first act of self-empowerment.


This article explores why overwhelm keeps occurring and offers you a resilience recipe to find your calm centre again. You can journal on the questions dotted throughout.


Why does overwhelm happen so quickly for HSPs and empaths


Here are the 5 main reasons your overwhelm builds faster and deeper than most:


1. Emotional overload


You don’t just feel your emotions, you feel everyone else’s, too. Crowded environments, tension, or group dynamics can tip you into emotional burnout, especially if you're absorbing without clearing.


Ask yourself: What/Who causes emotional overstimulation in my life?


2. Sensory overload


Bright lights, background noise, messy spaces, scratchy fabrics, these are more than just annoyances to HSPs. They’re energetic intrusions that your brain processes with a level of depth others don’t understand.


Ask yourself: What causes physical overstimulation in my environment?


3. Empathic absorption


You're naturally tuned to others' needs and emotions. But without conscious protection, you’ll take on their stress, mood, or even physical discomfort as your own.


Ask yourself: Where/When do I take on the experience of others?


4. Boundary challenges


Saying yes when you mean no. Showing up when your tank is empty. People-pleasing. These patterns drain your reserves very quickly.


Ask yourself: Where am I overgiving or overriding my own needs?


5. Societal expectations


Trying to operate like a non-HSP in a fast-paced, loud, ‘on all the time’ world will eventually burn you out. Especially for extroverted HSPs, it’s easy to miss your own peak until it’s too late.


Reminder: Your brain is processing 50 cups of input where others might be sipping just one.


Ask yourself: Where am I trying to maintain a pace that doesn’t suit me?


Build your resilience recipe


Overwhelm doesn’t have to run the show. With the right tools, you can reset your system, protect your energy, and return to a grounded, creative state no matter what’s happening around you.


That’s where your resilience recipe comes in.


Think of this as a recipe for coming home to yourself. Simple steps that bring you back to centre, soothe your senses, and remind you that calm isn’t something you chase, it’s something you choose and cultivate.


Reset


Pause and check in with yourself.


How are you feeling physically, emotionally, energetically?


Reset your nervous system with breath, intention, meditation, or rest. Close your eyes. Even 30 seconds helps.


Recharge


Schedule non-negotiable breaks to step away, breathe, stretch, or be alone. You’re not fragile. You’re wise. You’re getting up ahead of the energy drain.


Soothe


Be gentle with yourself.


Soft textures, candlelight, calming scents, warm baths, music that heals. Turn your space into a sanctuary, even if it's just one corner of a room.


Protect


Your energy is precious.


Visualise an energetic boundary around you, a pillar of light that filters what comes in. Let warmth, compassion, and connection flow, but keep the chaos out.


Inspire


Engage your creativity. Write, draw, sing, dance, design, build. This isn’t extra, it’s foundational. Creative flow not only restores your nervous system but also reconnects you to your inner world.


Alone time


Solitude is not a luxury. It’s a nervous system reset. Make it a daily ritual, not just something you squeeze in when things get bad. It seems difficult to fit in with your busy life, I know, prioritise it, start with 10-20 minutes.


Movement


Move energy through your body. Gentle yoga, qigong, dancing, and walking barefoot on the earth physically clear the overwhelm from your system.


Nature


Step outside. Trees, water, fresh air, this is home for HSPs.Let it regulate your senses and recalibrate your energies.


Calm


Calm is your power state. That doesn’t mean silence or stillness all the time, it means presence. Awareness. Choice.


What does empowered HSP energy look like?


When you’re aligned, grounded, and emotionally clear, you’re a powerhouse of creativity, compassion, and intuitive insight.


But you need to consciously and consistently choose that path.


You must keep some energy for yourself.


That means:



You don’t need to toughen up, you need to tune in


The world will tell you to push through. To numb. To override. But you know better.


Overcoming overwhelm as an HSP or empath isn’t about becoming less sensitive, that would be like asking you to change your eye colour. It is about becoming more self-aware. It calls for deeper self-respect and ownership of your energy.


It takes courage to get to know yourself, to seek self-understanding, self-knowledge, and self-acceptance.


It's such a worthwhile endeavour that brings you to a place of authenticity, alignment, and peace.


Let's connect on LinkedIn or Instagram and visit my website for lots of free resources.

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Sinead Rafferty, Career & Alignment Coach

Sinéad is a visionary coach on a mission to uplift and empower the impactful contribution of purpose-driven and ambitious highly sensitive (HSP) & neurodivergent professionals.


Passionate about the role of empathic leadership in today’s society, Sinéad sees sensitivity as a powerful force and one with great purpose.


She guides her clients through an aligned and authentic approach to embodying sensitivity in meaningful ways so they can apply their innate skills and strengths to their work.


Her unique approach aims to not only bring balance to the depth and intensity of the trait of high sensitivity but also to achieve truly original, creative, and evolutionary contributions in the world.

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