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Most Coaches Are Teaching Against the Nervous System and Without Knowing It

  • Apr 9, 2025
  • 3 min read

Updated: Jun 11, 2025

Fabian Wesselink is the founder of HypnoBreathwork™, a transformative modality combining Breathwork, Hypnotherapy, and NLP. He helps hypnotherapists, coaches, and wellness practitioners scale their businesses and achieve faster breakthrough results for their clients.

Executive Contributor Fabian Wesselink

Why subconscious, somatic, breath-led healing is the future, and what HypnoBreathwork™ unlocks that mindset work can’t


Man with headphones in a white shirt kneels over a person lying down, hands on either side. Others in similar poses in the background.

I’ve worked with thousands of people through breathwork, subconscious reprogramming, and somatic healing, and I’ve noticed something uncomfortable: Most coaches, therapists, and even breathwork practitioners are unknowingly working against the nervous system. They’re trying to create transformation from the top down, using mindset coaching, affirmations, and visualization tools. But the nervous system doesn’t work that way. The vagus nerve, one of the most powerful communication pathways in the body, sends 80% of its signals from the body to the brain, not the other way around. That means if your approach doesn’t start in the body, you’re bypassing the most powerful access point for change.


Dr. Bessel van der Kolk, renowned trauma expert and author of The Body Keeps the Score, now begins every client session by observing one thing: the breath. Not the client’s story. Not their goals. Not their trauma timeline. Their breathing. Because the body is the gateway, not the obstacle, it holds the trauma. It holds the protection. And it holds the fastest path to resolution. That’s why I created HypnoBreathwork™, a method that combines breathwork, hypnosis, and NLP into a single, structured experience that rewires beliefs, regulates the nervous system, and creates emotional breakthroughs in real time.


Let’s call it like it is:

  • Mindset coaching can feel disconnected and slow

  • Talk therapy rarely gets into the body

  • Hypnosis without physical integration often fades

  • Somatic work without subconscious reprogramming can re-trigger more than it resolves

  • And many coaches are juggling dozens of techniques—but with no structure that actually sticks


You don’t need more tools. You need a method that integrates everything that already works and cuts what doesn’t.


One session of HypnoBreathwork™ has helped clients:


  • Release emotions they’ve been carrying for decades

  • Make peace with childhood trauma

  • Reignite their creative vision

  • Break through subconscious sabotage

  • Find clarity on their next step in business or life

This isn’t about hype. It’s about using the body’s design to your advantage. Because when you activate the breath, access the subconscious, and release through movement, you get results. Fast.


If you’re a coach, hypnotherapist, NLP practitioner, or facilitator, you already know that people don’t need more information. They need integration. They need to feel safe enough to shift. They need transformation that speaks their nervous system’s language.


And that language? Start with the breath.


The future of coaching, therapy, and healing is:

  • Breath-led

  • Somatically anchored

  • Subconsciously integrated


We’re no longer here to talk people into transformation. We’re here to breathe it into their bodies and help them feel who they’ve been all along.


Disclaimer: HypnoBreathwork™ refers to Fabian Wesselink’s original modality, trademarked in Australia. It is not affiliated with the U.S. registered trademark of the same name.


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Fabian Wesselink, Founder of HypnoBreathwork™

Fabian Wesselink is the creator of HypnoBreathwork™, a revolutionary modality that combines Breathwork, Hypnotherapy, and NLP to create rapid and lasting transformations. As an international speaker and mentor, Fabian helps hypnotherapists, coaches, and wellness practitioners scale their businesses and achieve exceptional client results. He also runs international HypnoBreathwork™ events, empowering professionals worldwide to deliver deeper breakthroughs and grow thriving practices. His mission is to inspire practitioners to make a greater impact and unlock their full potential.

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