Written by: Simone Niles, Executive Contributor
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We are all born with a voice, whether audible to the human ear or not. That voice is our original instrument, which we can use as a tool for self-discovery, self-expression, and impact. The voice, both literal and metaphorical, serves as a powerful tool for expressing our unique identities and unlocking our true potential. By delving into the depths of self-expression, we uncover hidden aspects of ourselves and pave the way for personal growth.
Just like we all have a unique fingerprint, we also have a unique sound print which is encoded with our individual cocktail of experiences, emotional landscapes, and energetic blueprints. The power of the voice extends far beyond the words we speak. It encompasses our unique manner of expression, the tone with which we communicate, and the messages we convey through our actions. Our voice is an authentic reflection of our inner selves, revealing our beliefs, values, and emotions. By recognizing the significance of our voice, we gain insight into the depths of our being and realize the potential it holds to shape our lives.
Your voice is your greatest ally
The type of relationship we build with our voice, both our internal dialogue and our external vocal expression is one of the most important relationships we will build. So, it is important to build one that fosters trust, reliability, resilience, and compassion, just like any other relationship. That relationship with our authentic voice requires a willingness to journey within, to create space to listen to the whispers of our soul. By engaging in moments of self-reflection, introspection, and deep contemplation we begin to shed layers of societal conditioning and external expectations, allowing our true voice to emerge authentically and confidently.
The challenges that arise
What often gets in the way of our voice being fully expressed, is fear, self-doubt, and old patterns of conditioning. Fear and self-doubt can create barriers on the path to self-discovery. The fear of judgment, failure, or rejection can stifle our voice and prevent us from speaking up and allowing ourselves to be heard. How many times have we heard statements like, ‘it is better to be seen not heard’ or ‘don't speak unless spoken to’? These old narratives do not serve us in connecting with our voices, nor being able to express ourselves freely.
To overcome these obstacles, it is essential to cultivate self-compassion, challenge limiting beliefs, and embrace vulnerability. By acknowledging our fears and taking courageous steps forward, we dismantle the barriers that hinder our self-expression. True self-discovery requires the willingness to embrace vulnerability. It is through vulnerability that we allow our authentic voice to be heard, unencumbered by the masks we often wear. When we embrace vulnerability, we connect with ourselves and others on a deeper level, fostering genuine relationships and experiencing profound personal growth.
The first step to connect with your voice
So how do we take the first steps using our voice for self-discovery and unlocking our true potential? We start by taking responsibility for making changes in our lives; no longer being held captive to the reins of old ways of thinking and expressing.
Ask yourself these seven questions and take some time to reflect upon the answers that come forth, so that you can begin to foster a strong relationship with your voice.
What would I say quietly to myself if I could let go of judgement?
What would I say out loud if I could let go of fear or the response of others?
What fears or insecurities have held me back from fully expressing myself?
If my voice was my greatest ally, how/when would it show up for me?
When do I feel most in alignment with my true self and fully connected to my voice?
What unique gifts, experiences, or perspectives do I want to share with the world?
In what ways can I cultivate self-compassion and acceptance as I explore my authentic expression?
Let your answers and reflections be a guide deeper into yourself as you begin building the most profound relationship with your voice.
The quest for self-discovery through the exploration of our voice is a transformative and empowering endeavour. By embracing the power of voice, we unlock our true potential, tap into our authentic selves, and create a life filled with purpose, meaning, and fulfilment. Let us embark on this journey together, as we listen to the echoes of our voice and allow it to guide us towards our truest selves.
The world needs to hear our voices like never before.
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Simone Niles, Executive Contributor Brainz Magazine
Simone Niles is an expert coach, sound healer, vocalist, and author, who offers grounded and practical teachings on how to use your voice for healing, transformation, and impact. She is training the next generation of Sound Healer and Shamanic practitioners and is the host of the SOULFULL SOUND Podcast which celebrates the leaders, teachers and coaches who guide fellow humans to connect, heal and discover themselves.
