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How Cognitive Dissonance, Self-Fulfilling Prophecy, and Woke Culture Fuel Psychological Warfare

  • May 28, 2025
  • 2 min read

Updated: 3 days ago

Shardia O’Connor explores identity, power, leadership, and social conditioning through a values-led, critical lens.

Executive Contributor Shardia O’Connor

We are not just living through a culture war. This is a full-blown psychological coup, a war for your mind. At its core is cognitive dissonance: the uncomfortable clash you feel when your beliefs contradict what you are told to accept. What once prompted growth is now weaponised to suppress critical thinking.


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Cognitive dissonance: The psychological battleground


Leon Festinger first described cognitive dissonance in 1957 as the tension people experience when holding conflicting beliefs (Festinger, 1957). This discomfort normally motivates truth-seeking. However, in today’s climate, ideological pressures push people to resolve dissonance through compliance, silencing doubts instead of confronting them (Harmon-Jones & Mills, 2019).


Woke culture: Ideology as control


Originally a movement for social justice, woke culture increasingly works as a rigid orthodoxy, demanding conformity. Questioning dominant narratives can lead to social exclusion and censorship, stifling nuanced debate (Ng, 2021; Lukianoff & Haidt, 2018). This dynamic amplifies cognitive dissonance and forces individuals into ideological corners.


The self-fulfilling prophecy: How expectations shape reality


Robert K. Merton’s classic 1948 theory shows that expectations influence behaviours in ways that make the expectations come true (Merton, 1948). When groups are persistently portrayed as oppressed or powerless, these narratives can limit agency and reinforce victimhood, perpetuating cycles of disempowerment (Rosenthal & Jacobson, 1968).


Breaking free: Reclaim your mind


The solution is clear:


  • Accept discomfort as a catalyst for growth

  • Embrace complexity, contradiction, and free thought

  • Challenge all narratives, even “sacred” ones

  • Reclaim mental autonomy against psychological manipulation (Haidt & Lukianoff, 2018; Sunstein, 2018)


Your mind is the last stronghold. Do not surrender it.


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Shardia O’Connor, Cultural Consultant

Shardia O'Connor is an expert in her field of mental wellbeing. Her passion for creative expression was influenced by her early childhood. Born and raised in Birmingham, West Midlands, and coming from a disadvantaged background, Shardia's early life experiences built her character by teaching her empathy and compassion, which led her to a career in the social sciences. She is an award-winning columnist and the founder and host of her online media platform, Shades Of Reality. Shardia is on a global mission to empower, encourage, and educate the masses!

References:


  • Festinger, L. (1957). A Theory of Cognitive Dissonance. Stanford University Press.

  • Harmon-Jones, E. and Mills, J. (eds.) (2019). Cognitive Dissonance: Reexamining a Pivotal Theory in Psychology. American Psychological Association.

  • Lukianoff, G. and Haidt, J. (2018). The Coddling of the American Mind: How Good Intentions and Bad Ideas Are Setting Up a Generation for Failure. Penguin Press.

  • Merton, R.K. (1948). ‘The Self-Fulfilling Prophecy’, The Antioch Review, 8(2), pp. 193–210.

  • Ng, E. (2021). ‘No Grand Pronouncements Here...: Reflections on Cancel Culture and Digital Media Participation’, Television & New Media, 22(6), pp. 631–635. https://doi.org/10.1177/15274764211030574

  • Rosenthal, R. and Jacobson, L. (1968). ‘Pygmalion in the Classroom’, The Urban Review, 3(1), pp. 16–20.

  • Sunstein, C.R. (2018). #Republic: Divided Democracy in the Age of Social Media. Princeton University Press.

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