Finding Balance Under the Holiday Lights
- Brainz Magazine
- Dec 16, 2025
- 4 min read
Anne-Sophie Gossan, founder of Inner Spark Coaching, supports individuals going through career transitions so they find meaningful direction, reignite their spark, and thrive. She brings calm, clarity, and deep empathy, and asks the questions that unlock their truths while holding space for both vulnerability and growth.
The festive season is often painted as a time of joy and celebration, yet for those navigating career transitions, it can quietly amplify stress, uncertainty, and emotional fatigue. This article sheds light on the hidden pressures of the holidays and offers gentle, practical insights to help you move from burnout toward balance during this demanding time of year.
The festive season’s hidden weight
The festive period is often portrayed as a time of joy, togetherness, and celebration. Yet for many navigating career transitions, it can feel like an emotional minefield. The lights may sparkle, but beneath the surface lies a mix of financial strain, social obligations, and the shadow of uncertainty about the future. When your career identity feels shaken, the season’s demands can magnify stress rather than relieve it.
“The first step in this journey is to remember that a great deal of the stress we feel at the holidays is of our own creation.” – Dr. Daisy Sutherland
The stress triggers that tip us toward burnout
Financial pressure: Gifts, travel, and seasonal expenses can feel overwhelming when income is unstable or unpredictable.
Identity conflicts: Balancing professional uncertainty with family expectations can leave you feeling torn between who you are and who others expect you to be.
Social overload: Parties and gatherings may amplify feelings of comparison, inadequacy, or isolation.
Year-end reflection: The season naturally invites questions like “Where am I in life?” or “What’s next?”, which can be painful when you’re in transition.
These triggers don’t exist in isolation. They pile onto the already heavy load of career disruption, pushing many toward exhaustion, guilt, or withdrawal.
According to a survey by Mental Health UK (2025), 80% of respondents reported their mental health worsening over the festive period, with nearly three-quarters feeling lonelier despite being surrounded by family and friends.
Why career transition magnifies festive stress
Career transitions are inherently destabilising. They challenge identity, routine, and security. Add the festive season’s heightened expectations, and the result can be burnout, a state of emotional depletion where joy feels out of reach.
As I explored in my article “Shaken Identity”, career transitions often unsettle our sense of self, leaving us feeling disoriented. During the festive season, those feelings often intensify. Family roles, social expectations, and financial pressures collide with the uncertainty of change, creating a perfect storm that can push even the most resilient into burnout.
Three coaching insights to move toward balance
Boundaries with compassion: Practice saying no to obligations that drain you. Boundaries aren’t rejection, they’re self-preservation. Frame them with kindness, “I’d love to join, but I’m pacing myself this week.”
Mindful spending: Reframe gifts as gestures of thoughtfulness rather than financial burdens. Consider creative alternatives: handwritten notes, shared experiences, or acts of service.
Intentional reflection: Instead of spiralling into “What’s wrong with me?”, use journaling or quiet rituals to process your career journey. Ask gentler questions, “What have I learned this year?” or “What small step feels possible next?”
How others can help
If you know someone navigating a career transition this festive season, small acts of understanding can make a big difference. Offer practical support, like sharing resources or helping with everyday tasks, but also emotional space, listening without judgment, validating their feelings, and respecting their boundaries. Sometimes the greatest gift is simply reminding them they don’t have to carry the weight of change alone.
“Without leaps of imagination or dreaming, we lose the excitement of possibilities. Dreaming, after all, is a form of planning.” – Gloria Steinem
Reframing the festive period
The festive season doesn’t have to be a test of endurance. With gentle boundaries and mindful choices, it can become a bridge from burnout to balance. Think of it as a pause, a chance to nurture yourself, reconnect with what matters, and plant seeds of renewal for the year ahead.
A festive reminder
The holidays may never be free of challenges, but they can be reclaimed as moments of care and clarity. By shifting focus from external pressures to internal alignment, you can transform the season from a source of stress into an opportunity for balance, and perhaps even joy.
If this resonates with you, let’s explore how you can step into the new year with clarity and confidence. Reach out to begin a conversation about your journey because balance and renewal are possible, even in times of transition.
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Anne-Sophie Gossan, Transformational Career Coach
Anne-Sophie Gossan spent 25+ years in the corporate world navigating high-stakes environments and career transitions. She spent years building a career and a home, juggling the demands of raising two boys while holding down a very demanding job.
When redundancy struck, it shook her confidence and identity in ways she hadn’t anticipated. She decided to qualify as a coach and to create Inner Spark Coaching: Reimagine Your Story, a safe space where her clients can reclaim the unstoppable version of themselves that’s always been there.
Through coaching, conversation, and deep transformation, she guides individuals into their next chapter with clarity, confidence, alignment, and renewed purpose.
