Dispelling the Myth and Imposter Syndrome and the Strong Black Woman Stereotype
- Brainz Magazine
- Mar 28
- 4 min read
Updated: Mar 29
Dr. Zyer Beaty is a therapist, counselor educator, and advocate for intentional wellness. Zyer founded Dr. Z Therapy and Coaching, a private practice centering holistic wellness and psychoeducation. As a professor and former school counselor, her research in global education and mental health enriches her innovative work in the field.
Imposter syndrome affects approximately 70% of people at some point in their lives, creating a persistent sense of self-doubt despite clear evidence of success. While it can affect anyone, research has shown that it has a particularly profound impact on Black, Latinx, and Asian American individuals. Among Black women, the burden is further compounded by the pervasive Strong Black Woman stereotype, which reinforces unrealistic expectations of resilience, independence, and perfection.
Understanding imposter syndrome
Imposter syndrome is characterized by a persistent fear of being exposed as a fraud, regardless of achievements or qualifications. Those experiencing it often dismiss their successes as luck or attribute them to external factors rather than their own competence. This leads to cycles of overworking, self-sabotage, and an inability to internalize accomplishments.
The roots of imposter syndrome often begin in childhood, shaped by family dynamics, societal pressures, and educational experiences. Some individuals were labeled as "the smart one" in their families, creating an internalized need to always “be perfect”. Others were taught that hard work was the only way to earn recognition, leading them to disregard their natural talents. Still, some survivors of difficult upbringings used their accomplishments as a way to escape adversity, making success feel fragile and conditional.
The strong black woman stereotype and imposter syndrome
For Black women, the Strong Black Woman stereotype imposes an expectation of constant strength, emotional suppression, and self-reliance. While resilience is a virtue, this stereotype discourages vulnerability and self-compassion, making it even more difficult for Black women to acknowledge struggles with imposter syndrome. The need to be unwaveringly competent often results in burnout, anxiety, and perfectionism.
Research from Kevin Coakley and UM has found that imposter syndrome significantly amplifies psychological distress among people of color, even more than minority status distress itself. Among Black women, it can heighten depression, increase survivor’s guilt, and lower self-esteem. Studies also indicate that those who experience imposter syndrome tend to hyper-focus on critical feedback while dismissing praise, reinforcing the internal belief that they are not truly capable.
Breaking the cycle of imposter syndrome
Imposter syndrome can manifest in various ways. For example, one may experience performance anxiety every time they encounters a new challenge. To compensate, they overwork, striving for unattainable perfection. When they receive positive feedback, they struggle to accept it and quickly move on without internalizing their success, setting the stage for the pattern to repeat.
In another variation, instead of overworking, individuals procrastinate due to fear of failure. When they finally complete the task, they dismiss positive feedback and hyper-focus on any criticism, reinforcing feelings of inadequacy. These cycles can be exhausting and self-perpetuating, but they can be disrupted with intentional strategies.
Overcoming imposter syndrome
One of the most effective ways to combat imposter syndrome is to recognize and challenge negative thought patterns. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) techniques, such as identifying and reframing automatic negative thoughts, can help break the mental cycle of self-doubt. Recognizing that thoughts do not define reality is a crucial step in shifting perspective.
Another essential strategy is learning to accept praise. Instead of deflecting compliments, practice simply saying "thank you" and writing down positive feedback to reinforce self-recognition. Additionally, placing limits on work hours can prevent the tendency to overwork as a means of proving worth.
Building a supportive community is equally important. Many Black women experience imposter syndrome in isolation, but connecting with mentors, peers, and professional networks can provide reassurance and validation. Psychological safety in workplaces where open communication and constructive feedback are encouraged also plays a significant role in reducing imposter syndrome.
Rethinking success: From perfectionism to growth
A key misconception about imposter syndrome is that it drives motivation and success. In reality, it is linked to greater anxiety, depression, burnout, and diminished self-worth. It can also result in excessive organizational loyalty, making individuals hesitant to negotiate for better opportunities.
Shifting from a perfectionist mindset to a growth-oriented one is vital. Mistakes are a natural part of learning, and progress does not require perfection. Recognizing the harmful effects of perfectionism, such as overworking and harsh self-criticism, can help break the cycle. Embracing the idea that being "good enough" is still valuable allows for more sustainable success.
Imposter syndrome is not a reflection of actual ability but rather of internalized beliefs shaped by societal and cultural expectations. For Black women, the Strong Black Woman stereotype can make imposter syndrome even more difficult to navigate, reinforcing unrealistic standards of competence and resilience. However, by recognizing these patterns, challenging negative thought cycles, and embracing self-compassion, it is possible to break free from the imposter syndrome’s grip. Success is not about proving worthiness; it is about recognizing and owning it.
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Zyer Beaty, PhD, LPC, Dr. Z Therapy and Coaching
Dr. Zyer Beaty, a therapist, counselor educator, and wellness advocate, founded Dr. Z Therapy and Coaching, a haven for holistic well-being and psychoeducation. Leveraging her roles as a current professor and former school counselor, Zyer blends innovative methods with insights from global education and mental health research. Specializing in assisting various demographics, she addresses issues like ADHD, depression, and life transitions. Her mission centers on guiding individuals towards authentic, unapologetic living. Dr. Zyer fosters an inclusive environment where everyone can uncover value and purpose in their journey, advocating holistic care and personal empowerment.
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