5 Things You Can Do on Your Healing Journey That Have Nothing to Do With Thinking About Your Trauma
Updated: Aug 6, 2025
Written by Aleya Belamour, Relationship Recovery Coach
Aleya Belamour is a manifestation expert and energy healer. She is the founder and CEO of Reclaiming Radiance, where she offers a 6-month program to help women heal from narcissistic abuse, a free support group, and leads healing journeys around the world.
Because healing doesn’t have to mean reliving the pain. When we hear the word healing, we often imagine intense therapy sessions, digging up the past, or confronting painful memories head-on. While that kind of deep work has its place, healing doesn’t always have to look like emotional excavation.
Sometimes, the most powerful healing happens when you're simply living, creating beauty, building peace, and rediscovering joy outside the shadow of what hurt you.
Here are five healing practices that have nothing to do with thinking about your trauma and everything to do with coming back to yourself:
1. Move your body for pleasure, not punishment
You don’t have to be in a therapy chair to heal; sometimes, healing lives in your hips, your shoulders, and your breath.
Try:
Dancing alone in your room to music that makes you feel alive.
Going on a mindful walk and noticing what’s around you, or listening to a high-vibe podcast.
Taking a yoga class that focuses on presence, not performance. Think restorative or gentle classes.
Swimming, stretching, hiking, whatever brings you joy in motion.
Attending Zumba or another kind of dance class. I find I can’t help but smile in these classes.
Movement reconnects you with your body as a safe place. Not a battleground. Not a storage unit for pain. A home.
2. Create something with your hands
Trauma lives in the body, but so does creativity.
Engaging in tactile, present-moment creation gives your nervous system something grounding and beautiful to focus on.
You might:
Paint, draw, or play with clay, even if you’re “not an artist.”
Try baking a new recipe just for fun.
Start a garden or repot a plant.
Craft something small and silly, like friendship bracelets or a vision board.
Creation reminds your brain: I am more than what happened to me. I can make new things.
3. Spend time with people who make you laugh
Sometimes the best medicine isn’t a journal or a breakthrough; it’s a ridiculous meme from your best friend or a deep belly laugh over something stupid.
Laughter rewires your nervous system, floods your body with feel-good chemicals, and gives your heart a moment to breathe.
Healing doesn’t always need to be heavy.
Invite in lightness. Seek joy. Let yourself feel good without guilt.
4. Change your environment, even briefly
You don’t have to move across the world to feel different. Sometimes a shift in environment is enough to reset your nervous system and remind you that new experiences are still possible.
Try:
Rearranging your room or adding something cozy and beautiful.
Working from a sunny café instead of home.
Spending a weekend in nature, even if it’s just a local park.
Taking a new route when you walk or drive.
Taking yourself or a loved one on a staycation or weekend getaway.
Physical change supports emotional change. When your environment feels fresh, your mind often follows.
5. Build a life that feels like yours
This one is the deepest and the most empowering.
Start saying yes to things that align with who you are becoming, not who you were when you were hurt. You don’t need to overanalyze it. Just ask:
“What feels like me today?”
Maybe it’s trying a new hobby, changing your wardrobe, exploring a spiritual practice, or setting a boundary without apology.
You don’t have to think about your trauma to rise from it. You can simply live differently now.
Final thoughts
Making new, nourishing memories can help you heal by creating fresh neural pathways rooted in safety, peace, and joy. Over time, this rewiring helps quiet trauma-based patterns like anxiety, depression, and rumination, allowing your brain to lean more into calm, optimism, and presence.
So, if you are tired of thinking about it and ready for what’s next in your life, I invite you to let go and have a lot more fun.
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Aleya Belamour, Relationship Recovery Coach
Aleya Belamour is a certified Relationship Recovery Coach, Energy Medicine Practitioner, and the founder of Breakup to Blissful — a transformational journey that helps women heal their hearts, release emotional baggage, and rediscover their inner radiance after a painful breakup or divorce. She offers free guided meditations and an online support group, with deeper transformation available through her signature program and soulful healing journeys around the world.
