4 Seasons Of Female Orgasm
Written by: Dr. Pete Cooper Ph.D., LPC-S, CLC, Executive Contributor
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Last week I began my series on how to link the earth element to achieving better female orgasms. Consequently, in focusing on the earth element, for now, the four seasons also have a correlation to the female orgasm. Winter is simply dormancy of any sexual arousal, stimulation, or excitement; it’s there, waiting for spring to come around eventually to wake things up. Spring is the excitement and plateau phase of orgasm; things change, come to life, and heat up. Summer is orgasm; life and energy peaking with lots of activity and vigorous response to the natural order of things. Fall is the resolution phase, where change is still occurring, only in the opposite direction back to the dormancy of winter.
Furthermore, proverbial soil must be cultivated daily throughout a woman’s life to keep the cyclic energy of the proverbial seasons of her sexuality going to not allow it to stagnate, atrophy, or completely dry up; or at least retard the process of drying up for as long as possible to have a sexual quality of life well into one’s later years. This proverbial soil and cultivation are things like Kegel exercises on a daily basis if doing it without Kegel balls/eggs (once or twice a week if using Kegel balls/eggs, weekly masturbation that involves stimulation of the entire clitoris via devices such as the Lelo Sona, regular masturbation with dildos if one is devoid of a partner and tapping into what psychologically arouses you at any given point in time in your life to ensure the neurological strength stays intact.
The latter could be including but is not limited to voyeurism, exhibitionism, role-playing, reading or viewing erotica, or anything else that gets your imagination going, so it is important to find what works best for you. Women often quit being sexual when getting aroused or having an orgasm becomes difficult, but what can help is more mental engagement and physical stimulation (Kraft, 2022).
Dr. Pete Cooper Ph.D., LPC-S, CLC, Executive Contributor Brainz Magazine
Dr. Pete Cooper is an expert in intimacy coaching and motivation. Overcoming personal challenges is something Dr. C deals with on a daily basis as a result of being diagnosed with Bipolar Disorder Type II. His passion is in helping others overcome personal challenges as well as in assisting individuals and couples find or rediscover intimacy in their lives. He is also a working professional musician. Dr. C is CEO of Intimacy With Dr. C, which assists individuals and couples to connect or reconnect with healthy sexuality in their lives and to transform that into meaning and purpose for themselves.
References:
Kraft, C. (n.d.). How sex changes after menopause. Johns Hopkins Medicine. Retrieved January 14, 2022, from https://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/health/wellness-and-prevention/how-sex-changes-after-menopause
