Mental health
Mental health is just as important as physical health. Allow our contributors to give expert guidance and tips on steps you can take to improve your mental well-being. Learn about different therapeutic approaches and self-care practices that can support your mental health.
When Did Suffering Have to Become Severe Before It Counted?
When did we decide that someone has to be unwell enough before their suffering counts? We understand a continuum intuitively in physical health. We recognize risk factors, monitor changes...
7 Masks Trauma Survivors Wear and What May Be Hiding Behind Them
For many years, I knew how to look okay even when I wasn't okay. I could smile. I could function. I could support other people. I could keep going. What wasn't always visible was what was happening underneath.
Amy Schumer Hid Her Hair Pulling for Years and Here’s Why So Many People With BFRBs Still Go Undiagnosed
When Amy Schumer revealed publicly that she had lived with trichotillomania since childhood, including wearing a wig to school after pulling out so much of her hair, her story sounded painfully familiar...
Panic Attacks Aren’t the Whole Problem and 7 Hidden Behaviors Keep Panic Disorder Going
A panic attack can feel overwhelming. For many people with panic disorder, though, the attack is just one part of the struggle. The things people do between attacks, like checking, avoiding, planning, escaping...
What the Changing Season Can Teach Us About Regulating Our Nervous System
There is a moment every year when I can smell fall before I can really see it. The air feels different. The mornings are cooler. A crispness that wasn't there a few weeks ago. Then, almost overnight...
The Mindset for Neuro Recovery and 5 Lessons in Neuroplasticity for Survivors and Caregivers – Part 2
How to turn the science of neuroplasticity into meaningful action through personalized training, purposeful repetition, progressive challenge, and the everyday choices that support recovery. Another...
The Mindset for Neuro Recovery and Don’t Let Your Diagnosis Define You – Part 1
What surviving multiple traumatic brain injuries taught me about identity, neuroplasticity, personalized rehabilitation, and the role survivors and caregivers can play in creating the conditions for...
When Perfectionism Becomes Pathological and the Fine Line Between Excellence and OCD
Throughout your career, you picked up skills, business cards, and contacts, but when and where did you pick up the idea that compulsive behavior would fix the fears you’re feeling? You weren’t born with ...
The Lost Twin, the Eternal Longing and Searching Without Knowing What For
A deep sense of longing, loneliness, or not fully belonging can remain even when life looks successful and connected from the outside. For some, exploring the possibility of a lost twin can...
‘The Surf of Life’ and the Raw Truth About Life in Recovery
For those of you who have not read my previous articles, I was diagnosed with a mental disorder in 2013, at age 31, but it wasn’t until eight years ago that I really started working on my recovery...
Asking AI 'Am I a Bad Person?' 40 Times a Day – When a Chatbot Becomes Part of Your OCD
AI chatbots never get tired of answering the same question. For someone with obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD), that's the problem. It used to be Google. Before that, it was a parent, a spouse, a...
How Embracing Imperfection Can Transform Your Life
Vulnerability is not weakness, but a courageous willingness to be seen, embrace imperfection, and live in alignment with your truth. Through personal stories, reflections, and practical steps, this...
Emotions Are the Data That Direct Us Back Home to Ourselves
When coming into therapy, the idea of having to “feel” emotions or “talk” about emotions can be a big barrier, prompting us to steer clear of mental health services, especially when many of us have been taught...
Merula Manifesto V: A Caring Mother, a Loving Partner, and a Fair Game – Three Things I Never Had
Abuse can reshape our understanding of love, safety, identity, and even ourselves, making chaos feel familiar and peace feel foreign. This deeply personal journey explores the hidden patterns of trauma...
Why Your Body Still Reacts After Stress or Trauma
You can know logically that you are safe and still feel your heart begin to race. A smell, a sound, a hospital corridor, an unexpected comment, or even a date on the calendar can create a physical reaction...


















