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  • AI Has Made Political Philosophy Relevant Again

    Written by Ece Tekbulut, Political Philosopher and Founder Dr. Ece Tekbulut is a political philosopher and the founder of Thinking Through. She earned her Ph.D. from Columbia University. Through Thinking Through, she creates spaces for people to become better thinkers. Her work brings rigorous philosophical inquiry into everyday life, exploring themes relevant to modern society. I was on Capitol Hill on May 18th, on a panel called “Expanding the AI Narrative: AI Ethics, Safety, Economic & Cultural Impact.” I was invited to speak about the normative questions surrounding AI, and about the real tradeoffs for our society. I spoke about public trust in AI, the transformation awaiting white-collar workers, and the political contradictions shaping our response to technological change. Here are the points that resonated with people. 1. A positive vision of AI is needed for public trust and political legitimacy One of the points I emphasized was that building a positive vision around AI is not simply a technology policy question for the United States, it is also a matter of trust in government and geopolitical competitiveness. According to Stanford University’s 2026 AI Index, among 30 countries surveyed, Americans are the population least likely to trust their government to regulate AI in ways that benefit society. This creates not only a political legitimacy problem for the U.S. government, but may also undermine its aspirations for global tech leadership. How are you going to claim that position if your own population has an aversion to it? In China, AI is often framed and deployed as a tool that improves everyday life through healthcare, education, and public services. In the U.S., the AI narrative and strategy are largely centred around automation and superintelligence. People cannot see how their own lives will improve. Instead, there are fears of losing livelihoods without a safety net from the government. Technological leadership cannot be sustained without public confidence. 2. The outsourcing threat for white-collar workers Another theme I explored was the changing nature of white-collar labour. Drawing on MIT professor Danielle Li et al.’s research, I argued that companies now have a new pathway to outsourcing, one that happens inside the building. In one of the first studies of its kind, Li et al. examined a Fortune 500 company that introduced AI agents to assist roughly 5,000 customer service staff on calls with clients. The findings suggest that less experienced, lower-skilled workers saw significant improvements in both the speed and quality of their output. The most experienced, highest-skilled workers saw no meaningful improvement, however. Some even declined. Why? Because the AI agents were already trained on call recordings of those top performers. Their expertise, both technical and personal, was diffused across the organization through AI, reducing their competitive edge in the process and taking away their leverage. Globalization outsourced factories to offshore lands, and now white-collar expertise itself is being digitally replicated and distributed. Companies can opt for lower-wage, lower-experience workers and rely on AI, trained by their best people, to amplify their performance. The best people then become the expensive option. Can the permanent transfer of an employee’s expertise into an AI system ever be legitimate? Can it ever be fully compensated? 3. The conservative puzzle During the panel, all speakers talked about the expectation that the burdens of AI will fall on ordinary people, while the benefits stay in the hands of the few. A member of the Republican Party declared that he wants AI to be regulated, but does not want the government to do it. The first thing that came to my mind was Otto von Bismarck. He created one of the first modern social security systems, and he was no socialist. He was a conservative. Large-scale economic transformations often require new forms of social protection. Otherwise, governments are bound to face social and political instability. Overall, the future of AI is not simply a technical question. It is a question of social trust, political legitimacy, and social justice. Thus, AI has made political philosophy relevant again, and it was a genuine honour to be part of that conversation as its practitioner. Follow me on LinkedIn for more info! Read more from Ece Tekbulut Ece Tekbulut, Political Philosopher and Founder Dr. Ece Tekbulut is a political philosopher, cultural entrepreneur, and public intellectual. She earned her Ph.D. in Political Science from Columbia University, where her research examined democracy, risk, and emergency powers. She is the founder of Thinking Through, a New York-based philosophy salon that brings rigorous ideas into conversation with everyday life. Through curated discussions on love, friendship, adulthood, money, cities, power, and AI, she invites participants to actively grapple with the philosophical questions shaping modern society. Her work creates spaces where people think together, challenge assumptions, and practice serious reflection beyond academia.

  • How Being Born With a Cluster of Veins Affected My Nervous System and Overall Health

    Written by Joseannie Martinez, Author and Advocate Joseannie Martinez is an Afro-Dominican and self-publishing author from Paterson, New Jersey. In 2020, she launched her Instagram account @lightlyepilepsy to shift the narrative, destigmatize epilepsy, and provoke conversations. Right before I hit puberty, around the age of ten or eleven, I began experiencing excessive sweating under my arms. All it took was anxiety, overthinking, or feeling overwhelmed, and my armpits would become completely drenched. At the time, I never understood why it was happening. Even now, as an adult, I still sweat excessively, especially when I am overheated or anxious. I considered getting Botox treatments for it, but I did not want to deal with the possible side effects. For years, I assumed this was simply how my body worked. Then, at almost thirty years old, I discovered I had been born with a cluster of veins in my brain. By that point, I had already been living with epilepsy for more than half my life, so learning this information so late was shocking. When I was twenty-one, after being diagnosed with epilepsy, I had my first MRI. At the time, doctors told me they saw what appeared to be a scar on my brain. Nearly ten years later, I underwent another MRI after experiencing strange sensations on the left side of my body. This MRI, performed with a more advanced Tesla 3 machine, revealed a cluster of veins located in my right temporal lobe. Not long after that discovery, I was hospitalised and underwent an EEG, which led doctors to diagnose me with right mesial temporal sclerosis. This condition involves neuron loss and scarring in the brain and can sometimes develop after high fevers, severe brain injuries, or strokes. Receiving all of this information within such a short period of time was overwhelming. Learning that I had been born with this cluster of veins and had gone decades without knowing about it forced me to reflect on my childhood and teenage years. Suddenly, many things began to make sense. As a child, I suffered from frequent high fevers. Looking back, I also realise I had likely been experiencing focal seizures long before my official diagnosis. At the time, I thought I was only daydreaming often. I experienced intense déjà vu episodes so frequently that they felt normal to me. The excessive sweating I experienced also made me wonder about the connection between my brain, hormones, nervous system, and endocrine system. Over time, I noticed that hormonal changes, especially during ovulation, greatly affected my epilepsy and seizure activity. As my hormones fluctuate with age, my epilepsy changes as well. I cannot help but wonder whether the cluster of veins in my brain, which may have impacted my nervous system my entire life, contributed to these symptoms. Anxiety would immediately trigger sweating episodes for me, and much of that anxiety developed from childhood trauma, including my parents’ divorce and constantly moving from place to place. Around the same time the excessive sweating began, I also started experiencing night terrors. I would wake up in the middle of the night screaming, yet the next morning, I would have no memory of it happening. The only reason I knew about these episodes was that my father would ask me why I had been screaming during the night. By my teenage years, my seizures became more noticeable. Looking back now, it feels as though years of neurological symptoms, emotional stress, anxiety, and internal tension had been building within me long before I ever received answers. As difficult as this journey has been, it has also given me a deeper sense of purpose. Discovering that so many of the experiences I struggled with were connected to my epilepsy and neurological condition inspired me to begin writing. For years, I carried confusion, fear, and unanswered questions about what was happening inside my body. Writing became a way for me to process those experiences and transform them into something meaningful for others. My health journey ultimately led me to write my children’s books, including Lucky Feels Fuzzy and Lucky’s First EEG. Through these stories, I wanted children living with epilepsy and neurological conditions to feel less alone and less afraid than I once did. I wanted families to have conversations about seizures, testing, anxiety, and brain health in a way that felt comforting and understandable. What once felt like years of suffering and uncertainty eventually became the foundation for advocacy, storytelling, and healing, not only for myself, but hopefully for others navigating similar experiences. Follow me on Instagram and Facebook for more info! Read more from Joseannie Martinez Joseannie Martinez, Advocate and Author After being diagnosed with epilepsy at 16, she dreamed of writing children’s books inspired by her own experiences to help others. In 2022, Martinez published her first book, 'Lucky Feels Fuzzy'. The story features a character with epilepsy and serves as a self-help resource for young readers, teaching them how to express their symptoms and advocate for themselves. By including cats of various colors, she also promotes inclusivity and highlights that epilepsy can affect both humans and animals.

  • Still On Omeprazole After Years? The Heartburn Myth That’s Keeping You Stuck

    Written by Stephen Roigard, Integrative Corporate Wellness Consultant Stephen Roigard is a registered naturopath, clinical nutritionist, and corporate wellness consultant with over 25 years of experience integrating science-based functional medicine and holistic health to support individuals, professionals, and teams in achieving sustainable well-being. Millions of people take a small tablet every morning, often for years, sometimes for decades, on the understanding that their stomach makes too much acid, and that this acid is the source of all their discomfort. It is a tidy explanation. The trouble is, for most people, it is almost certainly the wrong one. Here is what the research actually shows, and what you can do about it. That burning feeling, what is actually going on? You know the feeling. A burning sensation that rises from your chest, sometimes reaching your throat. Perhaps a sour taste, a persistent cough, or that uncomfortable sense that food is sitting in the wrong place. It is one of the most common health complaints in the world, affecting an estimated 10 to 30% of adults in Western countries,[1] and it goes by several names: heartburn, acid reflux, GORD (gastro-oesophageal reflux disease), or GERD, if you have been reading American sources. At the root of all these symptoms is the same basic event: stomach contents are travelling back up into the oesophagus (your food pipe), which is not built to handle acid. The question that matters, and the one that is rarely asked in a standard 10-minute consultation, is why that is happening in the first place? What your medication is actually doing Proton pump inhibitors (PPIs), a family of drugs that includes omeprazole, esomeprazole, pantoprazole, and lansoprazole, are among the most widely prescribed medications on the planet.[2] They work by blocking the so-called 'proton pump,' a tiny piece of molecular machinery embedded in the acid-producing cells of your stomach wall. Block the pump, produce less acid. It is elegant chemistry. How much less acid? Studies show PPIs reduce gastric acid production by approximately 90 to 98%,[3] essentially turning your stomach's acid output down to near zero. To put that in perspective, the stomach is designed to maintain a pH somewhere between 1.5 and 3.5 (highly acidic). On a standard PPI dose, it may sit closer to 5 or 6, closer to the acidity of black coffee than to the industrial-strength environment it is meant to be. PPIs were designed, and are approved, for short-term use, typically 4 to 8 weeks, to heal an inflamed oesophagus, treat a stomach ulcer, or assist in clearing a Helicobacter pylori bacterial infection.[4] Yet enormous numbers of patients end up on them indefinitely, sometimes for decades. I have seen clients who have been taking double doses of omeprazole every day for over 25 years. That is a profound, long-term suppression of a digestive process that your body depends on and leads to very serious consequences. You have too much acid, does the science actually back this up? This is where things get genuinely interesting, and, frankly, a little frustrating. The explanation most patients receive is that their stomach is producing too much acid, and that this excess is the reason for their symptoms. It makes intuitive sense: burning sensation, acid-sounding problem, acid-reducing solution. Neat. But when researchers have measured acid production in people with uncomplicated GORD and compared it to people without symptoms, the results are consistently underwhelming for the 'excess acid' hypothesis. The majority of reflux sufferers do not produce significantly more acid than symptom-free individuals.[5] What is different in people with reflux is not how much acid their stomachs make, it is that the acid ends up somewhere it should not. The mechanism driving that is something called transient lower oesophageal sphincter relaxation (TLOSR), a rather technical phrase for something quite simple: the valve between your oesophagus and your stomach briefly pops open at the wrong moment, allowing contents to travel upward.[6] The question that rarely gets asked is, what is causing that valve to misbehave? The answer, supported by a growing body of research, is largely to do with pressure, fermentation, and the quality of your digestion. Not excess acid. Here is the paradox: Low stomach acid may actually be causing your reflux This tends to raise eyebrows. If heartburn is caused by acid, how can having less acid make things worse? Think of your stomach as a food processor. For it to work efficiently, breaking down protein, killing pathogens, signalling the rest of the digestive system to get ready, it needs to be genuinely acidic. Adequate acidity activates pepsin, the primary enzyme responsible for breaking down protein. It also triggers the pyloric sphincter (the valve at the bottom of the stomach) to open, allowing food to pass through into the small intestine at the right pace.[7] When stomach acid is too low, a condition called hypochlorhydria, this process slows down. Food sits in the stomach longer than it should, because the signals that tell the system 'we are ready to move on' are not being sent properly. The stomach becomes fuller for longer. A full stomach is a pressurised stomach. That pressure has to go somewhere, and the path of least resistance is back up through the lower oesophageal sphincter, the very valve that reflux depends on. There is another layer to this. When stomach pH rises (i.e., becomes less acidic), the stomach becomes a far more hospitable environment for bacteria. Bacteria that would normally be killed by a healthy acidic environment instead thrive, and they ferment undigested carbohydrates, producing carbon dioxide and hydrogen gas.[8] That gas builds up, expands the stomach, and, you guessed it, pushes upward. Research has found a significant association between this bacterial overgrowth (known as SIBO, or small intestinal bacterial overgrowth) and GORD,[9] and PPI use is one of the strongest known risk factors for developing SIBO in the first place. In short, the medication may be addressing the symptom, temporarily, whilst actively worsening the underlying physiology that created it. What the research says about long-term PPI use Given how casually and persistently PPIs are prescribed, patients deserve a clear-eyed look at what the long-term evidence shows and it is not reassuring. Nutrient deficiencies Stomach acid is essential for absorbing several nutrients your body genuinely cannot do without. Long-term PPI use has been linked to clinically significant deficiencies in magnesium,[10] vitamin B12,[11] iron, and calcium. In 2011, the US Food and Drug Administration issued a formal safety warning specifically about the risk of dangerously low magnesium levels in long-term PPI users, noting that in many cases, levels only recovered after the drug was stopped.[10] Bone fractures Impaired calcium and magnesium absorption over years translates, predictably, to reduced bone density. Multiple large studies have found associations between long-term PPI use and increased risk of hip, wrist, and spinal fractures.[12] Kidney disease A 2016 cohort study published in JAMA Internal Medicine, one of the world's most rigorous medical journals, followed more than 10,000 people and found that PPI users had a 20 to 50% greater risk of developing chronic kidney disease, independent of other known risk factors.[13] Cognitive decline A 2016 prospective study in JAMA Neurology found that regular PPI use was associated with a significantly increased risk of dementia in people over 75, with an adjusted hazard ratio of 1.44 (roughly a 44% increased risk).[14] One plausible mechanism for B12 deficiency, a known consequence of PPI use, is a recognised contributor to cognitive decline. Gut infections Your stomach acid is a front-line defence against harmful microorganisms that enter your digestive system. Suppress it significantly, and pathogens that would normally be destroyed can take hold. PPI use is associated with more than double the risk of Clostridioides difficile (C. diff) infection,[15] a serious gut infection that can cause severe and recurrent colitis. Rebound acid hypersecretion, the cruel twist Perhaps the most clinically important issue for anyone trying to come off PPIs: long-term use causes the body to compensate by upregulating its acid-producing cells (via a rise in a hormone called gastrin). When the PPI is stopped, especially abruptly, there can be a dramatic rebound surge in acid production that temporarily exceeds what was there before you ever started the medication.[16] This rebound can last 2 to 4 weeks, and the resulting worsening of symptoms convinces most people that they desperately need the drug, reinforcing indefinite use. It is, in essence, a physiological trap. The conversation nobody is having: How you eat matters more than you think After years of clinical practice, I can say with conviction that the most consistently overlooked contributor to chronic reflux is not a nutrient, not a supplement, and not a medication. It is eating behaviour, and specifically, the pace and mindfulness with which people eat. When you eat quickly, several things happen simultaneously, and none of them are good for your digestion. You swallow considerably more air, a direct source of the intra-gastric gas pressure that triggers reflux.[17] You chew less thoroughly, leaving larger food particles that take longer to break down and clear the stomach. You bypass what is known as the cephalic phase of digestion, your body's preparatory response to the sight, smell, and anticipation of food, which triggers saliva production, enzyme release, and the right neurological signals to get digestion ready to go.[18] Skip that preparation, and your digestive system is essentially trying to run a race with no warm-up. Conversely, when people slow down, genuinely slow down, chew thoroughly, sit still, and eat without a screen in front of them, the digestive process can work as it was designed to. Gastric emptying improves, pressure reduces, and that faulty valve relaxes far less often. Research published in gastroenterology literature has confirmed that eating rate is meaningfully associated with both the frequency of reflux episodes and the amount of time acid spends in the oesophagus.[19] In my own practice, I have had a 100% success rate in getting clients off omeprazole, many of whom had been on it for years, primarily through addressing this one thing. Not through magic supplements or expensive protocols. Through slowing down and being present at mealtimes. Five practical steps to start addressing reflux at its root A note before we begin: if you are currently on a PPI, please do not stop it abruptly. Because of the rebound hypersecretion issue described above, coming off these medications requires a careful, gradual taper, and this should be done in conversation with your healthcare professional, familiar with this process. What follows is a framework for addressing the underlying drivers while that process unfolds. Slow down and chew. Aim for 20 to 30 chews per mouthful. Put your fork or spoon down between bites. This is not a suggestion, it is, in many cases, the most powerful single intervention available. Give your stomach the head start it needs. Do not eat under stress or in a rush. Digestion is a parasympathetic (rest-and-digest) function. Eating while stressed, anxious, or in a hurry actively suppresses the very physiological processes needed for healthy digestion. If you have five minutes and no more, wait until you have more. Eat smaller meals, and stop eating 2 to 3 hours before bed. A distended stomach is a refluxing stomach. Keeping meal volumes modest reduces intra-gastric pressure significantly. Lying down with a full stomach is one of the most reliable ways to worsen nocturnal reflux.[20] Investigate bacterial overgrowth if bloating is prominent. If your reflux comes with significant bloating, belching, or altered bowel habits, fermentation-driven gas pressure may be the primary driver. SIBO is both a consequence of long-term PPI use and an independent cause of reflux, and is worth investigating. Support your digestive readiness. Under appropriate naturopathic guidance, supporting the cephalic phase and gentle gastric function, through bitter herbs, mindful eating rituals, and targeted digestive support, can help restore the physiological conditions your stomach needs to work properly. A word about your doctor Nothing in this article is intended as a criticism of the medical practitioners who prescribe PPIs. These are genuinely valuable medications, they save lives in the context of severe erosive oesophagitis, gastrointestinal bleeding, and H. pylori eradication. The concern is specifically with their long-term, open-ended use for uncomplicated reflux, often without any reassessment of the root cause. If you have been on a PPI for months or years, it is entirely reasonable, and, I would argue, important, to have a conversation with your GP about a supervised taper, particularly if your symptoms are well controlled. The evidence on long-term risks is substantial and well-published, and most clinicians should be open to this discussion. Ready to get to the root of your reflux? If you are ready to work on your digestive health from the ground up, addressing the underlying drivers rather than managing symptoms indefinitely, I would love to help. Follow me on Facebook, Instagram, and LinkedIn for more info! Read more from Stephen Roigard Stephen Roigard, Integrative Corporate Wellness Consultant Stephen Roigard is a seasoned health expert specialising in integrative and functional medicine. With over 25 years of experience as a registered naturopath, clinical nutritionist, medical herbalist, and health coach, he empowers individuals and corporate teams to tackle stress, low energy, chronic illness, and mental well-being from the root cause. Stephen also brings expertise as a personal trainer and yoga, dance, and martial arts instructor. His corporate wellness work combines science‑backed strategies and behavioural coaching to transform workplace health culture. Passionate about achieving long‑term results, he helps professionals thrive physically, mentally, and emotionally. References: [1] El-Serag HB, Sweet S, Winchester CC, Dent J. Update on the epidemiology of gastro-oesophageal reflux disease: a systematic review. Gut. 2014;63(6):871-880. [2] Forgacs I, Loganayagam A. Overprescribing proton pump inhibitors. BMJ. 2008;336(7634):2-3. [3] Sachs G, Shin JM, Howden CW. Review article: the clinical pharmacology of proton pump inhibitors. Alimentary Pharmacology & Therapeutics. 2006;23 Suppl 2:2-8. [4] Medicines and Healthcare products Regulatory Agency. Proton pump inhibitors: updated advice about long-term use. Drug Safety Update. 2014. [5] Richter JE, Bradley LA, DeMeester TR, Wu WC. Normal 24-hr ambulatory esophageal pH values. Digestive Diseases and Sciences. 1992;37(6):849-856. [6] Pandolfino JE, Kahrilas PJ. AGA technical review on the clinical use of esophageal manometry. Gastroenterology. 2005;128(1):209–224. [7] Parkman HP, et al. Gastroduodenal motility and dysmotility: an update on techniques available for evaluation. American Journal of Gastroenterology. 1995;90(6):869-892. [8] Pimentel M, et al. A new method of creating a robust estimation of breath test cutoff values. Gastroenterology & Hepatology. 2009;5(3):178-185. [9] Ratuapli SK, et al. Proton pump inhibitor therapy use does not predispose to small intestinal bacterial overgrowth. American Journal of Gastroenterology. 2012;107(5):730-735. [10] US Food and Drug Administration. FDA Drug Safety Communication: Low magnesium levels can be associated with long-term use of proton pump inhibitor drugs. 2011. [11] Lam JR, Schneider JL, Zhao W, Corley DA. Proton pump inhibitor and histamine 2 receptor antagonist use and vitamin B12 deficiency. JAMA. 2013;310(22):2435-2442. [12] Yang YX, Lewis JD, Epstein S, Metz DC. Long-term proton pump inhibitor therapy and risk of hip fracture. JAMA. 2006;296(24):2947-2953. [13] Lazarus B, et al. Proton pump inhibitor use and the risk of chronic kidney disease. JAMA Internal Medicine. 2016;176(2):238-246. [14] Gomm W, et al. Association of proton pump inhibitors with risk of dementia. JAMA Neurology. 2016;73(4):410-416. [15] Kwok CS, et al. Risk of Clostridium difficile infection with acid-suppressing drugs and antibiotics: meta-analysis. American Journal of Gastroenterology. 2012;107(7):1011-1019. [16] Reimer C, et al. Proton-pump inhibitor therapy induces acid-related symptoms in healthy volunteers after withdrawal of therapy. Gastroenterology. 2009;137(1):80-87. [17] Chitkara DK, et al. Esophageal motor activity in children with gastroesophageal reflux disease and esophageal atresia. Journal of Pediatric Gastroenterology and Nutrition. 2005;40(2):123-130. [18] Zafar S, Bhatt DL. The cephalic phase of digestion: neurological and hormonal regulation. Annals of Internal Medicine. 2018;169(7):503. [19] Feinle-Bisset C, Azpiroz F. Dietary and lifestyle factors in functional dyspepsia. Nature Reviews Gastroenterology & Hepatology. 2013;10(3):150-157. [20] Orr WC, et al. Review article: Sleep and its relationship to gastrointestinal disorders. Alimentary Pharmacology & Therapeutics. 2004;20 Suppl 9:39-46.

  • How to Finally Break Free From Procrastination

    Written by Jennifer Stewart, Technology & Productivity Trainer Jennifer Stewart is a Technology and Productivity Trainer and owner of Gateway Productivity, known for patiently helping clients overcome technology frustration and work more efficiently. She has trained individuals and businesses since 2011 and creates accessible learning content through her “Tuesday Tech Training” video series on YouTube. We’ve all said it, “I’ll start after lunch, tomorrow, next week.” Yet the task still sits there, quietly draining your energy. Here’s the truth: Most people get it wrong, procrastination is not a time management issue, and it is definitely not laziness. It is an emotional response. In fact, research shows procrastination is closely tied to how we regulate difficult emotions like stress, fear, and overwhelm, not a lack of discipline. Once you understand that, everything changes. Why we procrastinate, even when we know better If you have ever felt stuck, frozen, or avoidant, your brain is doing exactly what it was designed to do: seek comfort and avoid discomfort. Neuroscience shows that procrastination happens when emotional, reward-seeking parts of the brain override rational planning systems. In plain language, your brain chooses relief now over results later. From both research and real-life experience, the most common triggers include perfectionism, where we delay starting because something may not be flawless. They also include overwhelm, where big tasks feel impossible, so we shut down. Fear of failure can play a role too, as avoiding protects us from judgment. Unclear starting points can stop us from beginning because we do not know where to start. Low energy or motivation can also be a factor, especially when we are simply mentally drained. Sound familiar? Good. That means you are human, not broken. The real cost of procrastination Procrastination does not just delay tasks, it compounds stress. Studies show it is linked to increased anxiety, reduced performance, and even negative mental health outcomes over time. The longer you wait, the heavier the task feels. That is the trap: you delay feeling better, but end up feeling worse. Quick wins: How to get moving, even when you do not feel like it The goal is not motivation, it is momentum. Here are simple, science-backed ways to break the cycle immediately. Start smaller than you think: Do not “write the report.” Open the document. Write one sentence. Breaking tasks into tiny steps reduces overwhelm and helps your brain engage. Use the 5-minute rule: Tell yourself, “I’ll just do this for five minutes.” Once you start, your brain often wants to continue. Thanks to the Zeigarnik effect, unfinished tasks stay active in your mind. Make progress visible: Checklists, sticky notes, or simple trackers work because they give you clarity, show progress, and create small wins. Small wins build momentum. Pair work with pleasure: Coffee. Music. A cozy environment. Your brain resists discomfort, so make the experience more appealing. Use time blocks, not endless to-do lists: Try structured work like the Pomodoro Technique, 25 minutes of focused work, followed by a 5-minute break. Short bursts feel doable and reduce decision fatigue. Drop the guilt: Self-criticism fuels procrastination. Research shows self-compassion actually helps people engage more quickly after delays. Be kind. Reset. Start again. Long-term strategies that actually stick Quick fixes help you begin, but lasting change comes from changing how you approach work. Turn tasks into actionable steps: Ask yourself whether this is actually a project rather than one task. Break it down into step one, step two, and step three. You do not need the full roadmap, just the first step. Build a smarter to-do system: Instead of keeping one long list, brain dump everything, prioritise what matters, and schedule those priorities. Clarity reduces avoidance. Identify the real block: Procrastination is usually a symptom. Ask yourself whether you are afraid of doing this wrong, whether you do not know how to start, or whether you simply do not want to do this. Naming the emotion is the first step to solving it. Redefine “done”: Perfection is the enemy of progress. Ask yourself, What does “good enough” look like? Done beats perfect every time. Use accountability: Whether it is a colleague, coach, or friend, external accountability significantly increases follow-through. Even a simple check-in can make a difference. You just need to begin Procrastination is not a flaw, it is feedback. It is your brain telling you something needs to change. The task may be too big, the goal may be unclear, or the emotion may feel uncomfortable. The solution is not to “try harder.” It is to start smaller, think smarter, and treat yourself better. Because the truth is simple, you do not need to feel ready, you just need to begin. If you're having trouble getting started and want a helping hand and accountability partner, schedule a consultation today. Let's work together to prevent procrastination and get back to your unique brilliance. Follow me on LinkedIn, and visit my website for more info! Read more from Jennifer Stewart Jennifer Stewart, Technology & Productivity Trainer Jennifer Stewart is a Technology and Productivity Trainer and the owner of Gateway Productivity, dedicated to helping individuals and businesses reduce overwhelm and work more efficiently with their digital tools. Since 2011, she has empowered clients to overcome technology frustration through clear, patient and practical training that creates real “lightbulb” moments. Jennifer is a recognized industry leader, an active member of the National Association of Productivity and Organizing Professionals (NAPO), and a national speaker who brings both expertise and approachability to every session. Through her popular “Tuesday Tech Training” video series on YouTube, she continues to make technology simple, accessible, and even enjoyable.

  • Why High-Functioning Employees Are Burning Out In Silence

    Written by Sosheina Whyte, Associate Counselling Psychologist Sosheina Whyte is a fusion of mental wellness and creativity. She is the founder of Roar Unleashed, a Jamaican-based mental wellness company that empowers individuals to fiercely protect their minds. She created the signature T.A.L.K model for resilience and emotional well-being and authored Mind Priority: The Mental Wellness Planner. “Too much hurry bruck pot.” This Jamaican proverb warns that excessive rushing eventually leads to damage. Yet in many workplaces today, speed, urgency, and constant output are rewarded as signs of commitment and success. Once you are responsive, always available, and consistently producing excellence on or before deadlines, you quickly become labelled as “valuable” and “dependable.” You become the one everyone relies on, the one people say they “cannot do without,” and this is often where the problem begins. Some of the most overwhelmed people in organizations are often the ones receiving the most praise. They meet deadlines, solve problems quickly, and continue functioning even while mentally exhausted. Because they are still functioning, many organizations fail to recognize that these employees are overwhelmed and silently burning out behind their performance. What is workplace burnout? Workplace burnout is more than simply feeling tired after a stressful week. Burnout is a state of emotional, mental, and physical exhaustion caused by prolonged and unmanaged stress. According to the World Health Organization, burnout is characterized by feelings of energy depletion, increased mental distance from one’s job, reduced professional effectiveness, and emotional exhaustion. Now, unlike temporary stress, which is often short-term and tied to specific pressures or situations, burnout accumulates over time and gradually drains a person emotionally, mentally, and physically. It affects motivation, focus, creativity, patience, and even the ability to enjoy the job that felt meaningful and fulfilling. The dangerous part is that burnout does not always look like falling apart and so most times we miss it. Sometimes burnout looks like a “great job!” moment, but it is missed because beneath the surface, the struggle stays hidden. Why high-functioning employees are often the most vulnerable High-functioning employees are frequently trusted with additional responsibilities because they are viewed as dependable, capable, and resilient. They are often the individuals who “always get the job done,” even under pressure and they are the ones for whom the phrase “the reward for good work is more work” is always directed. Over time, though, this creates a dangerous cycle. The more capable someone appears, the more pressure they are expected to carry and the more they carry, the more capable they appear. Many high-functioning employees also place huge amounts of pressure on themselves internally. After building a reputation for excellence, reliability, and productivity, the act of slowing down can begin to feel uncomfortable or even unacceptable. They may fear disappointing others, appearing weak, or no longer being viewed as valuable. This is also reinforced by comments and questions by team members and supervisors that subconsciously relay that they are “off their game.” As a result, many continue pushing themselves long after their minds and bodies have started signalling the need for a pause. Eventually, constant output without proper recovery creates the perfect environment for burnout to develop quietly and progressively. Why burnout is often overlooked in the workplace One of the biggest misconceptions about burnout is the belief that struggling employees will always look visibly overwhelmed or incapable. However, the reality is that many burned-out employees still arrive at work on time, complete assignments, attend meetings, and maintain professional appearances. Because they continue functioning and their exhaustion often goes unnoticed. In many workplace cultures, pushing through stress has become normalized and even praised. Constant urgency, overworking, emotional depletion and being available at the ‘drop of a hat’ are often treated as indicators of ambition and evidence of commitment rather than warning signs that something may be wrong. Our Jamaican proverb, “Too much hurry bruck pot,” serves as a reminder that excessive rushing eventually leads to damage. Literally translated, it means that too much hurrying breaks the pot. Metaphorically, it speaks to the damage constant urgency can create-whether to the mind, the body, relationships, or overall well-being. Ironically, many workplaces now operate in ways that continuously reward speed, urgency, and nonstop output without considering the emotional cost attached to that pace. The hidden signs of burnout in high-functioning employees Burnout does not always appear dramatically. Employees may continue producing results externally, but eventually the pot breaks through emotional fatigue, disengagement, declining well-being, reduced productivity, emotional withdrawal, and absenteeism. Often, the warning signs are subtle, building quietly beneath the performance long before anyone notices. Emotional detachment from work Employees experiencing burnout may begin feeling emotionally disconnected from their responsibilities, colleagues, or workplace environment. Tasks that once brought satisfaction now start to feel draining or meaningless. This emotional detachment is sometimes a protective response to chronic stress and exhaustion. So even though employees may continue functioning outwardly, internally, they may feel increasingly numb, disconnected, or unmotivated. Constant exhaustion despite rest Burnout-related exhaustion goes beyond regular tiredness. Employees may feel mentally and emotionally drained even after weekends, vacations, or periods of rest. This happens because burnout affects not only physical energy but also emotional and cognitive functioning. Over time, employees may feel as though they are constantly operating on empty, making recovery feel increasingly difficult. Persistent exhaustion often reduces focus, patience, creativity, and overall workplace effectiveness. Increased irritability and frustration Employees experiencing burnout may become more emotionally reactive, impatient, or frustrated over situations they previously handled well. Small inconveniences may begin to feel overwhelming because the individual’s emotional capacity has been depleted by prolonged stress. This irritability is not always a personality issue. In many cases, it is a sign that the mind is struggling under ongoing pressure and insufficient recovery. Declining motivation and engagement Burnout often reduces an employee’s sense of motivation and emotional investment in their work. Employees who were once proactive and enthusiastic may begin doing only what is necessary to get through the day. This shift can happen gradually, making it difficult for organizations to identify immediately. Without intervention, prolonged disengagement may eventually lead to absenteeism, resignation, or significant declines in performance. Difficulty concentrating and making decisions Chronic stress affects cognitive functioning. Employees experiencing burnout may struggle with concentration, memory, problem-solving, and decision-making. Tasks that once felt manageable are now requiring significantly more mental effort. This mental fatigue can increase mistakes, reduce efficiency, and contribute to further stress as employees attempt to maintain their previous level of performance. The organizational cost of burnout Burnout does not only affect individual employees. It also impacts organizational performance, culture, and long-term sustainability. Research from the World Health Organization estimates that depression and anxiety cost the global economy over $1 trillion annually in lost productivity. Burnout contributes to increased absenteeism, higher employee turnover, reduced productivity, lower morale and engagement, increased workplace errors, and higher healthcare-related costs. In addition, global studies estimate that approximately 15% of working-age adults experience a mental health condition at any given time, including anxiety, depression, chronic stress, or burnout. More specifically, around 5% of adults globally experience depression, while anxiety disorders affect approximately 4% of the population. Workplace stress and burnout also continue to rise across industries. When high-functioning employees become overwhelmed, organizations often lose some of their most valuable thinkers, leaders, and contributors. The long-term cost of replacing overwhelmed and exhausted employees is often far greater than the cost of proactively protecting their well-being. How organizations can reduce workplace burnout Organizations that genuinely value sustainable productivity must move beyond simply rewarding output and begin protecting the people responsible for producing it. Create realistic workload expectations Employees cannot consistently perform at high levels without adequate recovery time and support. Organizations must evaluate whether workloads, staffing levels, and timelines are sustainable. Creating realistic expectations helps employees maintain performance without sacrificing their mental well-being. Normalize conversations about mental wellness When leaders openly discuss stress, burnout, and emotional well-being, it reduces stigma and encourages employees to seek support earlier. Creating psychologically safe environments allows employees to communicate challenges without fear of appearing weak or incapable. Encourage rest and recovery Rest should not be viewed as laziness or lack of ambition. Recovery is necessary for mental clarity, emotional regulation, and sustainable performance. Organizations that encourage healthy boundaries and recovery practices often see stronger long-term engagement and productivity. Train managers to recognize burnout early Managers interact with employees daily and are often in the best position to identify early warning signs. Training leaders to recognize emotional exhaustion, disengagement, and chronic stress allows organizations to intervene before burnout escalates further. Sustainable productivity requires mentally healthy employees Organizations must begin recognizing that constant pressure without adequate mental support is not sustainable. Employees are not machines designed for endless output. They are human beings whose minds require care, recovery, and protection in order to function effectively. The organizations that thrive in the future will not simply be the ones that demand the most from their employees. They will be the organizations that understand how to protect the minds responsible for driving performance, innovation, and growth. Because sustainable productivity is built on mentally healthy people. If your organization is ready to move beyond surface-level wellness and create a workplace culture that truly protects employee wellbeing, now is the time to begin the conversation. Reach out to us at Roar Unleashed and check out our workbook, Burnout: Before and Beyond, which is designed for high achievers, caretakers, and professionals silently struggling with overwhelm and exhaustion. Follow me on Facebook, Instagram, and LinkedIn for more info! Read more from Sosheina Whyte Sosheina Whyte, Associate Counselling Psychologist Sosheina Whyte is an Associate Counselling Psychologist, Educator and Organizational Wellness Consultant. She is the Founder of Roar Unleashed, a creative mental wellness company that merges psychology, expressive arts and innovation to help individuals and organizations build authentic mental wellness cultures. Sosheina is enthusiastic about making mental wellness practical, engaging and results-driven. Through her corporate mental wellness framework and her signature T.A.L.K model, she equips professionals to manage stress, strengthen leadership and cultivate emotional resilience. She champions the idea that the mind is our most valuable asset and it must be fiercely protected.

  • Navigating Burnout Through a Chinese Medicine Perspective

    Written by Cameron Tukapua, Heartfelt Living Coach, Chinese Medicine Practitioner Cameron Tukapua coaches people to heal and transform their lives and relationships through conscious Self-care. Her offerings are based on four decades of clinical and teaching experience. Cameron is the author of 'Heartfelt Living – How to Navigate Change and Healing: Your Ancient Wisdom Guide'. In states of burnout, the body and mind have disconnected. This can be hard to navigate as our capacity to see and feel what’s happening to us is limited. Distressing symptoms such as insomnia, fast racing thoughts, pounding heart, high anxiety, panic attacks, low energy and palpitations can arise. The intensity, manifestation, and duration of burnout will vary according to constitutional and lifestyle factors. In this article, I will explain burnout in the context of the heart and the kidneys not communicating. This occurs when the water of the body is not sufficient to control the fire. When the body's need for rest and replenishment is ignored, we are literally running on empty, the precursor to burnout. Understanding the related body-mind influences of the heart and kidney gives us ways to track and correct our unconscious drivers. Kidney and heart functional areas of influence In Chinese medicine, every internal organ has physical and nonphysical areas of influence. The body and mind functions are understood in relation to the manufacture and governance of the five vital substances of the body, the constitutional essences, the blood, the mind, body fluids, and Qi, the vital energy. To understand the mental, emotional, and spiritual expression of the organs, we look to the ways of nature. Each organ behaves like one of the five elements of nature: water, wood, fire, earth, and metal. In this article, we will focus on the water and fire energies. The kidney organ manufactures and stores the constitutional essences of the body and corresponds to the water element. The related mental quality is will and willpower, the related emotions are fear and fearlessness, and the spiritual virtue is wisdom. The heart organ is the ruler of awareness, which contracts into the mind functions. It corresponds to the fire element, the sun, and light. The related mental quality is clear thinking, the emotions are joy and happiness, and the spiritual virtue is love. The kidney essence formation and function Kidney essence is formed at conception and is the foundation of our inherited, constitutional strength. A strong constitution manifests as stronger physical vitality, which gives us more stamina. In turn, we can more easily will our way through life’s ongoing challenges. Our inherited constitution, like a financial inheritance, is our lifelong store of energy. If our inherited foundation strength is deficient, we will be more inclined to illness, and we may lack drive and willpower. By contrast, if we have abundant reserves of energy, like reserves of funds, we will tend to feel more secure and powerful due to the backup energy. This essence is stored in the kidney and is the prenatal foundation for bone formation and blood production. It also provides the material foundation for the brain. Kidney essence informs fertility, growth, development, maturation, and ageing of the body and the brain. After birth, our inherited kidney essence is supplemented by the nutrients extracted from air, food, and fluids. Our essences are our physical link to the strengths of our ancestors. These are stored in our kidneys and bones, which is why we are shaped like them. The kidney power is like a lifelong battery, which forms the baseline balance of the whole body. Strong kidney essences give us the power to endure challenges and live a long and healthy life. The essences are used up through work, physical activity, sex, pregnancy, and lifestyle. As we age, the battery power and our essence supply reduce. Maintaining reserves of essence by not driving our bodies too hard is wise. A topped-up reservoir helps us to feel safe and secure. If our reserves are low, we will tend to feel unsafe and perhaps fearful. States of burnout always indicate that we have been overusing our reserves. This can easily happen when we are driven by a strong will to follow the plan and go fast, even if the body signs are saying slow down! The heart spirit foundation and light The heart houses the spirit and mind. It is the home of our highest awareness and corresponds to the fire element, which is visible in nature as the sun and light. When our heart spirit is awake, light shines through the mind so we can see. As the spirit is very light, it anchors into the body through the blood. Blood is known as “the root of the mind.” The expanded nature of awareness contracts into the mind to focus on what is happening now. As concentration is a downward, nonphysical energy, it needs blood to hold it steady. This is easy to relate to when we think about how different foods can affect our thinking. In Chinese medicine, well-nourished blood is essential for mental health and emotional harmony. The heart is our doorway to love, and its associated emotions are joy and happiness. Sharing our love through simple acts of kindness, generosity, gratitude, and compassion cultivates happiness. A lightness of being and happiness are natural to the heart. The heart is the home of our highest consciousness, which is like a divine light. When our heart light is turned on, we are aware of what we feel inside us, our body sensations, thoughts, and emotions. Guided by the light, we know how to think clearly and act in ways aligned with a higher awareness. If the light goes out, we can feel numb inside. In this low-energy state, our light feels as if it has burned out, like a blown fuse. It is a very strange, disorientating, and disconnected feeling. The heart and the kidney are not communicating In a healthy state, the heart and kidneys maintain the baseline balance for mind and body wellbeing. When we look after our kidneys, which rule our strength and energy, and the heart, which rules the mind, we feel calm, clear, aware, and settled. In elemental terms, this is water controlling fire and fire warming water. In states of burnout, the body, ruled by the kidney, and the mind, ruled by the heart, separate. Long-term stress in the body causes us to feel unsettled and overstimulated, like a car with the accelerator on high. Over time, this will deplete the kidney essences, which then fail to calm and cool the heart. In Western medical language, in hyperactive states, the body functions are dominated by the sympathetic nervous system, which rules the fight, flight, and freeze responses. In high-stress states, our mental attention is externally focused. All systems are on high alert, searching for the next possible threat. At this stage, insight, ruled by the heart in the Chinese medical view, vanishes, as the body’s defence systems overrule all other functions. In burnout situations, people tend to withdraw from those close to them as their alarm systems take all their attention. In elemental terms, the water element governs the kidneys, our baseline energy, and fear. Imagined or real threats to survival activate our fears and put us on high alert. If our energy levels are low, our fears can assume unreasonable proportions. This is a bit like when a river’s water level is low, a boulder in the river can completely dam the natural flow. In elemental terms, the fire element, which rules the heart, responds quickly to external stimulation. It has a naturally expansive energy, seen in the vitality, joy, and fast-changing emotions of young children. In balance, it helps us stay light, happy, and free. In a burnout state, fire can flare up and rage out of control, overstimulating mental and emotional functions. In imbalanced states, we can act in very immature ways. When fire is out of balance, a love of overexcitement may become a tendency. These people will tend to thrive on drama and trauma. As excitement is a fun-based emotion, people in these states can more easily lose control of their life situations without themselves or others noticing there is a problem. In Chinese medicine, excessive joy is seen as a disharmony in the same way as too much grief and sadness are problems. Symptoms and signs of heart and kidney imbalance Out-of-control fire overstimulates mental functions. As the mind and thoughts speed up, they get scattered. We can observe this in people’s speech and communications. Speech and the ability to say what we mean are a reflection of healthy heart function. Losing words, speaking too fast, and not making sense are signs of disturbed heart function. When the mind is scattered, we may become overexcited and manic. The classic signs of this are fast racing thoughts and constant talking. Short-term overthinking can be managed with rest and good food, which nourishes the blood to anchor the mind. When established longer term, fast racing thinking can create long-standing mental health problems such as anxiety, overthinking, and depression, sinking thinking. If the blood level becomes affected, we can experience palpitations, insomnia, and waking during the night. When the body does not settle, we may feel jumpy and easily startled. These symptoms can be caused by deficient blood failing to anchor the mind. From a Chinese medical point of view, blood deficiency is a common factor in emotional and mental instability and burnout progression. Note: As this is a Chinese medical disease pattern, the deficiency may not show on a Western medicine blood test. Causes of blood deficiency include trauma and hemorrhage, heavy menstrual bleeding, postpartum blood loss, long-term anxiety and worry, overexercise with insufficient nutrition, overworking the physical body, and long-term emotional and mental stress. All of these can deplete the blood stores. Blood deficiency can also come from a constitutional deficiency of the kidney essences, poor diet, or a weak digestive system failing to extract nutrients required for adequate blood production. When the kidney essences are weak, we may experience any of the following: tiredness, occipital headaches and tension in the spine, poor memory, tinnitus, deafness, soreness of the lower back, feeling heat in the afternoon, night sweats, and reduced drive and confidence. High blood pressure and increased heart rate can also manifest. As water seeks the lowest level, when water is out of balance, people can often indulge in escapism. Harmful habits such as addictions, thrill seeking, denial, avoidance, and indulgence can become normal behaviour for someone with a water imbalance. The healthy emotion of water is fear, which helps us to hold back from danger. The other end of the spectrum is fearlessness. In this state, people’s lives can spiral out of control without them seeing the signs. The chemical explanation: Western medicine In chemical terms, the adrenal glands, which sit on top of the kidneys, pump out adrenaline, which is our fight or flight hormone. Short-term adrenaline surges are helpful to give us bursts of energy to avoid danger. Long-term overactivity of the stress hormones depletes the adrenal glands, leading to low energy and tiredness. Chronic body stress and high adrenaline levels also activate high cortisol production, our body’s natural painkiller. When cortisol levels are high, the sympathetic nervous system can be in a state of freeze, where we no longer feel our distress. Long-term, high cortisol levels suppress our immune system, making us vulnerable to infections and inflammatory conditions, for example, irritable bowel syndrome and urinary tract infections. If we stay in fight, flight, and freeze for too long, and the feeling of danger is well established inside us, the body’s natural balancing mechanisms are overwhelmed, making us feel “tired but wired.” To keep going, we reach for stimulants like coffee, alcohol, high-intensity workouts, and cocaine. This upregulated feedback loop is very addictive and hard to get off. Brain health support In Chinese medicine, the brain is ruled by the kidney essences and belongs to the water element. In states of burnout, the essences have burned up. Every day ways to support brain health are drinking water, staying hydrated, resting from mental activity, quality sleep, time for silence, and extended times in nature. Resting from constant thinking, stimulation, and concentration supports the brain in slowing down and resetting itself. Rest and sleep are essential for brain health. Like a reflection on a calm lake, stillness supports us in clearing our minds. Autism and ADHD Natural Health specialist, Tina Horrell, published an excellent article on the glymphatic system, which is the brain’s nocturnal cleansing system. She explains how, overnight, the brain has a natural detoxifying and cleansing process which helps to maintain mental health and balance by filtering waste. The practice of Qigong is one of the eight limbs of Chinese medicine. It offers simple ways for restoring healthy brain function by mastering the body’s energy. Qigong helps connect the different regions of the brain, which includes switching off the alarm signals of the ‘animal brain’, the limbic system, by turning on the cerebrum, the higher mind. This part of the brain governs our sensory and spatial awareness. Qigong helps to rehabilitate the brain by restoring conscious control of our sensory awareness. The practice of Qigong unites the Heart-mind as awareness and the brain. It activates the fine-tuning of the body movements governed by the occipital lobe and cerebellum. Qigong assists in restoring healthy coordination, posture, and balance, which tends to diminish with age. Qigong calms the mind, regulates emotions, and down-regulates the activation of the limbic system, which is easily triggered by trauma, remembered and real. Ways to navigate burnout Reflect on the warning signs you have been receiving and ignoring by reviewing the signs and symptoms in this article. If needed, get objective feedback from trusted friends/elders/professionals to help you track your position. Check out my individual coaching package and join me for a wellbeing review and reset your life. Be real about your situation. In states of burnout, when our nervous systems are up-regulated, we are operating in survival mode and acting in ways that meet immediate needs. This can cause long-term damage to our health and relationships. Being safe is critical, not just for ourselves, but for those around us as well. Consider the question “who else is affected by your burnout? " and what are the impacts? Boundaries burnout happens when we have been driving our bodies hard and overextending our energies. The kidney essences have been used up, the water cooling function stops working, and the heart fire blazes out of control. In human terms, fire rules the heart and relationships. When the heart is out of balance, we tend to seek lots of external stimulation, fires need fuel. To cool our inner fire, it is helpful to withdraw from social engagement for a slow, quiet time to rest and restore. Long-lasting fires are maintained by slow-burning embers. Trust your body knows how to heal itself. To restore the natural balance of fire and water, reduce stimulation and boost your resting times. Examples: Limit too much mental stimulation. Go on retreat, take time in nature, and plan for an extended period of minimum responsibilities. Commit to body-centered practices, like Qigong, walking outdoors, climbing hills, and Yoga. Notice how your body is very willing to forgive when it receives the help it needs. Open up to your higher awareness. Surrender to your inner knowing. Consider how a burnout may be steering you towards a new life more aligned with deeper needs. Review your situation from a holistic point of view and look for the wisdom in your wound. Allow time for burnout recovery and actively tend to refreshing and rejuvenating your energies. Join my Nourishing Roots Masterclass, a 4-step journey for healing and renewal. Follow me on Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn, and visit my website for more info! Read more from Cameron Tukapua Cameron Tukapua, Heartfelt Living Coach, Chinese Medicine Practitioner Cameron Tukapua is a wellbeing coach who shares ancient wisdom teachings from Chinese Medicine, along with Qigong, Yoga, and Meditation practices. She helps people align the head and heart. Cameron has written a book called ‘Heartfelt Living,’ and her work has been featured in Thrive Global. She offers Individual coaching, online study pathways, and face-to-face wellbeing retreats.

  • Dr. Jane Goodall and What Apes Teach Us About Grief, Sound and Connection

    Written by Kenneth J. Breniman, Grief Guide & Mindfully Mortal Therapist Ken Breniman is a queer author, licensed clinical social worker, yoga therapist, and thanatologist guiding fellow mindful mortals at the threshold of life, death, devotion, and (r)evolution. His work blends neuroscience, primatology, Celtic wisdom, and psychedelic integration to invite braver ways of being human. In this reflective field report, Ken Breniman shares his encounters with orangutans and chimpanzees through sound, grief, curiosity, and stillness. The article invites readers to reconsider intelligence, connection, and what it means to listen across species. “What you do makes a difference, and you have to decide what kind of difference you want to make.” – Dr. Goodall Dr. Jane Goodall, thank you for your famous last words. These ancestral words followed me into the rainforest. They echoed through the humidity of Borneo while I cleaned orangutan night dens, hauled fruit through the mud, and learned that rainforest heat can turn a human body into a walking salt lick. I questioned whether a queer grief therapist and singing bowl practitioner had any business wandering into the emotionally complex world of captive ape care. Yet there I was at the Matang Wildlife Centre for a month of volunteer service through Project Borneo. Singing bowls in hand.Heart full of planetary grief, curiosity, and something harder to name.Trying to listen more than perform. This is my qualitative field report. Not an academic paper. Not definitive science. Certainly not spiritual propaganda. Just an honest field report from a wobbly human animal attempting to reconnect with our evolutionary relatives through vibration, attention, grief, curiosity, and sound. Observation one: Aman and the possibility of curiosity At the wildlife center, there was an alpha male orangutan named Aman. Massive. Quiet. Intentional. If you have never looked into the eyes of an orangutan, it is difficult to explain the experience without sounding slightly unhinged. Extended eye contact is generally considered inappropriate in ape encounters, yet they do not merely look at you. They regard you with a presence that commands your respect. One sentient being evaluating another across some ancient evolutionary bridge. One afternoon during my lunch break, I introduced my metal singing bowls to the orangutans resting in their outdoor enclosures. I remained at a respectful distance on an observation deck above. There is an ethical tension anytime humans introduce enrichment into captive or rehabilitative animal spaces. I did not want to anthropomorphize, though, as an animistically inclined empath, I cannot promise I always succeed. I did not want to force interaction. Only offer the possibility of it. So I simply played. Softly and intentionally. Aman approached and stayed. Despite the oppressive jungle heat, he sat calmly beneath the observation deck during these daily sound baths. Over time, I observed what appeared to be deep attentiveness. Not hyperarousal. Not distress. Not food-seeking behavior. Stillness. Curiosity. Tranquility. This became our shared lunch-break ritual. I played from above while Aman sat below in the soft grass. Then something stranger happened. On my last day of service, I gifted Aman a copy of my book, Subversive Acts of Humanity. He touched the pages gently. Flipped through them slowly. Brought parts of the book toward his mouth in the investigative manner orangutans often use with unfamiliar objects. He paused repeatedly as if contemplating texture, scent, image, or perhaps intention itself. No, I am not claiming an orangutan read my book. But I am saying this: something relational occurred. Animism is the worldview that consciousness and spirit permeate the living world. This belief system is often dismissed as primitive thinking. Yet many Indigenous cultures have maintained deeply relational understandings of animals, forests, vibration, and interconnectedness for thousands of years. In Borneo, the forest spirit is called The Rimba. I believe both Aman and I were held by The Rimba during this unusual cross-cultural exchange. Meanwhile, modern industrial humans often struggle to sit silently with one another for even three minutes without checking our phones. What if “primitive” is simply a word misused to deny forms of advanced intelligence we no longer understand? Perhaps this transspecies encounter was less about a human standing above while a captive primate sat below, and more about two relatives pausing long enough to regard the strange architecture of our paws, tools, and existence. Might we need to evolve our definition of intelligence, and perhaps more importantly, what advanced intelligence actually looks like? What forms of wisdom have we ignored simply because they do not speak our language? Perhaps the real question is not whether Aman understood my book. Perhaps the question is whether we still understand the living world well enough to recognize interbeing when it appears before us. Perhaps awe itself is becoming endangered within our own species. Observation two: Josephine & the sound of grief A month later, I was invited to bring my singing bowls to a chimpanzee sanctuary. This is where I met Josephine, an older female resident living with a dozen other retirees. Aging. Watchful. Socially attuned. Grieving. The staff shared that she had recently lost one of her closest companions and had been exhibiting social withdrawal after death hit close to home. On the day of the visit, staff prepared for possible power outages due to facilities upgrades taking place at the sanctuary. Lights flickered. The chimpanzee community itself appeared excited and preoccupied. Some sought reassurance from the alpha male. Others vocalized loudly. The troop moved back and forth between their indoor and outdoor spaces, trying to make sense of what was happening. In the midst of all of this, I was invited to introduce a few singing bowls to Josephine and her cohort. After a few dings and rings of the bowls, Josephine did something extraordinary. She sat with the sound bath for nearly twenty uninterrupted minutes. While machinery noise surrounded us and environmental distractions captivated the others, Josephine oriented herself toward the bowls. At several points, she attempted to move closer. She clapped her hands when I stopped playing as if asking for an encore. She looked back toward her chimp community, then toward me, then directly into my eyes. Language fails me here. As a licensed grief therapist and certified death doula, I frequently sit with dying and grieving humans. I have witnessed people orient toward rhythm, touch, music, prayer, humming, and vibration during states of fear, overwhelm, sorrow, and transition. Josephine had recently said goodbye to a friend. While I cannot know what Josephine was experiencing internally, I found the moment personally moving. She appeared to remain attentive to the sound bath for an extended period, even as other activity was happening nearby. The bowls seemed to offer this bereft ape a kind of anchor amid environmental disruption. Now, let me be careful here, I am not arguing that singing bowls “heal” anything. That would be an irresponsible overstatement. But I am proposing something worth exploring. Might some animals, including all of us great apes, naturally orient toward rhythm or sound when given the opportunity? Maybe something deeply instinctual still moves through all of us. That question feels less absurd the more time I spend observing both ape kin and fellow sapiens. Because humans are not apart from the living world. We are a part of it, a remarkably anxious troop of sapiens reliant on Wi-Fi and still trying to heal old wounds. Observation three: Grandpa Johnny & the grace of aging masculinity Then, during another sound bath with a small chimpanzee troop in a forested enclosure, came an unexpected transspecies exchange with Grandpa Johnny. Through plexiglass and fencing, I watched the group gather to enjoy snacks. They were definitely more interested in nourishing nibbles than in what the humans were doing while setting up the bowls. Within the group was one elderly male who remained reserved and unassuming. Sporting a graying beard and balding torso like an aging champion content with slipping quietly into retirement, he seemed more comfortable blending into the crowd during the somewhat anticlimactic final offering of the day. Initially, the chimpanzees appeared far more interested in snacks and each other than in us humans or the bowls themselves. Honestly, I found this reassuring. Ape sanctuaries around the world hope to provide lives rooted in dignity, choice, social connection, and as much healthy distance from human interference as possible. Distance and discernment matter. But after the social excitement faded, the snacks were enjoyed, and the others disappeared back into their air-conditioned bedrooms. Johnny returned. Alone. He leaned quietly toward the vibrations. Observed carefully. Sat with the resonance. Then, in one of the most hilariously ape moments imaginable, he displayed his genitalia, nodded toward me, and lingered there with unmistakable presence. Chimpanzees are not Victorian gentlemen. Natural display behaviors can signify many things: dominance, comfort, curiosity, social signaling, confidence, vulnerability, or simply chimpanzees being chimpanzees. Honestly, as a longtime naked yoga instructor, the display itself did not surprise me. It was the return that stayed with me. Johnny came back after the novelty faded. After the audience had disappeared. After the snacks lost their power. At one point, Johnny made a soft trilling sound with his lips. This breathy chimpanzee vocalization is often associated with grooming, comfort, curiosity, or relaxed social connection. Hearing Johnny trill softly through the plexiglass and over the bowls made his quiet return feel even less accidental. Something about the bowl’s vibration mattered enough for him to reengage privately. Suddenly, my entire hypothesis clarified itself: Vibrations travel. Through fences and plexiglass. Through generators and generations. Through species and grief. Through aging bodies and time itself. Humans already instinctively use vibration therapeutically through lullabies, chanting, drumming, humming, prayer, and co-regulation through voice and touch. Long before we had language, we had rhythm. Perhaps primal sound was medicine long before language. Some scientists even wonder if birdsong helped sing human language into existence. The real question is not about singing bowls The deeper question underneath all of this is not whether apes “like” sound baths. What happens when humans stop relating to apes as spectacles, commodities, entertainment, or biological resources? What if we approached them instead as fellow sentient beings navigating captivity, stress, adaptation, aging, grief, and uncertainty? Not identical to us. Not mystical furry gurus. Not exotic pets meant to soothe our longing for connection. What if we approached every ape, including ourselves, as kin? Perhaps the greatest tragedy of modern humanity is not that we lost connection to apes. Perhaps we lost connection to our own animality. We continue racing toward becoming productivity-obsessed mammals trapped inside fluorescent boxes, algorithmic outrage cycles, and endless digital stimulation. Many humans now live in a near-constant state of hyperactivation while pretending this is normal civilization. Meanwhile, a lone chimpanzee sat through human-made machinery noise and instinctively oriented toward resonance instead of chaos. There is probably a lesson there. A love song across species These experiences moved me enough that I eventually turned them into a musical piece titled Simian Sound Bath: A Transpecies Love Song. The song weaves together the stories of King Aman, Auntie Josephine, and Grandpa Johnny into a reflection on grief, vibration, animism, primate consciousness, and interdependence. It ends with three symbolic bowl rings: One for who you were at birth One for who you are right now One for who you become when you take your final breath I will be releasing a musical video soon, along with a related ongoing project: Primates, Privilege & Possibility. Because some ideas are too strange for academic language alone. Sometimes song and sound can transcend borders faster than an argument. Dr. Jane Goodall & y’all, this is my first field report I witnessed an alpha orangutan choosing stillness during regular singing bowl sound baths, even in oppressive heat. I witnessed a grieving chimpanzee choose resonance over reacting to environmental disruption. I witnessed an elder male chimp privately returning for vibration after social stimulation faded. None of this conclusively proves anything. But perhaps not everything meaningful begins with proof. Perhaps some things begin with attention. Maybe Jane Goodall’s greatest lesson to humanity was never really just about apes. Maybe it was about learning how to listen again. Perhaps evolution is not about becoming something more, but becoming humane enough to listen to the hum that was there all along. Follow me on Facebook, LinkedIn, and visit my website for more info! Read more from Kenneth J. Breniman Kenneth J. Breniman, Grief Guide & Mindfully Mortal Therapist Ken Breniman is a queer author, licensed clinical social worker, certified yoga therapist, and thanatologist whose work lives at the intersection of mortality, meaning, and transformation. Drawing from neuroscience, primatology, Celtic wisdom, and psychedelic integration, he challenges the myth of human exceptionalism while honoring the precious role each of us plays in the ongoing evolution of our species. Ken is the author of a three-body solution and subversive acts of humanity, and the creator of the See-Soul children’s grief literacy series. Through writing, teaching, and ritual-informed practice, he guides mindful mortals toward deeper humility, resilience, and collective becoming.

  • Why Patience is the Most Underrated Asset in Brand Building

    Written by Jonathan Barca, Founder and Executive Director Jonathan Barca is an independent brand founder and executive director focused on building long-term wholesale infrastructure and culture-led business ecosystems. His work explores the intersection of fashion, creativity, and sustainable brand development. Modern brand culture often rewards visibility over stability. Founders are encouraged to move faster, release more frequently, and remain constantly present within the attention economy. Growth is measured publicly and compared instantly. In that environment, patience can appear passive or even uncompetitive. Yet many of the most enduring brands are not built through urgency. They are built through consistency over long periods of time. Patience is rarely discussed as a strategic asset because its effects are difficult to measure in the short term. It does not generate immediate headlines or rapid spikes in visibility. Instead, it strengthens the foundations beneath a brand slowly and quietly, often without recognition until much later. In creative industries, especially, patience is what allows identity to mature rather than fragment under pressure. The pressure to accelerate One of the defining characteristics of the current digital landscape is compression. Trends move faster, audiences consume more content, and brands are expected to respond almost instantly to cultural shifts. For emerging founders, this creates a constant sense of urgency. There is pressure to expand product ranges quickly, maintain continuous online visibility, and appear larger than the business may realistically be. The market often rewards momentum publicly, even when that momentum is structurally unstable. As a result, many brands begin operating reactively. Decisions become driven by external pressure rather than internal clarity. Collections are released before systems are ready. Partnerships are pursued before alignment exists. Communication becomes focused on maintaining attention instead of reinforcing identity. Over time, this pace can weaken the very foundations a brand depends on. Related article: The Long Game Patience creates clarity Patience allows brands to make decisions from a position of understanding rather than urgency. When growth is approached gradually, there is more space to refine operations, strengthen relationships, and understand what genuinely resonates with people over time. Instead of constantly shifting direction in response to short-term feedback, brands can develop a more stable sense of identity. This stability becomes increasingly valuable as markets become more saturated. Consumers are exposed to thousands of visual signals daily. Brands that communicate with consistency and restraint often become more memorable than those constantly reinventing themselves. Patience also improves decision-making internally. Founders become less reactive and more intentional. They begin to recognise that not every opportunity needs to be pursued immediately, and that long-term alignment is often more valuable than short-term exposure. Trust compounds slowly Trust is one of the most important forms of capital a brand can build, yet it develops gradually. Retailers, manufacturing partners, collaborators, and customers all observe consistency over time before forming confidence in a business. Reliability cannot be declared. It has to be demonstrated repeatedly through actions, communication, and follow-through. Brands that approach growth patiently often develop stronger relationships because expectations remain realistic and sustainable. Instead of overextending themselves to create rapid expansion, they build operational rhythms that can be maintained consistently. Through my work with LML Clothing by Halfwait, I’ve seen how valuable patience becomes when building long-term partnerships. Sustainable growth rarely comes from forcing momentum. It comes from strengthening trust gradually and allowing relationships to evolve naturally over time. That process may appear slower externally, but it often creates far greater stability internally. Related article: Trust as Infrastructure Patience protects creative identity One of the less discussed benefits of patience is its effect on creativity itself. Creative identity becomes diluted when brands feel pressured to constantly produce for visibility. In those environments, work can begin to feel reactive rather than intentional. The focus shifts from building meaning to maintaining attention. Patience allows creative work to evolve more naturally. Ideas can be refined instead of rushed. Collections can be edited more carefully. Communication can become more thoughtful and coherent. This restraint often creates a stronger long-term identity because the brand is no longer reacting to every movement within the market. It begins operating according to its own rhythm. In many ways, patience acts as a form of creative protection. Longevity requires emotional discipline Patience is not simply about waiting. It requires emotional discipline. There will always be moments where comparison creates pressure. Other brands may appear to move faster, scale quicker, or receive more immediate recognition. In highly visible industries, it becomes easy to mistake attention for permanence. However, long-term brand building requires a different perspective. It requires founders to think in years rather than weeks and to understand that meaningful infrastructure cannot be built instantly. Some of the most important developments inside a business happen quietly. Systems improve. Relationships deepen. Operational confidence strengthens. These changes rarely appear publicly in dramatic ways, but they are often what determine whether a brand survives long enough to mature. Patience allows those layers to form properly. Related article: The Discipline Advantage The future may belong to slower brands As consumers become more conscious of quality, transparency, and overconsumption, there is growing evidence that slower, more intentional brands may become increasingly relevant. People are beginning to value consistency over constant novelty. They are paying closer attention to how products are made, how companies communicate, and whether brands behave with authenticity rather than performance. In that environment, patience stops looking passive. It begins to look strategic. Brands that grow carefully often develop stronger operational foundations, clearer identities, and deeper trust with their audiences. They are not built to dominate a single moment. They are built to remain relevant across many years. Ultimately, patience may be underrated because its rewards arrive gradually. But in brand building, gradual progress is often what creates lasting significance. The strongest brands are rarely the fastest-moving. More often, they are the ones disciplined enough to keep building long after the noise has passed. Follow me on Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn, and visit my website for more info! Read more from Jonathan Barca Jonathan Barca, Founder and Executive Director Jonathan Barca is an independent brand founder and executive director focused on building long-term wholesale infrastructure and culture-led business ecosystems. He is the founder of LML Clothing by Halfwait, an international fashion label operating through a direct-to-retail model. His work explores sustainable brand development, operational clarity, and creative-led business strategy. Through his writing, Jonathan shares insights on building resilient independent brands in a global market.

  • Italy Buycations Let You Experience First, Invest Second Through Slow and Regenerative Travel

    Written by Tonia Kisliakov, CEO/ Director of Gateway Travel We connect travellers with trusted destination specialists and DMCs to create tailored travel experiences designed with intention, pace, and wellbeing in mind. Imagine travelling through Italy, wandering medieval villages, tasting local cuisine, exploring Renaissance towns, and simultaneously discovering property investment opportunities. That is the concept behind Buycations: small, curated group journeys that blend leisure, lifestyle, cultural immersion, and property exploration. Buying a home sight unseen is risky. Without experiencing the region, its lifestyle, and the local community, it is easy to make mistakes that could cost time, money, and confidence. Buycations were designed to let you experience first, invest second, and travel with complete confidence. Why Italy Buycations exist Modern travellers seek experiences that combine exploration, comfort, and opportunity. Buycations offer: Experience before purchase: Fall in love with the region and lifestyle before committing. Inspect and invest: View properties firsthand with expert guidance. Travel confidently: Enjoy small groups, curated itineraries, and personalised support. Income opportunities: Earn commissions by gathering small groups while exploring Italy. By blending culture, lifestyle, and property knowledge, Buycations create journeys that are both enjoyable and financially informed. Why regenerative and slow travel matter Modern luxury travel is shifting away from rushed itineraries and mass tourism toward more meaningful, regenerative experiences. Italy Buycations embrace the principles of slow travel by encouraging travellers to spend more time in fewer destinations, connect with local communities, and experience regional culture more authentically. Rather than simply passing through destinations, travellers engage with Tuscia’s lifestyle, traditions, cuisine, artisans, vineyards, and historic villages in a more thoughtful and immersive way. This creates a deeper appreciation of the region while supporting local businesses and communities. Regenerative travel also encourages responsible tourism by promoting longer stays with deeper cultural connection, support for regional economies and family-owned businesses, reduced pressure from fast-paced tourism, authentic local experiences over overcrowded tourist routes, and meaningful engagement with culture, heritage, and lifestyle. For travellers considering property investment or relocation, slow travel provides valuable real-world insight into whether a destination genuinely aligns with their long-term lifestyle goals. The Tuscia experience Our Buycations feature the enchanting Tuscia region, north of Rome, known for its medieval villages, Renaissance treasures, and rolling countryside. Highlights include: Viterbo: A medieval city with thermal baths, piazzas, and authentic Italian charm Civita di Bagnoregio: A hilltop village accessible by a scenic footbridge, perfect for lifestyle exploration Orvieto & surrounding villages: Renaissance architecture, artisan workshops, and local markets Countryside retreats: Olive groves, vineyards, and lakeside walks that combine relaxation with immersive culture Exploring Tuscia lets travellers understand the lifestyle and environment, ensuring any property decisions are informed and aligned with personal goals. Wellness, lifestyle, and meaningful travel The Tuscia region naturally combines lifestyle exploration with wellness and balance. From thermal baths in Viterbo to countryside walks, lakeside retreats, olive groves, vineyards, and locally sourced cuisine, the experience encourages travellers to slow down, reconnect, and travel more mindfully. Italy Buycations are designed not only for property exploration but also for lifestyle enrichment and cultural immersion. Travellers can experience daily life at a relaxed pace while enjoying carefully curated travel planning and authentic regional experiences. This style of travel appeals to modern travellers seeking wellness-focused experiences, digital detox and slower living, authentic food and wine culture, sustainable and meaningful travel, lifestyle-led property exploration, and smaller, boutique-style group journeys. How Italy Buycations work 1. Inspect and buy View homes, villas, and apartments with local developers and property specialists Learn about pricing, rental potential, and regulations All enquiries by email only: info@gatewaytravel.com.au 2. Inspect and meet developers Ideal for those not ready to buy but who want insight Gain knowledge of local markets, rental yields, and property trends Why personalised travel support and insider tips matter Travel today is more than visiting destinations; it is about curated experiences, comfort, and meaningful engagement. Carefully planned itineraries ensure every Buycation is seamless, enriching, and well organised. This includes personalised itineraries tailored to interests and pace, access to authentic local experiences and regional insights, guidance on timing, destinations, and hidden gems, coordination of accommodation, transport, and experiences, and flexible travel design around lifestyle and comfort. This approach allows travellers to focus on cultural discovery, lifestyle exploration, and property inspection without stress. Boutique curated travel experiences Italy Buycations are intentionally designed as small group journeys rather than mass market tours. Every itinerary is carefully curated to combine comfort, cultural immersion, flexibility, and personal attention. This approach includes tailored itineraries, private local experiences and insights, boutique accommodation, flexible pacing, personalised travel planning, and access to authentic regional experiences beyond traditional tourism. This transforms travel into a more immersive and enriching lifestyle experience while allowing travellers to explore property opportunities in a relaxed and informed way. Insider travel tips for maximum enjoyment Even with concierge support, adopting insider habits enhances every journey: Prioritise quality over quantity: Fewer locations, deeper experiences Slow travel: Observe, connect, and engage fully with each place Flexibility: Leave space for spontaneous discoveries Mindful engagement: Taste, touch, hear, and feel the local culture Reflect & journal: Capture insights and memories, creating lasting value Applied to Buycations, these tips help travellers not only inspect properties intelligently but also immerse in Tuscia’s lifestyle, turning every moment into a learning and leisure opportunity. Benefits of Italy Buycations Cultural immersion: Explore markets, villages, festivals, and artisanal workshops while experiencing authentic Italian life Financial insight: Receive guidance on property investment, rental returns, and legal considerations Tailored travel experience: Boutique hotels, private tours, curated itineraries, and concierge support Community & networking: Small groups foster connections with like-minded travellers Income potential: Group leaders earn commissions, adding financial benefit to personal travel Whether exploring Tuscia’s hilltop villages, Renaissance towns, or lakeside retreats, Buycations let travellers experience, inspect, and earn while travelling safely, thoughtfully, and memorably. How to join All enquiries and bookings for Italy Buycations are handled by email only to ensure personalised guidance and curated travel planning. Discover Tuscia, explore property opportunities, and experience Italy through a slower, more meaningful way of travel. Follow me on Instagram, LinkedIn, Youtube and visit my website for more info! Read more from Tonia Kisliakov Tonia Kisliakov, CEO/ Director of Gateway Travel Tonia Kisliakov is the Founder and Director of Gateway Travel Australia, a Sydney-based travel agency specialising in luxury, bespoke, and personalised travel experiences across Australia and worldwide. With decades of industry experience, Tonia is recognised for her commitment to ethical practice, long-term client relationships, and meticulous attention to detail. She has built Gateway Travel into a trusted brand serving discerning travellers, families, and corporate clients. Her business philosophy centres on professionalism, financial discipline, supplier excellence, and client advocacy. Tonia is known for providing hands-on guidance throughout every stage of travel planning and for protecting her clients’ interests during disruptions and emergencies. Gateway Travel maintains a strong reputation through consistent service delivery and positive client feedback on independent review platforms.

  • Why Your Screen Might Be the Most Dangerous Thing in Your Business

    Written by Paul Adamson, Trusted Advisor to Founders & Leadership Teams Under Pressure Paul Adamson is a global keynote speaker and leadership strategist who helps organisations navigate change, build resilient teams, and create breakthrough performance. His work blends real-world experience from being a professional sailor and pivoting into the business world. Let me tell you a story. About twelve years ago, at around three in the morning, somewhere off the coast of Fiji, I made a decision that I believe saved a fleet of yachts from the reef. Not because of technology. Not because of data. But because I chose to look up. We had been sailing through the night on board Lush, our 90-foot Oyster 885 in the Oyster World Rally, and as we approached Fiji, the coastline was invisible in the dark. The charts we were using, our best available navigation data at the time, were based on surveys carried out in Captain Cook’s era. That was around 250 years ago. Hand-drawn. Lithograph coastlines. Not exactly GPS-grade accuracy. The smart call was simple, do not go in blind. Do not try to thread a gap in a coral reef, in the dark, on the strength of data you cannot verify. We dropped the sails off the coast and waited for dawn. When the dawn broke, I spotted it immediately. A transit. Two beacons on the coastline, perfectly aligned. In navigation, a transit is one of the oldest, most reliable tools available. When the two marks line up, you know you are on the right track. When they drift apart, you are off. Simple. Clear. Visible. You just have to look for it. There was one problem. The electronic chart plotter on board, our modern screen, our data, was placing Lush roughly one and a half miles down the coast from where we actually were. The screen was wrong. Our eyes were right. I made the call. Trust the transit. Trust what I could see. We started making our way through the gap in the reef, which, for context, was about a hundred feet wide. Lush herself was ninety feet long. By this point, the rest of the Oyster World Rally fleet had started arriving. One by one, they lined up. Not behind us. Behind each other. Following what they could see on their screens. Heading for a transit that did not exist in reality, heading, in fact, straight toward the reef. I got on the radio. Nothing. Nobody was listening. We launched the RIB off the bow and sent our engineer racing across to intercept them. When he reached the lead yacht, he was met with the response I have heard in countless boardrooms since, “No, no. You are wrong. We can see it on the screen. The screen is right.” Until the yacht touched the reef. The lesson that matters for your business I tell this story often, and every time I do, someone in the room recognises it. Not the reef or the yacht. But the dynamic. The moment where everyone is looking at the screen, trusting the data, and nobody has looked up to check whether it is actually pointing toward the outcome. That is one of the most common and costly patterns I see in founder-led businesses today. We are all conditioned to trust the screen. The CRM data. The dashboard. The spreadsheet. The market report. I am not saying the data does not matter, it absolutely does. But data tells you what has happened. It does not always tell you where you are going, or whether the direction you are heading is the right one. The transit is your outcome. The first question every leader should be able to answer, clearly, specifically, without hesitation, is, "What is the outcome we are actually trying to reach?" Not the activity. Not the metrics. The outcome. Outcome clarity is the most powerful navigation tool you have When I work with founders and senior teams, I often find that the problem is not a shortage of data. It is a shortage of outcome clarity. People are busy. Teams are working hard. There is movement everywhere. But nobody has drawn a clear line between that movement and the actual destination. On a yacht, that gap gets you onto a reef. In a business, it costs you months of effort pointed in the wrong direction. It costs you distributor relationships, market opportunities, and team energy spent on activity that looks productive but is not taking you anywhere meaningful. The question I ask is always the same, "Is this going to deliver the outcome?" Not “does it feel like progress?” Not “does it look good on the dashboard?” Does it deliver the specific, clear, measurable outcome you have decided matters? If the honest answer is no, then no matter how convincing the data looks on the screen, you are lining up with the wrong transit. Sometimes you have to leave the boat There is another part of this story I want to draw your attention to. When the radio calls did not work, we did not shrug and sail on through the reef ourselves. We launched the RIB. We went to where the problem was. That matters. One of the patterns I see most often in leadership is the tendency to manage from a distance. To send the message, copy the team, flag it in the meeting, and then assume the job is done. But when the stakes are real and the direction is wrong, sometimes the most important thing a leader can do is go directly to where the problem is. Get off the boat. Get in the RIB. Make contact. Not to take over. Not to micromanage. But to make sure the message has landed, and to be physically present in the moment that requires clarity. You are either on your way or in your way I heard a quote recently that stopped me in my tracks, “You are either on your way or in your way.” It is short, but it is sharp. Because often, the thing between a founder and a clear outcome is not the market. It is not the team. It is not even the competition. It is the accumulated noise of data, opinion, and distraction that has slowly replaced the original signal. The transit is still there. The outcome is still clear. But somewhere along the way, we started looking at the screen instead. So here is what I would ask you to sit with this week, "So you know your outcome?" Not the activities you are doing in pursuit of it. The actual, specific, measurable thing you are heading for. When you look up from the screen and out toward the horizon, is everything you are doing genuinely taking you toward it? Because the reef does not care how confident you were in your data. It only cares where you were pointing. Follow me on Instagram, LinkedIn, and visit my website for more info! Read more from Paul Adamson Paul Adamson, Trusted Advisor to Founders & Leadership Teams Under Pressure Paul Adamson is an international keynote speaker and leadership strategist known for helping organisations navigate change, build resilient teams, and unlock high-performance cultures. His journey began at sea, where he skippered a 27,000-mile global circumnavigation before leading the commercial turnaround of Oyster Yachts from administration to a £185M order book. Paul’s work blends high-stakes decision-making with practical leadership tools that drive real-world results. A cancer survivor, he speaks powerfully about resilience, purpose, and optimistic leadership. Today, he works with entrepreneurs, founders, and executive teams worldwide, helping them create breakthroughs that move them from where they are to where they want to be.

  • Macros vs. Calories – Why What You Eat Matters More Than Just the Number

    Written by Emily Lever, Entrepreneur, Nurse Practitioner, Nutrition and Fitness Coach Emily Lever is a board-certified nurse practitioner, nutrition coach, and entrepreneur helping busy professionals and parents build strength and sustainable health. For years, nutrition advice has been simplified into one message: eat fewer calories. While that idea is rooted in truth, it often leaves people frustrated when they do everything “right” and still struggle to feel, perform, or look the way they want. Many people have experienced the cycle of cutting calories, losing some weight, then finding themselves exhausted, constantly hungry, and eventually regaining the weight they worked so hard to lose. The missing piece in that conversation is understanding that calories are only part of the picture. The composition of those calories, where they come from and how the body processes them, matters just as much. Two people can eat the exact same number of calories and experience very different results. One may feel energized, maintain muscle, recover well from exercise, and steadily lose body fat, while the other feels sluggish, struggles with cravings, and loses both muscle and weight. The difference often comes down to macronutrients, commonly called macros. Macros are the nutrients that make up the calories we eat: protein, carbohydrates, and fats. While calories measure the amount of energy in food, macros determine how that energy is used within the body. This distinction matters because the body is not a calculator. It is a complex biological system that responds differently depending on the quality and composition of food intake. Calories tell us how much energy we consume, but macros influence metabolism, hormones, muscle retention, satiety, recovery, and fat storage. Understanding this concept can completely change the way people approach nutrition and long-term health. One reason macros matter is that the body does not process every calorie equally. A concept known as the thermic effect of food explains that different nutrients require different amounts of energy to digest, absorb, and metabolize. Protein, for example, requires significantly more energy for the body to process compared to fats or carbohydrates. Roughly 20 to 30 percent of protein calories are used during digestion itself, while carbohydrates use around 5 to 10 percent, and fats only about 0 to 3 percent. In practical terms, this means that 100 calories of protein do not provide the same net energy to the body as 100 calories from fat. This difference influences more than just metabolism. Higher protein intake is associated with greater fullness, better appetite control, improved muscle preservation, and higher overall energy expenditure. This is one reason why two diets with the same calorie intake can produce very different fat loss outcomes. The body responds differently depending on the nutrient composition of those calories. Among all three macros, protein is arguably the most important for body composition and long-term metabolic health. Protein serves as the building block for muscle tissue and plays a critical role in recovery, immune health, hormone production, and maintaining lean mass. During periods of fat loss, protein becomes even more important because it helps preserve muscle while the body is in a calorie deficit. Without adequate protein intake, the body is more likely to break down muscle tissue along with fat, which can negatively impact metabolism and overall body composition. This is particularly important for women, especially those dealing with chronic stress, postpartum recovery, years of dieting, or demanding exercise routines. Many women unintentionally under-eat protein while simultaneously over-restricting calories, which can contribute to fatigue, cravings, poor recovery, and stalled progress. Increasing protein intake often helps improve satiety and energy levels while making fat loss more sustainable and effective over time. Carbohydrates, on the other hand, have become one of the most misunderstood nutrients in modern nutrition culture. Over the years, carbs have been blamed for everything from weight gain to inflammation, leading many people to believe that eliminating them is the key to better health. In reality, carbohydrates are the body’s preferred energy source and play a major role in supporting both physical and mental performance. Carbohydrates fuel exercise, support brain function, regulate thyroid health, and aid recovery from physical activity. They also help regulate stress hormones like cortisol when consumed appropriately. While low-carbohydrate diets can lead to short-term weight loss, that does not mean carbohydrates themselves are harmful or inherently fattening. In many cases, drastically reducing carbohydrate intake can increase stress on the body, particularly for active individuals or those already experiencing high stress levels. When the body is consistently under-fuelled, it often responds with increased fatigue, poorer recovery, sleep disruption, cravings, and reduced workout performance. Many people mistakenly interpret these symptoms as a need for more restriction when, in reality, the body may simply need more adequate fueling. The key with carbohydrates is context. The amount, timing, and quality of carbohydrates matter far more than complete elimination. Someone exercising intensely several days per week has very different nutritional needs than someone who is sedentary, and nutrition plans should reflect those differences rather than applying one universal rule to everyone. Fats also play an essential role in overall health, although they are often either feared or overconsumed. Dietary fats are necessary for hormone production, brain and nervous system health, cell membrane integrity, and the absorption of important vitamins such as A, D, E, and K. Healthy fats support hormones like estrogen, progesterone, and testosterone, making them particularly important for women’s health. At the same time, fats are the most calorie-dense macronutrient, containing more than twice the calories per gram compared to protein or carbohydrates. This means that while healthy fats are beneficial, portion awareness still matters. Foods like olive oil, avocado, nuts, seeds, and fatty fish can absolutely support satiety and overall wellness, but they still contribute significantly to total calorie intake. Understanding balance is important because “healthy” does not automatically mean unlimited. This is why focusing solely on calories often fails to produce sustainable results. Macro distribution affects hunger, energy, recovery, training output, and body composition in ways calorie numbers alone cannot explain. Two people eating the same calories may look and feel completely different depending on how much protein they consume, how they fuel activity, and whether their intake supports recovery and hormonal health. Nutrition also needs to be individualized. Stress levels, sleep quality, digestive health, activity level, hormones, and life stage all influence how the body responds to food. A nutrition plan that works well for one person may feel completely unsustainable for another. This is one reason rigid meal plans and generic online templates often fail long-term. They do not adapt to real-life demands or account for the body’s changing needs over time. The most effective nutrition strategies are flexible and realistic. They focus on supporting the body rather than constantly fighting against it. For most people, that means prioritizing adequate protein intake, using carbohydrates strategically to support energy and recovery, and including healthy fats intentionally rather than mindlessly. It also means recognizing that progress comes from consistency, not extremes. Calories do matter, but they are not the whole story. Calories determine the amount of energy consumed, while macros determine how that energy is used. When people shift their focus from simply eating less to eating in a way that supports metabolism, recovery, hormones, and muscle preservation, nutrition becomes far more sustainable. Instead of constantly chasing restriction, they begin building habits that support long-term health, energy, and body composition in a way that actually fits real life. Ready to stop guessing and start fueling your body with a plan that actually fits your lifestyle? Sustainable results do not come from extreme dieting or cutting out entire food groups. They come from understanding what your body needs and having the right guidance to support it. If you are tired of feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or frustrated with nutrition advice that does not work long term, personalized coaching can make all the difference. Learn more about Emily’s realistic, evidence-based approach to nutrition and fitness coaching at www.emilylevercoaching.com. Follow me on Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn, and visit my website for more info! Read more from Emily Lever Emily Lever, Entrepreneur, Nurse Practitioner, Nutrition and Fitness Coach Emily Lever is a nurse practitioner and experienced nutrition and fitness coach who helps busy bees break free from the cycle of dieting and confusion. She specializes in creating realistic, sustainable plans that fit into real life without extremes, restriction, or overwhelm. Through personalized coaching and weekly feedback, Emily empowers her clients to understand their bodies, build confidence, and make lasting changes. Her approach goes beyond quick fixes, focusing on education, mindset, and habits that support long-term success. Emily is known for her honest guidance, no-BS style, and commitment to helping people feel strong, capable, and in control of their health again.

  • From Sole Woman Executive To Aviation Founder – An Interview with Masithokoze Moyo

    Masithokoze Moyo, Founder and CEO of Angel Wings Aviation, has built her career around a clear belief: leadership should create access as well as results. Her work in aviation combines business strategy, discretion, and service with a wider commitment to opening pathways for African women and young people in STEM. Having moved through a diverse career before launching Angel Wings Aviation, Ms. Moyo brings a perspective shaped by resilience, precision, and purpose. In this interview, she shares what drew her to aviation, how her leadership has evolved, and why legacy, mentorship, and access remain central to the work she is building. Masithokoze Moyo, Aviation Professional-Entrepreneur and Philanthropist What first drew you to aviation as the industry where you'd build your legacy? I was drawn to aviation because it sits at the intersection of ambition, innovation, and global impact. It does more than move people – it shapes how ideas, markets, and opportunity travel. What stayed with me was its untapped potential. I saw an industry with a remarkable legacy, but still so much room to be reimagined. For me, legacy has always meant transforming systems, not simply succeeding within them and aviation offered exactly that kind of opportunity. What gave you the confidence to launch Angel Wings Aviation after such a diverse career path? My confidence came from knowing that innovation rarely comes from a linear path. Every chapter of my career gave me perspective, instinct, and the ability to recognise opportunity where others saw convention. I saw the chance to build more than a brokerage – to create a brand defined by vision, discretion, and exceptional service. That clarity gave me the confidence to launch Angel Wings Aviation. How did being the sole woman executive at Alpine Aviation shape your leadership style? Being the sole woman executive at Alpine Aviation refined my leadership in a profound way. It taught me to lead with presence, precision, and quiet confidence. It made me more resilient, more intentional, and more certain that real authority comes from consistency, composure, and the standards you carry into every room. What shifts are still needed to make aviation more accessible for African women? What is still needed is real access, not just representation. African women need clearer pathways into training, leadership, funding, and ownership across aviation. When they are no longer seen as exceptions but as executives, founders, and decision-makers, aviation becomes truly more accessible. Why was it important to connect your aviation leadership with youth development and STEM through the Masithokoze Foundation – now Moyo Foundation? For me, leadership has never been only about building a business; it is also about building access and possibility. Through the Moyo Foundation, I wanted young people to see STEM and aviation as real pathways to innovation, influence, and leadership. What qualities do you look for when mentoring young entrepreneurs? I look for vision, discipline, and a willingness to learn. Talent matters, but what stands out most is the courage to keep growing, to stay open, and to keep moving even when the path is uncertain. I am also drawn to entrepreneurs who lead with purpose. The most promising founders are not only building for profit; they are building with intention, resilience, and a clear sense of the impact they want to make. Which of your “3 Ps and 3Ds” principles has been the hardest to maintain consistently? Discipline has probably been the hardest, simply because it demands consistency in every season – not just when you feel inspired, but also when you are stretched, tested, or carrying more than most people can see. It is one thing to have vision; it is another to show up for it every day with the same level of focus and intention. But that is also why discipline matters so much to me. It is the principle that turns ambition into results and purpose into legacy. How do you stay grounded while balancing business, philanthropy, and public leadership? I stay grounded by staying clear on why I do what I do. When your work is rooted in purpose, it becomes easier to navigate the demands of leadership without losing yourself in them. I also believe grounding comes from discipline, reflection, and remembering that impact matters more than noise. Business, philanthropy, and public leadership may look different on the surface, but for me, they are all connected by one commitment: to build with intention and serve with meaning. Follow me on Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn, and visit my website for more info! Read more from Masithokoze Moyo

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