Why Authenticity Is Replacing Perfection as the New Beauty Standard
- Brainz Magazine
- May 19
- 3 min read
Written by Kate Millar, CEO
Kate Millar is the trailblazing CEO and founder of Embrace, an award-winning advanced skin health business redefining the industry by delivering a new era of “Authentic Aesthetics" for women at every stage of life
I never planned to start a revolution in the aesthetics industry. Yet here I am, watching conventional beauty standards crumble as more women embrace their authentic selves. The journey began when I noticed something troubling in my clinic: brilliant, accomplished women apologising for their natural aging process.
The truth hit me hard. The industry had created a problem it claimed to solve.
Let me explain what I mean. We've spent decades telling women they need fixing, that every line, every subtle change that comes with age, somehow diminishes their worth. It's nonsense.
Actually, science tells us something completely different. When we study the neurological impact of authentic aging and self-acceptance, we find higher life satisfaction scores and improved mental well-being. Who knew that accepting yourself could literally rewire your brain for happiness?
But here's what really gets me. The other day, a 7-year-old girl joined me with her mother at my table during a local lunch stop. She pointed at her nose, calling it "too big" and saying it "looks ugly." My heart sank. Where does a child that young learn to criticise her features? The answer surrounds us, filtered photos, AI-enhanced images, impossible standards pushed through every screen we own.
We had to do something different at Embrace. Something real.
So we flipped the script. Instead of selling treatments, we started selling self-acceptance. Sounds counterintuitive for an aesthetics clinic, right? But it works. Our community—the E.Community, as we call them, proved that women are hungry for authenticity.
They don't want to look 25 forever. They want to look like themselves, their best, healthiest selves at every age.
The financial results surprised even me. Our membership model grew organically because we focused on long-term relationships rather than quick fixes. Women pay monthly, without interest or credit checks, for customised treatment plans that enhance rather than alter.
This isn't just business. It's personal.
When I started using energy-based devices and focusing on skin health, I saw something remarkable. Clients started walking differently. Speaking differently. Their confidence came from within, not from following trends.
The morning skincare ritual became meditation. The evening routine, a moment of reflection. Small changes, massive impact.
Our events aren't about selling. They're about empowering. Education. Community. Real conversations about aging, beauty, and self-worth. No filters. No pretence.
The industry's shifting. I feel it. More practitioners questioning traditional approaches. More clients demanding authenticity. Even big brands like Dove are taking stands against AI-generated beauty standards.
But we need to move faster.
Every time I hear about another young person or brilliant, accomplished woman struggling with their image, I remember why we started this. It's not about fighting aging, it's about fighting the lie that we need to look perfect to be worthy.
The future of aesthetics isn't in dramatic transformations. It's about the art of subtle enhancements. Celebrating your unique features.
Our first major campaign, "Authenticity is Beautiful," is here to challenge what beautiful really looks and feels like.
And maybe, just maybe, the next generation won't grow up apologising for their natural features. They'll grow up knowing they're enough, exactly as they are.
The revolution started small. In one clinic. With one principle: authentic beauty empowers. Now it's growing. Spreading. Changing how we think about aging, beauty, and self-worth.
This isn't just about looking good. It's about feeling real.
And that's the most beautiful thing of all.
Kate Millar, CEO
Kate Millar is the CEO and founder of Embrace, an award-winning advanced skin health business redefining the industry by delivering a new era of “Authentic Aesthetics.” Combining the power of data-based diagnostic tools with innovative, sustainable solutions is proving to deliver life-changing results for Embrace's clients. Through the 3 E's approach of Engagement, Education, and Empowerment, Embrace's "E. Community" continues to grow, with strong support for the brand's core mission: to "inspire a lifelong transformative journey, beyond skin deep, and unite an empowered global authentic ageing community."
