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Who Do You Think You Are?

  • Aug 3, 2021
  • 5 min read

Updated: Aug 4, 2021

Written by: Frida Joosting, Executive Contributor

Executive Contributors at Brainz Magazine are handpicked and invited to contribute because of their knowledge and valuable insight within their area of expertise.

Have you ever questioned this incredible communication network within you, which is moving at such a fast speed that you are oblivious of all the factors that are actually operating in you?

Thoughts are moving in a constant flow through your mind and most of the time you really believe that those are the real you. You could put a question mark here, as from the first day you are born you are influenced by the ways of thinking of those around you. Your reality as you perceive it is a combination of the facts and beliefs you have learned within your social circle and which you have considered as being valid. When a consideration had been self-fulfilling, it couldn’t be anything else than being true. So well, how blind is this, how easy to caress the Ego!


Your considerations are as much influenced by emotional reactions and responses, displayed in any scenario you were part of, from a very young age. Those involved became for you the idols or the enemy, and the way of them dealing with their emotions, for you the example how to deal with your own. Emotions, triggered by thoughts and their expression, leading to action within and beyond control. Actions in the physical world of manifestation. Actions considered as morally appreciated or immorally prejudiced. The Duality of good and bad is for sure established!


You would let reason come in as a means of freedom, to form opinions, holding grounds, and set goals within your mental faculty. You would learn to operate and hold yourself accountable for all you do and would solve problems and draw conclusions. You would believe to have answers and solutions for everything, using choice as the magic tool. The brain, the ultimate machine to figure out the right and the wrong, without leaving questions unanswered or dropping comparison to determine direction.


If you realise that you become what you think, you must acknowledge that your own thoughts are incredibly powerful. Thoughts then considered the building blocks for real choice. And if you realise that on the black and white scale, fear, hate, anger, and negativity are diseases of your own mind, you will think twice before allowing any thought to come through. Here is your real choice in creating who you are. You can connect with the thousands of perceptions you never questioned, and you can start to see both sides of the peanut butter jar, of which one you even didn’t know existed. It is the power of your Will which will help you to start yourself, to move into alertness and guiding you into new conscious choices.


But who is this one who is moving you into alertness and guiding you into conscious choices? Who is the one who can see all the colors of the rainbow, all the shades of grey? There must be a you, not in your brain, not in your thoughts, not in your emotions, and not in your body, who is separate from this whole machinery and able to overlook the daily performance stage. It must be the you, so-called the Infinite Drop in the Endless Ocean of Creation. The you, the Invisible, the abstract, the unknown, present right here and now. And since being the Infinite Drop of the same substance as the Endless Ocean, it must be the you, the Micro of the Macro?


When this you takes over and watches, awareness will appear and choices disappear, contrasts harmonise, and colors unite. When this you takes over and observes, your Heart will have a chance to open, and its feeling of love warm you up. When this you takes over and acts, it will collapse the Field of the Brain with all its World Drama before making a move. So, who you ever thought to be, seems to be the perfect subject for Kali to destroy.


You are not your appearance, you are none of your personal traits, you are only this Infinite Drop. And what would you say now when someone would ask you who you are? Hard to define when you are the abstract. Your Heart may be your closest friend to tell you, but only if you listen. If you really can listen. So, may you become the nothing and as conscious blanc being able to watch your mind and notice what you perceive at your radio station with its antennae? And may you be able to follow the current of your sensory and intuitive field, streaming through your body? And may you then act without preference, just in truthfulness?


Will you then become the you, in the process of burning up your personal attributes and coming home within? And will you then meet the ultimate richness of the you, you can be and had never dreamed of? Will space you create then be filled with the beauty of the unknown and driving you in your walks, spirited by a Devotional Vibe wanting to discover anything beyond your comprehension?


Will you then, become just and only the positive, the love itself, humbleness, generosity, selflessness, and the complete surrender to all of these. Will you then become all the facets of the diamond with all its reflections? Will you call yourself then a little Sunshine, just a spark of light constantly on the move? Is this then your answer when anyone will ask you who you are?


So here you are little Sunshine, being this incredible complex communication network at 3D and 5D level at the same time. You are the Miracle having a choice to stay oblivious on the 3D plane or follow your Heart to find the timeless Omnipresent you in you. May this be the inspiration for all of you!

Brisbane, Australia


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Frida Joosting, Executive Contributor Brainz Magazine

Frida Joosting is a Life Traveler, lead by curiosity into experiences of seeking depth and truth in Existence. Guidance from many spiritual souls like Krishnamurti, Yogananda, Osho, Eghart Tolle, Deepak Chopra and Rumi has enriched her Life and moved her into diverse directions. She is an Artist at heart, living a life of service, using intuition and intention for Creation, and allowing Reality to unfold wherever the river flows. From Dancer, Choreographer and Educator transitioning into Writer, Speaker and Business Facilitator, is the never-ending exciting adventure she brings to her audience. Potential Freedom, her inspirational business in Personal Development Programs and Events, offers like-minded travelers to join her in a unique Work / Life Balance experience. And so she says: Live Life Truly, Fully and in Abundance!

 
 

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