The Missing Link in Workplace Wellness
- Aug 31
- 7 min read
David Mahler is a Board-Certified Addiction Recovery Coach dedicated to helping individuals and families overcome the challenges of substance use disorder. Combining professional expertise with lived experience, he empowers people to rebuild their lives and find lasting hope in recovery.
Most workplace crises don't begin at work. They begin quietly, and the opportunity to help often appears long before a situation reaches the breaking point. Having the right support in place can make it easier for employees and families to seek help before personal challenges become workplace crises.
A marriage is falling apart. A son or daughter is struggling with substance use. Drinking that was once social is becoming more frequent. Anxiety or stress is getting harder to manage. A family member is facing a mental health challenge. Someone who has always been dependable suddenly isn't sleeping well, isn't concentrating, and isn't quite themselves. Eventually, those struggles can walk through the workplace door.
Employers may see the effects in different ways: absenteeism, declining performance, disengagement, strained relationships with coworkers, increased stress, or an employee who simply seems different.
Most employers genuinely want to help. Many already provide health insurance, Employee Assistance Programs, mental health benefits, and other valuable resources as part of their employee wellness programs. Yet even with those benefits in place, an important question remains: Does the employee actually know where to turn, and are they comfortable enough to reach out before the situation becomes a crisis? That may be the missing link in workplace wellness.
The gap between having resources and using them
We sometimes assume that because a resource exists, someone who needs it will use it. Human behavior doesn't always work that way.
Imagine an employee who realizes his drinking is beginning to concern him. He isn't sure whether he has a serious problem. He doesn't believe he needs treatment, and he certainly isn't ready to walk into Human Resources (HR) and announce that he's worried about his alcohol use. Where does he start?
Or consider an employee whose adult daughter is struggling with substance use. The employee isn't the one with the substance use problem, but every night is filled with worry. Phone calls interrupt the workday. Sleep becomes difficult. Concentration suffers.
The employee may have benefits available, but what they really need at that moment is someone who understands the situation and can help them determine what to do next. The same can be true for someone experiencing overwhelming stress, a mental health concern, a family crisis, or the early signs that something in their life is beginning to get out of control.
Sometimes people aren't ready for treatment or therapy. Sometimes they don't even know what kind of help they need. They simply need a place to start. Very often, that starting point is another human being.
Support before a crisis
Too often, help enters the picture after something has already happened. An employee misses several days of work. There is an incident on the job. A family situation reaches a breaking point. Substance use becomes impossible to hide. Performance deteriorates enough that a manager or HR professional has to intervene. At that point, everyone is reacting to a crisis. What if support were available earlier?
There is a valuable window between "I'm fine" and "I need treatment." It is the period when someone begins recognizing that something isn't right but may not yet know what to do about it. That is where human connection can make a significant difference.
A confidential conversation can help someone slow things down, look at what is happening, understand the available options, and determine an appropriate next step. That next step might be counseling. It might be an Employee Assistance Program. It could be a support group, recovery coaching, medical care, a treatment assessment, or another community resource.
The purpose isn't to diagnose the employee or replace professional treatment. The purpose is to help the person take the next right step.
Why an ongoing workplace wellness partnership matters
There is another challenge employers face. When a serious situation arises, HR or management may suddenly find themselves trying to locate resources while also managing the workplace issue in front of them. That isn't the ideal time to begin searching for help.
An ongoing workplace wellness partnership allows an organization to establish that relationship before it is needed. Instead of asking, "Who can we call?" when a problem occurs, the answer already exists.
A recovery and wellness professional can become an additional resource for employees, family members, managers, and HR, not as a replacement for existing benefits, but as a bridge to them.
For employees, that can mean confidential access to someone who will listen without judgment and help them understand their options. For HR and management, it can mean having someone to consult when they recognize that an employee may be struggling but aren't sure what type of resource might be appropriate.
For family members, it can provide direction at a time when they may feel frightened, frustrated, or overwhelmed. That is why I prefer the word partnership.
The goal isn't simply to provide another phone number. It is to build a relationship between the organization and a trusted resource that is already in place when someone needs help.
Putting a face to the support
An effective workplace wellness partnership shouldn't exist only when someone is already struggling. It should also be proactive. That is why workplace education and training can be such an important part of the relationship.
Education may address substance use in the workplace, mental health awareness, recognizing when someone may be struggling, supporting a coworker in crisis, reducing stigma, recovery in the workplace, and understanding when and how to seek help.
Whenever possible and appropriate, I believe there is tremendous value in bringing that education into the workplace in person. For organizations outside the immediate area, that may mean traveling to a company location to meet employees and provide workplace substance use and wellness education.
Why does that matter? Because now the resource has a face. An employee may sit through a workplace presentation today thinking, "This really doesn't apply to me."
Six months later, that same employee, or someone they love, may be struggling. Reaching out can feel very different when the person on the other end of the phone isn't a complete stranger.
They may remember the person who stood in front of their workplace and spoke openly about substance use, mental health, stress, stigma, recovery, and asking for help. Trust is easier to build before the crisis than during it.
The struggle may belong to someone at home
Workplace wellness also shouldn't stop with the employee. Sometimes the employee isn't the person struggling with substance use or a mental health concern. It may be their spouse, their child, their parent, or someone else they love.
Anyone who has watched a family member struggle knows that the effects don't remain neatly contained at home. Fear, sleeplessness, financial concerns, difficult phone calls, and uncertainty can follow a person into work every day.
Providing guidance to family members can therefore be an important part of employee mental health and wellness support. Helping a parent understand what resources may be available for a struggling son or daughter doesn't just help that family. It may also help that employee remain healthier, more focused, and better supported.
Not another benefit, a bridge to the benefits you already have
Employers may reasonably ask, "If we already have an EAP and mental health benefits, why would we need something else?"
The answer is that a workplace wellness partnership shouldn't compete with those resources. It should help people reach them.
A recovery and wellness coach isn't a therapist, physician, treatment center, or HR professional. There will be situations that require clinical or medical care, and recognizing when someone needs a higher level of support is essential.
The missing piece is often navigation. People need someone who can listen to what is happening, help them understand their choices, and connect them with the appropriate resource.
In that sense, the coach becomes a bridge between struggling and asking for help, between uncertainty and direction, and sometimes between crisis and the opportunity to intervene earlier.
Creating a culture where asking for help is a strength
There was a time when workplace wellness largely meant physical health. Today, employers increasingly recognize that people bring their whole lives to work.
Organizations don't have to solve every personal problem their employees face. Nor should they try. But they can create a culture where employees know that when life becomes difficult, asking for help is not something to be ashamed of.
Sometimes one confidential conversation is enough to get someone moving in the right direction. Sometimes a manager simply needs guidance about where to point someone.
Sometimes a frightened family member needs to hear, "Here are your options. Let's figure out what makes sense." Sometimes an employee needs to know that they don't have to wait until everything falls apart before reaching out.
That is the opportunity I believe exists in workplace wellness today. We have benefits. We have programs. We have resources. Perhaps the missing link is making sure there is a human connection between the person who is struggling and the help that is already available.
Because the best time to establish that connection isn't after the crisis. It's before it.
Is your organization ready to add the human connection to workplace wellness?
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David Mahler, Recovery Coach, Sober Companion & Addiction Awareness Facilitator
My coaching approach is rooted in building trust and openness with clients, drawing from my experience with both those struggling with substance use disorder and their families. My coaching journey through my own battle with substance abuse, my career's survival through national tragedy, and my relentless support in my daughter's fight against substance abuse have equipped me with invaluable insights into the recovery process.
