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The Bridge Between Where You Are And Where You Want to Be – Clarity And Courage

  • Writer: Brainz Magazine
    Brainz Magazine
  • Nov 7, 2024
  • 4 min read

The Soul Compass guides you to Live & Thrive in alignment with your true nature, to uncover your authenticity, and start taking steps towards your Dream Life by following your inner wisdom.

Executive Contributor Kinga de Wit

There’s often a gap between where we are now and the life we envision. We sense the potential waiting for us, a version of ourselves fully aligned with our purpose and desires. Yet crossing this bridge requires two powerful allies: clarity and courage.


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Clarity: Seeing the path forward

Clarity gives us insight into what’s holding us back and what steps we can take to move forward. In my practice, clarity often begins with contextual and intuitive readings—a deep dive into what is happening in your life right now and why. This may involve understanding your unique challenges, the messages your body is trying to communicate, or deeper soul purpose. Through these readings, we identify what’s out of alignment and how you can navigate to fulfillment, satisfaction, and joy.


Sometimes, our past experiences, limiting beliefs, or unresolved emotions obscure our true path, leaving us feeling stuck. By bringing awareness to these hidden influences, we gain the clarity needed to make intentional changes.


How it works: Contextual and intuitive readings offer not just insight but also direction. This form of clarity is about giving structure to the journey, showing you where the bridge begins and where it leads. Whether it’s understanding the root of a recurring struggle or behavioral patterns, or seeing new possibilities for your career, relationships, or self-growth, clarity anchors you in what’s real and offers a clearer picture of the life you’re capable of living.


Courage: Taking the first step

Knowing the path is one thing; walking it requires courage. Courage is the energy that fuels our willingness to step into the unknown, face discomfort, and grow. It’s the decision to let go of what no longer serves us and to trust that the steps forward will lead us to where we want to be.


Healing plays a pivotal role in this process. Sometimes, the journey toward where we want to be requires letting go of wounds from our past. The work of healing old wounds, through various somatic modalities, energy work, or emotional release techniques, can help us break free from self-imposed limitations. Healing gives us the emotional resilience to take courageous steps forward and meet life’s challenges with a stronger sense of self.


How it works: Whether it’s healing through guided meditations, body-based tools, energy work, or reflective conversations, this process reinforces your courage to move forward. This doesn’t mean eliminating fear but transforming it. Courage is about feeling the fear and choosing to act anyway, so you can build unstoppable momentum towards your dream life.


Bringing it together: Coaching and mentorship for sustainable growth

The journey from where you are to where you want to be is rarely linear. Having the support of a guide can make all the difference. My role as a coach and mentor is to support you as you cross this bridge, offering practical strategies, accountability, and encouragement.


Through clarity, coaching, and mentorship, we’ll not only create a roadmap for your goals but also address any emotional, mental, or spiritual blocks along the way. Each session is tailored to where you are in your journey, giving you space to learn, grow, and adjust as needed. The result? You don’t just move closer to your dreams; you become more of who you are meant to be.


A few steps to start your journey


  1. Identify what you want: Write down where you want to be in specific terms. Your “why” matters here, connecting with a purpose greater than yourself can fuel the journey forward. If this is challenging for you, think of how you want to feel.

  2. Seek clarity: If you’re uncertain about the next step, a reading can illuminate where you’re headed and what’s holding you back.

  3. Take a small step with courage: Start with one small action aligned with your vision. Each courageous step you take reinforces your ability to keep going.

  4. Stay open to guidance: Sometimes, the journey unfolds differently than we imagine. Being open to new insights can reveal unexpected pathways.


The bridge awaits

In the journey of personal growth, crossing the bridge from where you are to where you want to be is an adventure filled with self-discovery. With clarity, you can see the path ahead, and with courage, you’ll find yourself taking each step with greater confidence.


Let’s take that journey together. If you’re ready to bridge the gap, connect with me to begin exploring what clarity, healing, and personal guidance can do for you.


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Kinga de Wit, Transformational Guide, Soul Embodiment Coach, Catalyst for Change

The Soul Compass guides you to Live & Thrive in alignment with your true nature, to uncover your authenticity, and start taking steps towards your Dream Life by following your inner wisdom.


Services: Human Design, Akashic Records, Soul Realignment, Soul Body Fusion, Polyvagal theory, Nervous System Regulation, Trauma-informed Practice, NLP, OldPain2Go, Inner Child Work, Breathwork, EFT/Tapping, Spiritual Mentorship, Embodied Manifesting, Somatic Work, Conscious Parenting, New Paradigm Business Coaching (Energy + Strategy), Feng Shui, and many, many more.


Me? I'm Kinga de Wit: Aries, 6/2 Human Design Splenic Projector, and my name means "leader of the people." I'm a wife and a mother to a 4 y.o son (almost 5!) and 2 dogs. I'm originally from Warsaw, Poland. I've lived most of my life in the Netherlands and relocated to Spain in August 2023. I grew up with East-European, Eastern (Chinese), Dutch Caribbean, and Western cultures.


I love to sing, write, and take pictures. And I'm an incurable optimist. I believe that we are powerful beings and that we can heal ourselves and the world by standing in our true Power and by letting the love for ourselves overflow into Universal Love.


My knowledge is not "just" theoretical. Everything I teach I am practicing myself. I've experienced my share of struggles, breakdowns, and challenges (like depression, anxiety, burn-out, chronic pain, allergies, trauma, chronic fatigue, being disconnected from my emotions and intuition, etc). I overcame it all and now I love to share what I've learned with others guide.

 
 

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