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Start Creating What You Really Want By Honouring Your Heart's Desire

Jan 17, 2023
2 min read

Updated: Jan 24, 2023

Written by: Victoria Hart, Executive Contributor

Executive Contributors at Brainz Magazine are handpicked and invited to contribute because of their knowledge and valuable insight within their area of expertise.

Recently clients have found themselves asking, 'what's it all for?', as they come to realise that they have not been living according to their values. The things they really care about have been side-lined in pursuit of some reward they hope to gain. It seems they have been living someone else's dream, rather than their own. As a result, they feel unfulfilled, hopeless, perhaps even resentful, and like there is something more.

Realising that you have not been living your passion can be quite a confrontation. The struggle you’ve endured to go after the things you thought you needed to be happy; that even when you have it, you still feel empty. And the fear of making the wrong decision keeps you stuck in the same old looping cycle; making excuses and creating stories in your mind.


Yet, the more you resist the whisperings of your heart, the more painful life becomes.


So how can you distinguish between your heart’s desire and the desires of your ego mind? The mind tends to desire material things, people, or experiences; which may lead us down a treacherous path battling to meet these desires. Whereas, when we’re in true alignment with the desires of the heart, our experience is often quite different from what we might have expected.


Yes, it will be scary; yes, it will feel risky; yes, it will seem impossible; growth can be painful but if you can honor this calling, it is from this space of discomfort that you will transition from one state of awareness to the next. And so, rather than focusing on the short-term pain, focus on the long-term gain and the long-term game.


Here are some tips for your personal freedom:

  • List the thoughts, situations, people and habits that you no longer wish to experience.

  • Pay attention and notice any moments where your words, feelings or actions do not align with your wishes

  • Learn to recognise and express your truth

These are powerful exercises to help you create a life that aligns with your heart’s wishes over the wishes of others and what you think you should do or say in order to fit in.


Honouring the desire of the heart gives you a sense of well-being. It feels calm, peaceful and free, and at the same time you have an abundance of energy that magically attracts all the resources you require.


If you’re looking for guidance and support, get in touch and let’s talk.


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Victoria Hart, Executive Contributor Brainz Magazine

Victoria Hart, is a Visionary Coach, Energy Healer and New Earth Leader. She has been exploring the metaphysical and mystical world for as long as she can remember and has studied with some great masters in cutting edge and revolutionary therapies, inviting exponential breakthrough results. Victoria brings wisdom, inspiration and humility to empower people to break the looping cycles of programmed reality and consciously create a new life story. Her mission is to find freedom in self-mastery and teach others to do the same.

 
 

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