Spread Your Wings And F.L.Y (First Love You) Into 2022
- Jan 12, 2022
- 12 min read
Written by: Becky Jo Calhoun, Executive Contributor
Executive Contributors at Brainz Magazine are handpicked and invited to contribute because of their knowledge and valuable insight within their area of expertise.
Becoming a Butterfly
Welcome to the year 2022! According to the beautiful art of numerology, which is the study of the vibrations in numbers as one of the many synchronicity cycles in the Universe; The vibrational energy of this 12-month cycle will add up to the vibration of number 6 (2+0+2+2=6).
What does this mean, you might ask? Well, we will get into the Universal 6 year forecast shortly, but first, let me paint a 3 year picture for you.
I do not know about you, but for me, the past 2 years have invited me, and sometimes even forced me to deeply look at everything in my life and make decisions that maybe would have kept sitting on my emotional shelf for too long.
2020 was a Universal 4 year (2+0+2+0=4), which represented long term goal setting, gathering new information, and putting effective and updated systems into the works. According to Mind Body Green, 2020 was the year of “Creating the foundation that will eventually make everything run like clockwork.”
Then fast forward to 2021, which was a Universal 5 year (2+0+2+1=5). Whenever we are talking about the vibration of the number 5, we are talking change and transformation. The vibration of 5 holds the spirit of shaking up instability in our lives, pushing past boundaries, being forced to make decisions about our health, finances, family relationships, and even careers that maybe people were hoping to push off for a while. Universal 5 years will rock everybody’s boats to extremely uncomfortable levels so that clinging to the outdated in our lives will no longer be allowed. In the bigger picture, this is always for our highest good; but the volatile nature of the 5 vibrations can feel very personal at times, until you are able to realize how it is all aligned to help you grow on your soul’s journey on Earth.
Now, we are entering into 2022, a universal 6 year, which brings with it a little more balance. This year’s collective energy represents relationships, responsibility, and finally allowing the deep healing that our souls have been trying to help us get through so we can spread our wings and fly! This my friends is the year that you will finally spread those wings and fly if you do your soul work and follow your intuition.
So, now that we have a little clearer picture of the evolution of the past couple year’s collectively, let’s talk about spreading those wings and becoming a butterfly.
For those who have been following my work, you know that I love the analogy of becoming a butterfly; and when it comes to the evolution of Humanity, each Universal year in numerology builds of the energy of the last, kind of like the cycles of becoming a butterfly.
So, if we go deeper, we will see that
2020 (universal 4 year) would represent the year of the caterpillar
2021 (universal 5 year) would represent the year of the cocoon
2022 (Universal 6 year) would represent the year of the butterfly.
Now, before you can fully break free of that cocoon this year, you must be willing to release what is weighing your wings down first. I know every one of us has some things that may potentially be blocking our energy centers and I want so much to share with you the things that I noticed were blocking my light in 2021.
I am so thankful that my intuition has led me on a beautiful path of overcoming obstacles and aligning with who I truly am; I hope this helps you to take some true and deep reflections into your inner world as to finally release what no longer serves your journey.
After a long 2 years, it is time for each of us to truly be authentic and honest with ourselves, so that we can spread our wings and f.l.y (first love you)!
May you find the blessings in this article. May you find the strength to rise above the storms of society, and may you always follow the calling of your soul.
7 things that block your truth
1. Crown Chakra Block - Other people's limiting beliefs and possibly lies about you and who you are (what you can be). If you have a thought or belief that you heard from a family member, a colleague, a peer, a friend or even a spouse that belittles you, depresses you, and speaks condemnation over you, it is not from the Heavenly Realms of existence and most definitely NOT your truth! Why? Because your truth is you are a divine spark of heavenly light outside of your humanness. You are more than anyone has ever allowed you to believe that you are and those that can't see you through "God's" eyes are not speaking truth to you!
Truth will always feel uplifting and amazing! Your Truth will always speak hope, love, victory, Peace, and restoration.
Just because someone else doesn't believe in you or see you from a Heavenly eye, doesn't mean you have to take that on as your story. Instead, I highly suggest you go deep within, connect with your soul and those Heavenly helpers who are sending you positive and loving thoughts...and listen to what YOU believe about you...In the New Year of 2022, I highly recommend you Let others have their beliefs, but don't let them limit you!
2. 3rd Eye Block - A complete lack in Faith, Trust in your own intuition or what your inner presence of God, creator, Universe or whatever higher intelligence you believe in... is showing to you!
Be still and know your soul will show and tell you what is truly for your highest and best good.
Faith means we trust even when things seem quite impossible. When you can trust that inner God presence within, YOU can literally move mountains as a HUman be-ing! Your level of faith is directly connected to your ability to control your own life instead of letting it control you!
3. Throat Chakra Block - An overabundance of toxic people and situations in your life (yes I'm talking to you!)
Negative influences will create a breeding ground for unsuccessful living; I can promise you that! I cannot tell you how much better I felt when I started to truly love myself enough to choose me and let go of those who never would.
It’s been said that we are the average of those we spend our time with. I know for sure that is true because when I had no self-love due to not receiving love from those I desperately needed it the most from my entire life... it led me to having no boundaries or respect for myself, due to just wanting to fit in and please others.
My life was a constant storm of negativity and drama... Bad company will always be a sure fire way to corrupt good character and trust me, they will make you believe that YOU are the problem and you will be in a constant state of disapproval of yourself.
In the Bible it says in Proverbs 13:20 that when we are friends with fools, we can expect harm.
This can be interpreted in several ways... my point being that when we are ready to transform our lives, we need to stop FOOLING ourselves.
Though we cannot always easily get rid of all of our lifelong friends, we should start to take a self-evaluation of those we are closest to.
Do they speak hope to you?
Do they draw you to the best of you?
Do they infiltrate you with fear and doubt when you want to step into what your soul is calling you to?
True friends will be those who uplift you in the World and add to your life, not ones who constantly cause you emotional damage.
Not everyone is your "tribe"... all people you come across are there for a purpose on purpose. The Universe nor your soul never makes mistakes.
Humans make the mistakes, but its ok because some mis-takes become our greatest blessings in life (its true!)
The mistake is when we do not see it for all that is it or we try to manipulate, control or justify things to fit into our own little box of perception.
Although some people who you cross paths with are meant to love you; some are meant to teach you, and some will bring you the hardest lessons you have ever learned. But, those lessons turn into great strength and valor and are not ever in vain.
Never forget it is always ok to love from afar if it means you walk in truth!
4. Heart Chakra Block - A heart full of grievances and un-forgiveness! By now you know me well enough to know I was gonna bring this up!
Bitterness, grudge holding, and un-forgiveness cause us to be overwhelmed by the wrongdoing of another. There are times when people hurt us so bad that we have no idea how we can ever move forward.
However, when we walk in bitterness, we tend to constantly think about the one who has hurt us.
It will remain completely disheartening and all over consuming to rehearse their dirty deeds towards us in our minds, which will do nothing but continue to put your light out and create anger, resentment, blame and shame mixed with a whole array of frustration over and over.
When we forgive, we not only release ourselves from the pit of hell we have caged ourselves in, but we energetically and spiritually release the other person which shifts our be-ings into a new level of Heaven on Earth.
Truthfully, how can we ever be passionate about what God (Your soul) wants us to do if we are steadily focused on the actions of others?
Forgiveness is like a key that unlocks many new doors for us... but... Does that mean we allow people to run over us?
No. However, we cannot allow un-forgiveness to overtake us. In order to align with the things that we came here to School Room Earth to do in our lives, first we must forgive those who have hurt us and move forward.
Not for them... but for YOU. "They" are not being affected by how you feel, YOU ARE!
5) Solar Plexus Block - Lack of Integrity. Integrity is doing what’s right, even when no one is looking. A lack of integrity can often be masked in “white lies” and rationalization that says, “this is my one little sin.”
Yet, if we know to do right and we still do not, it is still a "sin" (which means you missed the mark and are out of alignment with your truth)
Integrity ranges from showing up on time to meetings to not sharing the secret you promised to keep (no matter how tempting it is to share it).
Integrity means holding on to your own power and not knowingly allowing others to take your light from you or control your boat. You MUST man your own controls!!!!
It means being who you truly are no matter who you are around! Never ever wearing a mask to try and fit into the circle of people you are in at the moment! Interesting that I have been talking about taking masks off since way before the pandemic began.
never being embarrassed to outwardly show others who you are and what you believe in; but also not pushing your agenda on others. It means allowing them to be who they are too and respecting everyone for who they are and what they believe in, or don't believe in.
The reality is there are some beautiful heavenly gifts that God wants to bless you with for your transformation, but you will need to have the character to sustain your gifts.
Honestly, the statement that "with great gifts comes great responsibility", I have learned is absolutely true .
BE THE LIGHT YOU WISH TO SEE IN THIS WORLD - JESUS
The more power and light you bring to this world, the more influential you are to those who come into contact with you.
So, make sure you are always influencing others for the greater good. Showing them how TRUTH-FULL and FULL OF LIGHT they can be if they choose this path too!
Quite simply, some of the things you truly desire in life, you are not aligned with yet.
Even though your EGO or the inner child you behold inside might believe it.
The things you most desire to do and be and have are not being withheld from you, because you do not deserve them.
Not at all! Quite frankly, the things that you are meant to have and do and be are not available, because you are not quite ready for them.
That, my dear is where patience is a virtue, faith in your journey, and trusting the Universe that all is being unveiled to you in divine perfect timing comes into play!
If you are not walking the walk and talking the talk, you most likely would not appreciate those things quite yet... but now is the time to be true to you and keep that integrity in check!
6) Sacral Chakra Block - Allowing yourself to be trapped in the past. If you carry a heavy sense of guilt and shame for over your past mistakes, it is likely you are walking in a perspective of defeat.
Our past often convinces us that we have unqualified ourselves for success.
We think about the times we have missed the mark, failed miserably, or hurt someone, and assume, “How could God possibly bless me?” We may even think, “If I get the opportunity, I will just blow it again.”
Let me tell ya... when you imprison yourself with what the mind is fearful of from past experiences... and/or with this lack and doubt mentality in place, we make a choice to not take risks or dream again.
Even if God sent the perfect opportunity to our door, we will completely block the blessings if we are in that mindset... because we are afraid of reliving the past.
When we get in these modes of thought, we must remind ourselves that our past mistakes are opportunities for growth.
Remember, the human ego wants to convince us that we are unworthy and there is no chance for recovery. But when you align with the higher part of yourself and change your perspective just a tad, you can shift into a place where you see your past as a blessing and your mistakes as learning tools.
When you are able to do this, everything shifts.
Like the great Wayne Dyer says...
when you change the way you look at things...the things you look at change!
Your past will never disqualify you for God’s best blessings in your life.
Those moments of despair are simply steppingstones to get us to where our hearts and souls are truly calling us to be.
They are your sign from the Universe that you are not in your truth... the truth will set you free!
Every single time you feel despair... remember it is your soul asking you to take another look, see it from a more Heavenly view... make a better choice!
7. Root Chakra Block - You do not have an intimate relationship with your higher self, the Earth, or your creator.
When you said “yes” to all of who you are (mind, body, soul), it is not merely an invitation into a deeper understanding of Humanity and why we are here... It is also an open door for a life-changing relationship with the Universe.
"God"... the higher intelligence that runs the Galaxies... is within you and therefor... desires to spend time with you and have fellowship with you.
Not in a Humanly way like some think though... in a connecting to your own soul kind of way.
The Universe wants to communicate with you on a deep level.
Your soul and the "God" presence within you... wants you to run all of who you are your Father, Mother, friend, counselor, and advocate.
It is Your Soul's desire to be so close to you that every time you are overwhelmed or conflicted in your thoughts, you are your own best resource.
Also...
When we have an intimate relationship with all of whom and what you are and why you are here in this lifetime, it can give you insight and wisdom on how to be successful in every situation.
Your balanced trinity connection with the Father (the masculine...God/Heaven), the Mother (Divine Feminine...Mother Earth/Gaia), and the "Child" or "Son (Sun)...light" (your higher self, your soul light, the highest light and resonance of who you are outside of your physical existence) can give you the ultimate the strategy to overcome difficult people and the loving embrace to when to learn and grow through the things in life that don’t go according to our plan.
The truth is, if you have been struggling with defeat, it is in the highest and holiest presence of being aligned with your purpose and why you are here...how you can most serve... that you will find the answers you seek...
Breaking through your blocks will open your soul energy and raise you up so you SHINE... ILLUMINATE... and become a BUTTERFLY!
My prayer for you is that you find the hope, restoration and victory in your own transformation for your highest and greatest good, so that you can align with the highest and greatest good of all Mankind!
It’s what we all ultimately came here to do... Illuminate this world by learning how to unblock our seals (chakras)... growing through what we go through, and then turning around with our light shining bright and help someone who hasn't found their own light yet...
Shine the way, hold the light until they see their truth and shine theirs...
In 2022... I make it my goal to awaken and inspire as many people as Humanly possible...
I send you great blessings of seeing your deepest truth this year...
I LOVE YOU
xoxoxoxo
Becky Jo
Becky Jo Calhoun, Executive Contributor Brainz Magazine
Becky Jo is an expert in the field of natural healing, remedies and plant medicine. A certified registered Master herbalist (American Herbalist Guild) and Certified Master Aromatherapist (NAHA), who has studied, researched, and teaches others how to use the forces of nature to live your best life.
The creator and owner of "Wholeistic Healing Wellness Clinic", is a very powerful and strong warrior of this thing we call life; Becky Jo has overcome her own medical, emotional, and spiritual obstacles by learning how to heal her own life (mind, body, and soul) through the help of the Holy Spirit; and then learning how to safely and clinically use herbs, essential oils, vibrational medicine, and many other ancient healing modalities to help others heal and transform their lives too.
Becky Jo has always has always had the gift of being able to see angels and what she calls "Heavenly Helpers". As a child, she would see and talk with Jesus, but always thought that everyone else did too until she got old enough to realize she was not like the average bear (so to speak).
In 2012, while living an ordinary life, in which she had been through too many traumas to count, she asked God to help her to heal and restore her health and vitality. Her prayers were answered when she had an amazing out of body experience that forever changed who she would be. She heard the voice of God ask her to step onto the path of being a healer and she humbly answered the call.
She wrote her own Memoir of bringing Heaven to Earth through healing and restoration.
Becky Jo, "The Wholeistic Healer" is the author of the book "the calling of my soul" (Balboa press). Her 2nd book will be out in mid 2022.
