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Self-Aware or Selfish Leadership?

  • Mar 4, 2025
  • 3 min read

Anton is a leading expert in safety leadership, encompassing both physical and psychological safety. He has transformed his lived experience to help others. Anton collaborates with leaders who are committed to achieving world-class safety performance and fostering high-performing, psychologically safe teams.

Executive Contributor Anton Guinea

​Self-awareness is a pivotal trait in effective leadership, influencing communication, decision-making, and team morale. Leaders lacking self-awareness may misinterpret how their actions are perceived, leading to disengagement and reduced productivity within their teams. Developing self-awareness is achievable through strategies such as seeking regular feedback, practicing mindfulness and reflection, and engaging in leadership coaching. These practices not only enhance a leader's understanding of their impact but also foster environments where employees feel valued and motivated. Embracing self-awareness is essential for personal growth and cultivating a positive organizational culture.


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The path to becoming a self-aware leader


Leadership isn't just about driving results; it's about understanding yourself and your impact on those around you. Self-awareness is one of the most crucial traits of great leaders, yet many operate without truly recognizing how their actions, words, and emotions shape their teams.


A lack of self-awareness can lead to ineffective communication, poor decision-making, and disengaged employees. Some leaders believe they are approachable when their teams perceive them as distant. Others think they inspire, yet they unintentionally intimidate. Without self-awareness, these blind spots persist, leading to frustration, misunderstandings, and lower morale.


The good news? Self-awareness is a skill that can be built.


3 strategies to increase your self-awareness and become a better leader


1. Seek regular feedback


Feedback is a powerful tool for self-improvement; it offers an external perspective on your leadership style and helps uncover blind spots.


  • Use the 360-Degree Feedback process to gather insights from peers, subordinates, and supervisors; this provides a well-rounded view of your leadership.

  • Encourage open conversations where employees feel comfortable sharing their perspectives.

  • Show that you value input by making meaningful changes; this builds trust and credibility.

Satya Nadella, CEO of Microsoft, transformed the company's culture by embracing a growth mindset and prioritizing open feedback, thereby building a more innovative and engaged workforce.


2. Practice mindfulness and reflection


Self-awareness starts with self-reflection. Leaders who take time to analyze their actions, emotions, and decisions gain clarity on their leadership style and identify areas for improvement.​


  • Set aside time each day to review your interactions and decisions; journaling can help identify patterns.​

  • Incorporate mindfulness meditation into your daily routine to improve emotional regulation and focus; even a few minutes a day can have a considerable impact.​

  • Check in with yourself throughout the day: Are you reacting (acting instinctively or impulsively) or responding (taking the time to consider your actions)? Are your emotions driving your behavior? Use this check-in time to make any adjustments.​

Marc Benioff, CEO of Salesforce, integrates mindfulness practices into his leadership approach, resulting in a workplace culture that values self-awareness and emotional intelligence. ​


3. Engage in leadership coaching


Great leaders never stop learning. They are open to challenging the norm and exploring new ideas. Professional coaching offers a structured approach to self-awareness, helping leaders uncover underlying issues, set goals, and develop growth strategies.​


  • Find a leadership coach whose approach aligns with your needs.​

  • Work together to establish measurable objectives for your development.​

  • Commit to regular coaching sessions to apply what you have learned and continue your professional growth.​

Eric Schmidt, former CEO of Google, has credited his leadership success to having a coach who challenged his assumptions and provided invaluable feedback. 


The power of self-awareness in leadership


Self-aware leaders build stronger workplaces and teams where employees feel valued, motivated, and empowered. By committing to feedback, reflection, and continuous learning, you can develop the self-awareness necessary to become a truly effective leader.​


The Guinea Group specializes in helping leaders develop self-awareness through tailored coaching and leadership training. The most effective leaders are those who commit to continuous self-improvement and embrace growth opportunities. ​


If you're ready to improve your leadership through self-awareness, explore our leadership development resources to start your journey today. ​


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Anton Guinea, International Safety Leadership Expert and Powerful Speaker

Anton is a leading expert in safety leadership, encompassing both physical and psychological safety. After a near-fatal workplace accident at 21, he transformed his experience into a mission: to ensure that no family receives "that call." Anton collaborates with leaders and organizations committed to achieving world-class safety performance, enhancing safety culture, and fostering high-performing, psychologically safe teams. His speaking, training, consulting, and coaching programs draw on psychology, neurology, and biology, providing actionable strategies for leaders to elevate their safety and leadership practices.

This article is published in collaboration with Brainz Magazine’s network of global experts, carefully selected to share real, valuable insights.

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