Veronica Weedon is the Founder of Revival Health GmbH, an integrative health coaching practice that helps individuals heal holistically after toxic relationships. As a survivor of many toxic relationships herself, with devastating consequences on a mental, emotional, and physical level, Veronica Weedon is no stranger to adversity. After years of her own healing journey, she now helps clients uncover the root cause of their own destructive patterns, reform their beliefs, and transform their relationships and life through a program that addresses health on a mental, emotional, and physical level. Her mission is simple: to create a ripple effect of people so connected to their innate wisdom that their newfound freedom and empowerment not only allows them to create the relationships and life they want, but also becomes the inspiration for others to do the same.
Veronica Weedon, Founder, Revival Health GmbH
Introduce yourself! Please tell us about you and your life, so we can get to know you better.
I am a survivor of narcissistic abuse and am wildly passionate about helping others recover and rebuild their lives after escaping a toxic relationship.
Regarding my personal life, my heart melts like butter every time I just look at my puppy. I feel like I’m connected to something greater when I ride my motorcycle. And I’m obsessed with wellbeing, empowerment and alignment with one's truth.
The seed that led me to coaching was planted when I discovered my athletic abilities in my early teenage years. I found that sport, running in particular, was one of the few things that allowed me to feel free, and at peace with myself. It didn’t take long for me to explore every sport available to me, and begin coaching others. I realised I loved coaching — the process of uncovering what drives people, what holds them back, and in turn, how to support them achieve their full potential. So, I’m excited that I’ve come full circle after many years in the corporate world.
What is your business name and how do you help your clients?
I founded Revival Health GmbH with a mission to help as many people as possible who have ended a toxic relationship to heal emotionally, mentally, and physically, and end the abuse cycle for good.
My work is about helping survivors break the abuse cycle for good. It’s about uncovering the root cause of why they ended up in such destructive and dangerous relationships, and then healing from the inside out.
We start by working on detoxing and strengthening the body. Because changing your physiology changes your psychology.
We work on mindset, because every thought you think has an emotional response and a physical reaction. And every physical condition is based on an emotional root cause.
We work on uncovering and healing old wounds. It’s about being honest with yourself, because truth is the only safe ground to stand upon.
It’s about understanding what really happened to you. Why you are the way you are. And then becoming empowered to choose who you want to be and what you actually want your life to look like. It’s about reconnecting with your intuition, and learning how to use that as your compass moving forward.
What kind of audience do you target your business towards?
I work with survivors of toxic relationships. Amongst a myriad of emotions, some of the feelings my clients are experiencing when they approach me include:
Confusion
they need something to change but don’t know what exactly
they’re still not sure why they can’t stop loving their Ex
Shame
they feel like they wasted so much time by staying in the relationship for as long as they did
they feel stupid because they feel like they allowed the abuse to happen
they compare their life to their friends’ and feel bad for not being further along in life
Fear
they feel lost and are often not sure what their purpose in life is
they are afraid to end up in another toxic relationship again
they worry they will be alone forever
Sadness
they feel lonely and isolated in their situation
they no longer have a witness to their life
they feel unworthy of love
Insecurity
they don’t really trust themself (their entire reality was shattered when they learned everything was a lie)
they often worry about money, and being able to support themself and/or their family
Pain
they often have physical ailments such as chronic fatigue, brain fog, weight issues, chronic pain, etc.
To be a good fit for my program there are two essential decisions that you have to have made:
You made the decision to leave the relationship. In other words, you are out. This is key because you cannot heal in the same environment that made you sick.
You made the decision to improve and invest in yourself, and change the way you approach relationships. This is equally important because if you are still looking to blame others or looking for answers outside of yourself, then nothing can truly shift. Healing is about looking inwards, not outwards. Besides, no matter what you do, you can never change anyone else. You can only ever change yourself.
What would you like to achieve for yourself and your business in the future?
The trauma that results from narcissistic abuse is real. The emotional, mental, and physical consequences can be extremely severe and even lead to death. I believe education is key. Because once you understand how a narcissist operates, they are actually quite easy to spot and predict.
My goal is to educate as many people as possible on the subject of toxic relationships and narcissistic abuse. Personally, I’d love to do this on big stages in the future — the larger the crowd, the better. The more people that understand the topic, the more likely it will be for them to spot the red flags and avoid these types of relationships altogether.
I want people to understand that love is not earned. You don’t work for it. You don’t chase it. You don’t plead for it or buy it. Love is an exchange. A relationship is where you give, receive, and grow, and make the best of yourself together.
Tell us about a pivotal moment in your life that brought you to where you are today.
The road that led me back to coaching was littered with pretty harsh life lessons.
I, like so many women, endured sexual assault as well as a string of relationships that left me ruined — emotionally, mentally, physically, and some even financially — each one worse than the one before. The kicker for me came several years ago — a relationship so toxic it sent me to hospital many times over, left me depleted of all energy and hope, and brain fog so bad I could no longer focus or function properly. I felt weak and ashamed, and could not believe this was my life. But for the first time in my life, I quit something. I got out. And quitting saved my life.
But things got pretty dark for me before they started to get better. I was really lost, felt so alone and overwhelmed.
I started to learn, to understand what had actually happened. I’d never heard of narcissistic abuse and toxic relationships before. Educating myself on the subject was eye-opening and all of a sudden so much made sense. At the same time it was devastating, because my entire reality shattered. Everything I had believed to be true was a lie.
I spent years and fortunes healing — through therapy, courses, books, personal trainers, coaches, travel, education, and so much more. A lot of trial and error.
In the end it all led me to create a program I wish I had had at the beginning of my healing journey. I’ve condensed years and fortunes into a process that can reform, transform, and elevate your relationships and life in just eight weeks.
So, if you are reading this and can identify with any of the symptoms mentioned above, and are looking for support, then book a call with me today. If you’re not quite ready for that yet, then I invite you to join my private facebook group here, where you can find information and resources to help you along your healing journey.
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