Faces In The Mirror – What Is Your Story When You Look In The Mirror?
Written by: Tanisha Taylor, Executive Contributor
Executive Contributors at Brainz Magazine are handpicked and invited to contribute because of their knowledge and valuable insight within their area of expertise.
The faces in the mirror challenge us to embrace imperfection, recognizing that true beauty lies in authenticity and self-acceptance. From the wrinkled face of an older woman bearing the wisdom of a lifetime to the radiant smile of a young girl brimming with hope and possibility, each face in the mirror holds its significance and speaks to the richness of the human experience.
What is your story when you look in the mirror?
The mirror reflects our physical appearance and inner thoughts, feelings, and aspirations. Your time for self-care starts with faces in the mirror. A mirror is something familiar that reflects an accurate picture of something else. It is a reflection device that lets you see yourself through your lenses. As you discover during this time of self-care and self-discovery, what beauty do you see in the mirror?
In the mirror's gleam, faces we trace, Reflections of time, in every face. A symphony of stories woven with grace, In the mirror's gaze, we find our place. Author: Anonymous
When you look in the mirror, what do you see?
In the mirror, a woman might see a reflection of her strength and resilience, a testament to the challenges she has faced and overcome. This reflection can also reveal the aspirations and dreams she holds for herself, sometimes mingling with doubts or fears about her potential and worth. It might reveal a warrior, a nurturer, a creator, a thinker—roles that she embodies and performs, each layer adding to the richness of her identity.
It can serve as a reminder of her uniqueness, evolving story, and unyielding capacity for change and growth. In that reflection, she might also find a sense of solidarity with other women, recognizing the shared struggles and triumphs that weave through their lives.
Moment of Reflection: Grab a mirror and describe what you see and how you feel about what you see. In this moment, be true to yourself and record everything you see.
What is the uniqueness inside of you?
Your uniqueness is like a fingerprint on the universe, a singular mark that cannot be replicated or replaced. It is the way you laugh, the way you see beauty in the overlooked, and the way you rise after a fall. It's in the silent hopes you nurture and the bold dreams you chase, in the way you dance when you think no one is watching, and in the quiet moments when you're truly yourself. What is unique about you?
Moment of reflection: How does God see you? It's beautiful that God looks at us with X-ray vision and sees the inside of us. The Lord does not look at the things man looks at. Man looks at outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.1 Samuel 16:7. God does not judge by external appearance. Galatians 2:6.
When is the best time for a makeover?
An inner makeover involves a transformative journey toward personal growth, self-discovery, and enhanced well-being. Unlike physical makeovers, which focus on external changes, an
inner makeover is a deep, reflective process that fosters resilience, confidence, and a profound sense of peace and fulfillment.
After looking in the mirror, do you need a makeover? Well, if you do, today is your day. All are invited for a makeover. First, let's remove all those things that can sometimes hinder us: low self-esteem, depression, fear, worry, pride, anger, insecurities, and harmful speech. Helpful tips click here.
Moment of reflection: We want to reflect confidence, character, and commitment to Christ. These things are eternal and will not fade away. Fix your eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen, for what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal. 2 Corinthians 4:18
What's in your makeup kit?
Confidence in yourself and your abilities in the makeover process. Building and maintaining trust is a journey that requires patience, practice, and perseverance.
Celebrate your wins: Take time to celebrate your successes, no matter how small. Acknowledging and celebrating your achievements reinforces your self-belief and confidence. Keep Learning – Adopt a growth mindset. View life as a continuous learning journey where you can continually develop new skills and improve. This mindset can boost confidence as you become more competent and knowledgeable.
What if you need confidence? How to achieve it? Confidence is an inside job. If you don't have confidence, look at yourself in the mirror and start believing in yourself. Be kind to yourself.
Treat yourself with the same empathy and understanding you would offer a friend. Remember, self-compassion is not self-indulgence but a way to nurture your self-worth and confidence.
Your confidence in yourself determines how people perceive you. What you say about yourself is essential, too. The spoken word has power. Therefore, we need to see ourselves and speak positively about ourselves. The company you keep is important, too; it can influence your
self-perception. Surround yourself with supportive, positive people who believe in and uplift you.
Moments of reflection: Confidence starts with knowing who you are in Christ. But you are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people belonging to God, that you may declare the praises of him who called you out of darkness into his marvelous light. 1 Peter 2:9
What do you apply that is essential in your makeover?
Character is a combination of qualities or features that distinguish a person. Your character is a testament to the power of enduring love, which builds bridges, heals wounds, and inspires hope in the darkest times. Integrity and honesty are the cornerstones of your character, guiding your actions and interactions with the world.
Shapes your relationships
The quality of your character is reflected in the relationships you build. Honesty, empathy, and integrity attract others and foster meaningful connections. People are drawn to those who treat others respectfully, listen with an open heart, and act with kindness. Your character, therefore, is central to developing and nurturing lasting relationships.
Inspires others
Your character has the power to inspire those around you. By living your values, you set an example for others to follow, encouraging them to live authentically and with integrity. Your character can spark positive change in your community and beyond, demonstrating the transformative power of living a life guided by strong moral principles.
Moments of reflection: The qualities of character you want to be the fruit of the spirit are love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.
Does your belief enhance your makeover?
Believe in the beauty of your individuality. Every woman is a unique tapestry of experiences, thoughts, and talents. Believing in the beauty of your uniqueness allows you to live authentically and fully. Embrace who you are, celebrate your differences, and know that in your individuality lies your power. Spiritual Growth Reflection
A guide for moral compass and purpose
Believing in God shapes our moral compass, guiding us in living a life of integrity, compassion, and purpose. It offers a framework for discerning right from wrong and inspires us to make choices that reflect divine principles. This guidance fosters a life of meaningful impact and fulfillment.
A Community of belief
Belief in God connects us to a community of faith, a spiritual family that supports, uplifts, and encourages one another. This fellowship enriches our spiritual journey, providing companionship, shared wisdom, and a sense of belonging.
Moments of reflection: Is God first in your life? Commit to seeking the kingdom of God first and increase in wisdom and understanding. Committing to Christ produces this beautiful vision of you. When we operate with this behavior, it makes our reflection in the mirror one you will love.
Yes, the inside qualities are essential, but our bodies are the temple of God. It is important to take good care of the outside, too. You can accomplish this by eating healthy, exercising, maintaining good hygiene, and dressing well. Each morning, put on the three C's of makeup so the faces in the mirror genuinely reflect the God in you.
Tanisha Taylor, Executive Contributor Brainz Magazine
Tanisha Taylor, is an inspirational leader in financial, life and ministry wellness. A childhood money encounter with her grandfather created a curiosity for financial matters. She discovered the impact of money to the lives of individuals. She has since dedicated her life to helping others to create healthy and sustainable relationship to money and business without the fear of failure. She is the Founder & CEO of Tanisha Taylor Coaching Training & Resource Center, the exclusive virtual community. Her mission: Control your money relationship.
