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Everything You Are Looking For Is Already Within You

  • Nov 11, 2021
  • 2 min read

Written by: Sílvia Fontquerni Freixa, Executive Contributor

Executive Contributors at Brainz Magazine are handpicked and invited to contribute because of their knowledge and valuable insight within their area of expertise.

"I need to get that promotion to feel fulfilled".


"I have to earn that amount of money to be happy ".


"I need to fix myself to be able to succeed".


"I need to be the best version of myself to feel worthy".


"I need to repeat daily affirmations to boost my self-confidence".

Don’t you get tired of always chasing and trying to fix and change yourself? What if everything you are looking for is already within you? What if there is nothing to be fixed but letting express everything you already have within? It is actually what you have learned that holds you back because you cannot lack what you are made of.


Confidence, happiness, feeling fulfilled, wellbeing, success… everything comes from within. Admiration may provide a temporary good feeling but when that person stops doing that, where does the confidence or happiness go? A promotion may give you a temporary feeling of being worthy, but when all your colleagues are successful and not you, where does this feeling goes? The thing is if you look on the outside rather than the inside what you will find is just something temporary.


What if everything is so much easier? Confidence, happiness, self-esteem, worthiness, love, wellbeing…. They have always been within you.


Have you ever heard about inner wisdom? Gut feeling? Or maybe, the voice of your soul? When was the last time that you listened to it? Maybe you don’t even know what it is. The inner wisdom is not rational, you can just not explain it, it is a feeling, it is an ‘I don’t know how I know but I just know’. Gut feeling is your life guide, the "compass" telling you which direction to take; It is an unlimited source of wisdom and knowledge. What is holding you back from listening to it?


Knowledge, inner wisdom, inner guide, confidence, happiness, worthiness, your full potential… Everything you are looking for is already within you, you just need to look at the right place.


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Sílvia Fontquerni Freixa, Executive Contributor Brainz Magazine

Sílvia is from Barcelona, currently working and living in London, UK. Her work as a coach consists of helping individuals and professionals be at their best not only at the workplace but also in personal life. She studied Psychology, Human Resources, and Coaching. As a Life Coach, she gives support and guidance so that clients can unleash their full potential and, as a result, be able to achieve their goals: build self-confidence, overcome fears & self-limitations, gain clarity to make the right decisions, and be able to awake their inner wisdom. As Workplace & Team Coach, she helps professionals maximize their performance and development in communication, team building/engagement, emotional intelligence, and leadership. She understands the importance of a leadership role in companies aligned with organization culture, values, and goals. Innovation and change are key to a company's success.

 
 

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