Written by: Alexandra Holovitz, Executive Contributor
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What is hypnosis? Hypnosis is a deeply relaxing state where the subconscious mind opens up to receive a suggestion. Many people think that during hypnosis, you fall asleep. However, this is far from the truth. Hypnosis actually awakens you. It awakens your mind, body, and senses for more and deeper pleasure.
What happens during hypnosis:
During hypnosis, the conscious (thinking) brain switches off, so we can reach the subconscious. It's a safe, relaxed, yet alert state, where your focus increases and you become more open to transformation. Sex happens in the gamma stage of the human brain.
When in a trance, your brain can activate ecstatic experiences, such as a hands-free orgasm. So it's true; all real action happens between your ears, not between your legs.
It's a popular myth that you can be asked to do things during hypnosis. However, that would never happen in real life. Instead, you are given suggestions, and the participant's brain will keep consciousness and only act on principles it agrees on. From my point of view, hypnosis can bring your subconscious's limiting beliefs or blocks around sexuality to the surface.
Whether you realize it or not, you are being hypnotized daily. Hypnotic language has been used in movies, tv programs, magazines, etc.
Research shows that people with higher intelligence levels and creativity respond more significantly to being hypnotized. There are two types of hypnosis: auto-hypnosis (self-hypnosis) or hetero-hypnosis ( hypnotizer walks you through the process), both entitled to raise your consciousness in a highly relaxing trance state.
What is an erotic hypnosis:
Erotic hypnosis can make you become a better lover, and your sex life can be made more intense, fun, and pleasurable. The phenomenon is also called a hands-free orgasm or "Hypno sex.” Erotic hypnosis is a way to seduce someone through their mind. This type of hypnosis can enhance intimacy, love, and trust in the couple's relationship, all the while boosting their sex life and giving them the best orgasms.
When applying erotic hypnosis, women can feel more sexually desired, experience increased sexual libido, and eliminate shame and guilt about any sexual desires they may have. During hypnosis, we enter a deeply relaxed state called a trance. In a trance, the brain becomes more alert and focuses on verbal suggestions. Suggestions are short messages; words can trigger certain emotions within our brains. A sexy voice can guide you to places in your mind that you never knew existed.
Our brain can't tell the difference between reality and vivid memory. That’s why erotic hypnosis can feel like a real ecstatic orgasm without being actually touched.
Some people can easily fall into hypnosis just by listening to a pleasant voice. If it’s erotic hypnosis, it can easily lead to a sexually freeing experience and a hypnosis orgasm.
(Remember, ladies, everything happens up between your ears - all pleasure starts in the brain!)
An interesting fact about female orgasm:
Women can have at least five different types of orgasms! Female orgasm is indeed more complex than men's. However, it's nothing to do with your physical ability. More than that, women need to feel completely relaxed, comfortable, and safe and have some level of emotional stability and connection to themselves or their partner to reach an orgasm.
What are the 5 most common types of female orgasm out there:
1. Clitoris Orgasm
Clitoris orgasm is the most common type of female orgasm. Most women can reach orgasm by rubbing the clitoris and the area around it, by using their fingers, or by using a vibrator on the clitoris. The clitoris has a million little nerves running through it. It is the super-sensitive “magic bottom” that, by the right stimulation, can help women reach orgasm the easiest and fastest way.
2. Vaginal Orgasm
Vaginal orgasm can be achieved by G-spot stimulation or having intercourse with your partner or using your favorite vibrator to pleasure your yoni. (yoni = vagina) Less sensitive for most women than the clitoris area. However, if you can have a vaginal orgasm, it’s a more intense orgasm. Man finds this type of orgasm super sexy as they make you vaginal orgasms credited due to their “magic wand” and TLC abilities.
3. Joint Orgasm
A joint orgasm is when more than one erogenous zone has been stimulated simultaneity for reaching orgasm. It can be the clitoris, vagina, and anus area. The more stimulation is, the better chance to have the best orgasm, maybe even multiple orgasms.
4. Anal Orgasm
For some women, it's still a taboo area. No entry. No back door fun. It's considered 'something only the bad girls do, or it's for porn stars.' Today there are heaps of anal (starters) toy kits to start exploring. Give it a try before quitting it. Make sure to lubricate and start with something small. Back-door plays are the same as any sexual activity. The more you do it, the better you become. Practice makes perfect and builds confidence. With time it gets easier. However, it might not be your thing at all, don't force it on yourself. Anal sex has to be something both partners agree on and are willing to explore (without fear)! Otherwise, you are set up for failure before you even start!
5. Hands-free Orgasm
I am a firm believer that people's biggest sex organ is the brain—the place where everything is related to all things. Good news, guys, if you learn to communicate with the right vocal tone and use some seductive, hypnotic language, your lady will be on her knees in no time. Mastering hypnotic language will spice up your dating life.
Many times, it is not what you say but how you say it that matters. Mastering your voice will give you great success with women. Hypnotic language can help you make a connection with the ladies instantly, pick and persuade them to do almost anything you like, communicate with them, and make them feel you speak their language. Last but not least, using hypnotic words can give you a better lover in bed. Saying a few sexy words during sex can help women reach the best orgasms (men, too!).
The mindf*** of the 21st century:
What's your ideal man in bed? - I asked my friend the other day.
"I want someone who can "mindf***" me while we are having sex." - she stated her desire.
So what’s the "mindfuck" of the 21st century?
It's erotic hypnosis. During “hypo-sex," you can get completely relaxed, comfortable, and open about your sexual desires and fantasies and communicate those openly with your partner during sex - that’s why they often incorporate this into BDSM role-plays.
You can call upon a sex scene when you both were very aroused and had a memorable sexual experience. Remember: The brain can't distinguish between reality and vivid memories, especially when in an aroused state. So why not use this to your advantage?
Have you noticed within your relationship that saying certain things during sex can sexually trigger your partner's mental and physical state? Maybe even get him/her to reach hypnosis orgasm instantly?
If you master erotic education and guidance before getting down to ‘business,’ your partner can experience a hypnosis orgasm ( aka HFO ) without you doing anything to them physically.
Example:
You are having dinner at a fancy restaurant. You can’t reach one another physically, so you start using seductive language that you build into your conversations. Sit back and watch what happens to her/him.
Example:
There is a woman in a bar, and two guys are trying to chat her up. One is physically attractive but is unable to say much. The other man, who is not particularly her type, can always say the right things at the right time.
I’m sure you all think of a situation when you did not particularly fancy a guy, but something he said just magnified your brain and set your mind and pussy on fire. That's what hands-free hypnosis does to you. Giving you a chance to open your thoughts to possibilities and experience a hand-free orgasm without being touched. I know it sounds crazy, but once you have experienced it, you understand what I'm talking about.
Try hypnosis orgasm for yourself:
You might not believe any of what you just read up until now or maybe you might have heard some negative rap when it comes to hypnosis. But we all use hypnosis daily to some extent. You hypnotize yourself while reading a book or watching a movie.
Best example: We regularly are hypnotized by television commercials.
It's not by accident how all the ads follow each other in every single movie break. They are also suggestions that depend on how much your brain accepts them. You can take them on board.
Why not hands-free hypnotize yourself, becoming a sex goddess/god in bed instead?
I would rather reach multiple hypnosis orgasms instead of having another commercial suggesting taking a pill against a headache; hypnosis also works well for pain-relieving (headaches). Give it a try before claiming the 'I have a headache excuse, which can lead to sexless nights and even more headaches for your man. Headaches caused by a long night out can be cured quickly by having morning sex. Hypnosis or regular orgasm helps boost your blood flow and cleans your head.
15 easy steps to start hands-free self-hypnosis:
1. Find a comfortable space where you won't be disturbed
2. Sit down and start focusing on your breath
3. Breathe in and out with the same slow pacing
4. Start visualizing a white light
5. Meditate on the light
6. Imagine the light running through your body, clearing space, healing your blockages
7. Make the first positive suggestion (make it related to the subject of your hypnosis)
8. Start counting 1,2,3
9. Tell yourself to breathe deeper and go deeper
10. Make the 2nd positive suggestion
11. Start counting 4,5,6
12. Suggest to yourself to go more in-depth and become more relaxed
13. Make the 3rd positive suggestion
14. Count 7,8,9
15. Say, 'By the time I reach 10, I will open my eyes and feel XYZ ( put what you like to experience)'.
You can guide yourself or your partner through erotic hypnosis as foreplay. Create a "magic word" that you will use during the countdowns. A magic word can be “sexy," "pleasure," "surrender," or whatever you want to experience, or whatever words you can relate to. This magic word will be the power switch during the hypnosis suggestions that help you get into the trance state where suggestions can work best.
Example:
You walk across the bedroom and look at him while he lies on the bed. You say the mantra, "I feel sexy and surrender to pleasure" - Repeat this statement three times during your self-hypnosis and next time, watch what happens when you are activated in this state. You can easily slip in and out of hypnotic states - all you need to do is tap it into your fingertips. When you link a suggestion to an anchor word, snap your fingers. Next time when you snap your fingers, you can instantly feel that state of being a sexy, powerful woman. If you plan to do hypnosis on yourself for multiple things, just tap states in various places on the body so your brain doesn't get confused.
A client of mine wanted to reach orgasm whenever she would touch or rub her left elbow.
The Process:
As her hypnotist, I guided her through the relaxation process. I helped her visualize a sexual play earlier where she reached the best orgasm by rubbing her clitoris.
Once we had that memory, I supported her in getting into a profound and relaxed state by breathing and connecting with the sensation of orgasm. I gave her positive suggestions about how sensitive her left elbow is. I encouraged her to feel the orgasmic state again. I redirected her focus on how she would feel the next time she touched her elbows with the same circular motions as she touched her clit. I asked her to touch her left elbow as she would touch her clit, then guided her into a deeper trance. From there, I snapped my fingers and permitted her to have the clitoris orgasm. After that, it has been tapped into her elbow. Now when she is wanting to have a quick pleasure session with herself, she just touches her left elbow and feels the same similar excitement as though she was touching her clit.
I find the power of the brain fascinating and love what we can achieve when we set our minds to it.
Rubbing your elbow and having an orgasm? Incredible.
The possibilities are limitless with hypnosis orgasms:
Most people only use 3% of their brains. Imagine the possibilities once you master your mind and are able to give some positive suggestions to it. What can happen? Maybe you will be just like my friend, who can now reach her best orgasm pretty much anytime, anywhere. A huge mood booster on a mundane office day!
Example:
A male client reported reaching multiple orgasms just by listening to a pre-recorded hypno-audio I created for him.
He explained, “As I closed my eyes and listened to your sexy voice, I felt my entire body sink deeper into the mattress as I let go of control: a similar feeling when I practice meditation, but much deeper. I felt quickly relaxed and at total ease. It felt reassuring, calm, and peaceful to be there. It was somehow a familiar feeling; similar to when a lover has held you. Yeah, I felt safe. I went deeper into a trance. I stopped thinking and just felt tingling in my body, as your voice seduced me deeper and deeper. My mind was alert for a moment: Omg, what is happening?
Then I let go and felt deep craving wanting to touch myself.... but keep my hands away, grabbing the sheets, trying just to let go of whatever my brain can process at this stage and let her voice guide me through this beautiful, almost out-of-body experience. My entire body was shaking, trashing up and down on the bed, and I felt warm with sweat running down on my cheeks to my breast. My soul felt free. My heart opened. It was a sensation like I can fly. I felt joyous; a feeling that comes to me when I am connected with the divine around and within me, almost like being in love. Then you suggested: "Ride that pleasure wave." I breakthrough and BANG, my whole body started climaxing and holy f*** I reached orgasm, multiple ones. It wasn't just an orgasm. It was some earth-shattering magical hands-free orgasm; all coming from my brain. Crazy, but it did work. Thank you, thank you, Alexandra, for this remarkable recording and healing pleasure."
I'm sure he will be back for some more.
Are you interested in trying hypnosis or hypno-sex?
You can listen to this ORGASMIC body scan recording to get a teaser of what it's like to surrender to the pleasure of my voice. I hope you found this article interesting enough to give it a try and embark on erotic hypnosis, a Hypno-sex journey. You can try self-hypnosis or reach out to me to get hypnotized. Feel free to share your HFO journey. Choose a "magic word" that can instantly trigger your sexuality for an ecstatic state and multiple orgasms.
Ps: Don't get disappointed if you don't succeed for the first time.
I practice guided meditations daily; getting into and out of a trance takes some time. Just be willing, open, and curious to explore! Have an orgasmic day!
Hypnotic Hello my loves,
Alexandra
Alexandra Holovitz, Executive Contributor Brainz Magazine
Alexandra is a tantric sexuality coach & hypnotherapist.
She is known for her honest, passionate, and authentic coaching style.
She works with high achieving men in their 40' helping them to stop self-sabotaging and step into their true power by healing negative emotional responses and gaining self-confidence and value for the true self.
She empowers men to become 'Modern Warriors' through somatics, mindset, and self-compassion.
She believes in holistic healing (mind-body-soul) to awaken sexual energy, power, and purpose to thrive in life and business with deep connection, love, and passion!
Her mission is to empower 1 Million Men via self-actualization and sexual mastery.
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