Written by: Vince Morales, Senior Level Executive Contributor
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In the journey of personal and professional development, deconstructing and reconstructing yourself is paramount. As we navigate through the complexities of our careers and personal lives, the need to periodically reassess, realign, and rebuild our professional identity and personal self-image becomes inevitable. This transformative journey can be likened to the metamorphosis of a caterpillar into a butterfly—a process that necessitates both dissolution and renewal.
Deconstruction: Understanding and unpacking the self
Deconstruction involves a profound and often challenging examination of one's beliefs, values, habits, and the essence of one's self-identity. This process is not about self-denigration but about self-awareness and understanding. It requires us to question the foundations upon which we have built our lives and careers, allowing us to identify what serves our growth and what hinders it.
Self-awareness: Begin by fostering a deep sense of self-awareness. As Socrates famously said, "The unexamined life is not worth living." Engage in reflective practices such as journaling, meditation/reflection, and asking for feedback to gain insights into your personal and professional self.
Belief examination: Challenge your core beliefs. Ask yourself whether they are based on truths or misconceptions. This step is crucial for dismantling limiting beliefs that may obstruct your growth path.
Habit analysis: Scrutinize your daily habits and behaviors. Determine which ones contribute to your success and which ones detract from it. Remember, as Aristotle put it, "We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act but a habit."
Reconstruction: Rebuilding and reinventing the self
Once the deconstruction process lays bare the foundational elements of our being, we embark on the reconstruction journey—deliberately choosing who we want to become and how we wish to manifest our potential in the world.
Vision creation: Envision your ideal self and professional identity. What qualities do you wish to embody? What impact do you want to have? Carl Jung said, "Those who look outside, dream about that which they want to become, as if they have not already arrived. Those that look inside, awaken to the ideal that they are already complete, just as they are."
Goal setting: With your vision in mind, set specific, measurable, achievable, relevant, and time-bound (SMART) goals. This step transforms your vision into actionable objectives.
Skill development and habit formation: Invest in yourself. Acquire new skills and knowledge that align with your goals. Cultivate productive habits that propel you toward your vision. Remember, as Jim Rohn famously said, "Your level of success will seldom exceed your level of personal development."
Maintaining momentum: Ensuring continuous growth
Deconstructing and reconstructing oneself is not a one-time event but a continuous cycle of growth and development. Maintaining momentum requires resilience, adaptability, and a lifelong commitment to learning.
Continuous learning: Embrace the mindset of a lifelong learner. The world is constantly evolving, and so should you. As Alvin Toffler once said, "The illiterate of the 21st century will not be those who cannot read and write, but those who cannot learn, unlearn, and relearn."
Feedback loops: Establish mechanisms for regular feedback. This will help you stay aligned with your goals and make necessary adjustments.
Resilience building: Cultivate resilience. Challenges and setbacks are inevitable, but as Nelson Mandela beautifully reminded us, "The greatest glory in living lies not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall."
“Deconstructing and reconstructing oneself is essential for professionals aiming for continuous growth and development. By embracing this transformative process, we evolve as individuals and elevate our contribution to the world around us. This journey, though demanding, is rich with the promise of fulfillment and excellence. Embrace it with courage, and let the journey sculpt the essence of your being into its most potent and impactful form.” – Eric Roth, ‘The Curious Case of Benjamin Button’ screenplay
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Vince Morales, Senior Level Executive Contributor Brainz Magazine
Vince Morales is a mindset, self-image, and resilience coach. In addition, he is skilled in leadership consultation and development. From April 2016 to June 2017, Vince was a homeless veteran in San Diego, CA. While homeless, he made a powerful decision to change his thinking and mindset, launching into life coaching. He developed a niche for resilience and mindset coaching. The growth of his business ultimately led to the end of his homelessness. Vince is the Founder of Validus Coaching & Consulting, formerly Zoe Transformation. His story has been featured in online articles and online news outlets all over the U.S. He is a certified John Maxwell Team Coach, Trainer, & Speaker, as well as a motivational speaker. In 2021, Vince earned his Master's degree in Psychology of Leadership from Penn State University and is currently a doctoral student pursuing a Ph.D. in Performance Psychology. He is a 2020 inductee into The National Society of Leadership and Success.
